Anyone else notice that fuckboys have a tendency to block and unblock recklessly?

[Anonymous]

I have had a few encounters and noticed that when a fuckboy blocks you they usually unblock you over time because they are horny. A guy that blocked me and said he never wants to see me again (In 2018) decided to unblock me yesterday and messaged me because he “just wanted to say hi.” Probably he just wanted to hook up otherwise why would he bother. I just told him no thank you and blocked his ass.
There’s another guy who keeps blocking and unblocking me as well but no message yet. I always used to think I was the problem but I guess it’s theirs.

[Anonymous]

I’ve dealt with my fair share of fuckboys. As a fuckgirl myself, I’ve seen my more sensitive friends fall victims to the games fuckboys play. What I can confidently tell you is that if they block you, you were annoying them too much. Because I’ve never been blocked but I’ve seen it happen to my friends 🤷‍♀️ The strategy is to not be fazed by any of their games. Don’t be the first to text them, unless y’all have a routine. Be good in bed. And please, keep your emotions out of it.

[Asker]

I don’t agree getting blocked is a measure of who you are especially if they are unblocking you after. It’s more like they want to “move on” and then change their minds because nobody wants them anymore. There’s another guy who’s still invested in blocking and unblocking although I have not contacted him in year. Also I refrain from contacting these dudes because I want someone proper lol.

[Opinion Owner]

If they’re trying to move on, you didn’t satisfy their needs. Also, these dudes have a “out of sight, out of mind” mentality so if you weren’t even popping up on their phone they wouldn’t feel the need to block you.

[Asker]

I still don’t agree. As I already said, I haven’t contacted these guys in over 2 years so your argument of “out of sight, out of mind” doesn’t actually make sense. And also babe, if I wasn’t satisfying their “needs” then I don’t want them either. I have other things to offer other than my vagina, like my hobbies, personality, humour and intelligence. I know its hard for you to relate because you said yourself that you are a “fuckgirl”. Yes you are probably good in bed but I don’t see why guys would take you seriously other than that. They will probably choose to settle down with a girl more like me.

[Opinion Owner]

Some of us women don’t want to settle down. Besides, if you don’t satisfy your man sexually, he will cheat. A fair share of the men I sleep with are married 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

Good job!

[Avicenna]

Hadn't noticed that, no