Anyone else not had sex in years?

4 yEaRS !!!

I have been extremely single and I want to get out of this rut…

I haven’t met anyone I’ve tried dating apps and it’s been 4 years 😳
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  • Yeah that's going to be tough to come by, but definitely get rid of dating apps you have to actually meet people and physically see and feel them out. Social media or dating apps can be very deceiving if you can't use a great deal of discernment. But also since you've been single for 4 years and maybe difficult because you've been out of the loop and you don't want to feel pressured or you're probably quite comfortable. Definitely easier way into a gradually.

    Yeah, the last time I did that was long as I'm going there was a year and a half and I remained loyal because the woman that I was with and wanted was overseas. Good grief that was hard lol

Most Helpful Guy

  • Women can "if they choose to" get laid in 5 minutes. Just not be fat and put on something tight, done. Even handsome men have a difficult time getting a date, much less actual sex. Not really feeling too sorry for ya right now, k..

Most Helpful Girls

  • Forget dating applications, and go out into the real world. Meet real people, people who can't pretend to be someone they're not, people who can't send you fake photos or lie about who they are or what they do or what they look like.

  • So sad that things haven’t been working out for you. Have you tried getting out of the house more? Even basic things like running errands can lead to meeting someone randomly.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I have never used dating apps. All of my partners have been people I meet in normal life. You should consider the people you know.

  • with the virus i had about 2 years off

  • Not since my wife's passing. So 11 years.

    • Are you against finding someone new after your wife, or has it just not happened yet?

  • 19 yEaRS !!! 🤣🤣

  • 5 for me. I wonder if I'll ever have sex again? lol

  • I prefer masturbation these days

  • During a nasty divorce, I abstained for over two years. It took another year before I "soaked it" again. Yes, I came like a race horse.

  • Im a virgin so I got you beat.

  • ME!! ME!!
    I haven't had a date in at least 15 years and that was just with a friend and I haven't had sex in 22.5 years!!
    I also want to get out of this rut and get back into rut!!

  • The longest (and only) break (not counting the time before I lost my viginity) was 6 months.

  • I haven't had sex in a year 😳 yeah it sucks

  • A whole 4 years, huh.

  • Its been a while for me too. No luck on the apps. No time to go out and meet people either. The struggle is real lol

  • What do you think is keeping you from having sex?

  • I have been single for 8 years and haven't sex for 8 years.

  • I’m still waiting until marriage. My only girlfriend died about 10 years ago before completely tying the knot.
    4 years is nothing.

  • single women are single by choice

  • I'm a virgin

  • It's been a grip, but I'm more than okay with that. I don't do hookers, I've been in 3 long term pretty much married relationships and lost count of the friends with benefits. I'd rather just use my hand, no drama, no expectations, no boundaries :)

  • Why though? Haven’t found the guy or girl for you?

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