Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I've never turned down a kink or fetish my partners have had. What's the point in being with someone if you're just going to keep saying no or only doing a small subset of what you know they enjoy? Am I missing something?
It's wild how many people complain about their partners not doing things they would like to do.
Anyone else find it strange when people refuse to fulfill kinks and fantasies that their partner desires?
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10 56It happens, if you start dating someone you just can’t blurt out on the first date that you like fire hydrants up your ass while he whistles Dixie. You have to reveal that stuff as you gain trust in each other. Ultimately you 2 may not be compatible because you are on 2 different kink levels.
Yes. I'd fulfill any kink my partner had I love to please my partner sexually
That's y we're here. Lol
I get not wanting to. I have never said no to trying something my wife wants. However, she is DEFINITELY not into my kinks.. like face fucking and facial cumahots.
Given your name, why do you wait until your boyfriend is asleep? Don't you want him to enjoy the sex too? but I digress - - - -
I agree. My wife COULD be more adventurous- won't even try pineapple and ham pizza.
Some fantasies are best left fantasies
I am a person with a tons of kinks but it a unreasonable and unrealistic to suggest your partner to do them. I ain't saying your partner shouldn't do them but you have to find somebody is willing to do kinks a person with kinks of them own, if you dating or marry to a person who logically doesn't know or don't enjoy kinks than logically forcing them to do something they isn't interested in than you guys have both a problem in your hands.
No. I find it perfectly normal not to do a thing you absolutely hate just cause your partner likes it.
Some people are just not into kink, it's as simple as that. Fortunately there are plenty of people that are.
doesn't it feel strange to tell your parnter "no i dont want to do the things you enjoy?" seems insane
I dont think so. I feel like I'm open minded when it comes to sex, but there are absolutely things that I wouldn't indulge.
It depends on the kink, not everyone is comfortable with doing certain things.
Very true and good point… it’s seems many people want certain things done but when it comes time for them to reciprocate all bets are off.
I'd do most anything for my partner. There are some kinks I just wouldn't do, but I don't worry because I know she's not interested in those anyway !!
Yes it's strange, try to please your partner's desires.
It's not weird, it's called boundaries...
And that's why people need to find someone compatible.
It's a trial error phase.
When I am with someone sexually it's almost all on the table there is only a few things I will not do. I'm open to try almost anything.
exactly! anything else seems so odd
Yeah, that sounds sad to me.
I don’t know if it’s weird but i think I've had good luck in that. I’m good to help someone out and I appreciate being helped out. Lol
Considering that I am 50Yo and married to a 24Yo the daddy issues have cum up
Luckily my wife is pretty cool with my deviancies.
My attitude is to be openminded and try ANYTHING ONCE within some boundaries and hard limits. For example, I'm hetero ONLY & will NOT engage in activities that may cause serious harm, maim, injury, or death.