Anyone else find strong spankings that leave red hand marks and hickeys stupid?

The title says it all, so does anyone else find strong spankings to the point that they leave hand marks and hickeys stupid? I sure do. When you start to do that during sex, it's like it's not even harmless and enjoyable sex anymore, it actually HARMS and HURTS. Spankings are supposed to hurt others, it's also used mostly on little kids to make them stop being bad, and than you bring that into sex, seriously? Maybe a few playful spankings that don't leave marks at all and barley hurt are ok but spankings that do hurt and leave marks, no, just no. Hickeys are just plain painful and aggressive kissing territory markings that burst blood vessels and leave ugly marks and bruises, bursting blood vessels and leaving marks to mark one's so called "territory" is REALLY stupid. Hello, we're human beings not animals to mark territory like that. Maybe lightly open mouth kissing on the neck during sex that doesn't leave marks and hurt is ok, but hickeys no, just no, basically the same thing as with the spankings. And that's why I hate hard spankings and hickeys. It's just really stupid and retarded like that. Not saying you're a bad person if you like doing them, but it's just an really idiotic thing to do.
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Most people answering "no" just shows how fucked up our society is, it's like saying "Aw yeah! Hurt me more! I'm so aroused by being hurt!".
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I do find hickeys sorta stupid but I've never had one and sorta want one just for the experience of it, may sound dumb but who hasn't had a hickey before just seems weird to me that I've never had one so that's why I want one. I love getting spanked turns me on so much, I've never looked after to see if there was a hand print. My current bf hasn't spanked me and I miss it but I think he's sorta against it because he's very gentle with me.

  • Personally, I like it. I do agree that some people take it too far though.

    • That is why you need to have an agreed upon safe word :)

  • I don't like hickeys I think there awful but I love spankings!

    • I've wondered what spanking felt like

    • @DomTreddo have you never been spanked before?

    • @DomTreddo you've never been spanked in any way?

Most Helpful Guys

  • No I don't spanking can be very erotic and very sensual some women become more aroused the harder the spanking

  • some of us are spankos bro. We like it. We need it. For sexual purposes but also for disciplinary purposes.

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  • Spanking = HOT

    sorry dude!

    • That's an OPINION, and how is slapping another person hard on the ass hot? It's like saying that being hurt, harmed, and hit is hot.

    • A red mark on ones rear end does not equal maimed/bruised/abused. And of course its an opinion that's what you were asking for after all :)

    • And its hot because, IN MY OPINION, its kinky and a little dirty/naughty. Not like you have to do it for every day! But variety is the spice of life right? :)

  • It really depends on the individual, some find it arousing, others are repulsed by it. There really isn't an objective opinion on this one.

  • I love spankings and hickeys

    • And lucky is the man that you have :)

    • I know right. You better tell em LOL!!! @Niceguyscumlast

    • Ha ha ha I will be happy to

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  • I love spanking and red marks no hickeys though

  • No, it all depends on what you are into! Nothing wrong with it at all!

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