Anyone else think some of the Sexuality questions are weird?

[connie9888]

I’m not trying to complain but I feel like some of those posts are just TMI sometimes

[CrazyGirl2]

No, you are not alone. And sure, some of them may seem very much like TMI, but I guess my biggest issue is when guys ask questions which are either directly designed to get them off, or they read the answers that women leave, then they reply with things like: ”give me explicit details” okay they may not word it exactly like that… but make no mistake, that IS what they are asking for when they ask “what happened next” or “how did that start, exactly”, “what exactly did you two do”, “where did he touch you”, or “how exactly do you (fill in the blank)” or worst of all “can I DM you” (Not least because that last one is grammatically incorrect, and should read “MAY I DM you..) etc…
Hell, I don’t even mind answering the same old questions worded with slight differences over and over again, but I do most certainly prefer questions with some originality. And I most definitely prefer it when the OP doesn’t ask for intimate details that if I wanted to give, I would have included it in my answer! But I truly think it weird when someone asks a sexuality related question, as if it were an audition for a sexting partner!

[connie9888]

Exactly! Like some guys will say it’s a poll and then they’ll ask multiple sexual questions like they’re looking for a relationship or a mate 🤦‍♀️

[CrazyGirl2]

Oh yes! Or worse are the creeps who ask a fairly vague sexual question, NBD. But then he insists on replying to every single girl asking for specific details! Ewwww!

[ChrisMaster69]

@crazygirl2 ohh you sound yummy do you come here often? 🫣🙄

[CrazyGirl2]

@ChrisMaster69 See, just like THAT guy! 😂

[connie9888]

@CrazyGirl2 Exactly! Like if it’s a vaguely sexual question I don’t really mind too much, but like when they start asking about details and experiences that’s when it’s so gross 😩 And the craziest part is that they’re not even your friend or anything, just a complete stranger! @ChrisMaster69 Oh my gosh yes! 😂 That’s a perfect example right there, guys like those just give you the creeps completely

[ChrisMaster69]

@crazygirl2 hehe was too tempting @connie9888 yep so very true, they also use a fake pink account and then troll replies with their blue etc

[CrazyGirl2]

@connie9888 Yes, exactly! That’s exactly what I’m talking about. I don’t mind answering the vague questions, basic generalities! I mean every one masturbates, but when they start asking “when did you last do it”, “how exactly did you do it”, “did you use a toy”? “What kind of panties are you wearing?” There is a HUGE friggin’ difference between asking a generic vague question and getting THAT specific! But these guys get exactly that specific! I only wish everyone saw how weird and disgusting it is. Not to mention disrespectful! I mean, when I answer a generic vague sex question, I consent to answering a generic, vague sex question. What I do not consent to is to give the deepest, most intimate personal details of my personal private sex life… even if I happen to be alone in that moment! It’s a violation, it’s like a complete betrayal of my good will in answering that guy’s question. I just wish everyone would say something to him (whomever he is) maybe if everyone else in the forum condemned anyone who did that… I don't know, maybe it would stop… or at least slow down?

[connie9888]

@CrazyGirl2 I hear you girl 😩 I think if more people shined a light on these little creepers that ask these kinds of questions there wouldn’t be as many weirdos crawling around here I also get the feeling that those guys honestly don’t have much experience in socializing with girls or much of anything sexual, so I guess maybe they can’t control those impulses as much

[CrazyGirl2]

@connie9888 okay, if thats what needs to be done, then let’s do it! We need a list, so everyone who would be willing pt pub;ic;y shame a guy for inappropriate “giggidy, gissidy, doo”

[laurieluvsit]

Maybe at 13, yes.

Here is what you do to solve the problem...

1) Go to feed above and click on "Live Feed". This is just to refresh your page in case you are not on the main home page.
2) Now below that bar you will see the "Category" selections. Click on the one to the right that says 17+
3) Below all the topics you will see "MANAGE TOPICS"
4) Click on that and scroll down to "Sexuality" and click on "Unfollow"

Voila, now your problem is solved! :)

[noamazia]

well... that's what this site is suppposed to be. to ask questions. adding to that the anonimity of the internet, then you can get actual answers without worrying of consequences or biases, since none of the readers know you or have any impact on your life.
ofc some of those are just troll, or people trying to fish for something. but i thinkmost of the times it's a legitimate way of asking questions and we shouldn't berate those people.
plus, you might learn something from those details. you can't ask about stuff you don't know that you don't know. or at least that there are people who live and think in a completely different way than you.

[8Bit_LYNX]

Beautifully said

[noamazia]

@8Bit_LYNX thanks man. appreciate that.

[josephinelcajon]

As you get older so will your sexuality. try and think back before puberty and you may remember the thought of all of this was degusting. You will go through that growth several more times. Talk and answer only what you are comfortable with and use the anonymous option if you do want to ask or answer publicly.

[purplepoppy]

What you have to remember is 90% of the guys here have no sexual experience beyond beating the meat to internet porn. As a result they develop weirder and weirder fetishes further reducing the chance a woman will risk being in the same room as them.
That's why I try to balance things out by asking serious questions.

[connie9888]

Yeah you’re right, I forgot most of them are probably inexperienced about anything sexual so they probably just throw up whatever they’re thinking without thinking it through. Hope I don’t run into one of those guys irl 😩

[Genie23]

Some? Most of the them are indeed weird. Extremely weird, but then again most of them are just trolls posting these questions, hence I usually don't answer sexuality topics related questions.

[England4eva]

Absolutely, I don’t reply to them. The world is becoming far to comfortable with publicly declaring bedroom preferences. It’s called a ‘private life’ for a reason.

[TonyMetal___86]

Very true! That's why a married couple's sex life is only related to them and no one is allowed to know what happens between a man and his wife in bed and in their whole house... The relationship between a man and a woman after marriage is sacred!

[England4eva]

@TonyMetal___86 I have never been comfortable talking about sex, even to friends. I’m glad I get uncomfortable, it’s definitely an asset.

[TonyMetal___86]

Because you're feeling is the right feeling, no one needs to know about you're intimacy... Sex should be something only between a husband and a wife...

[TonyMetal___86]

Talking about it can be done between a boyfriend and his girlfriend before marriage...

[ChrisMaster69]

The thing is a lot of the questions are ask by MIMB’s who are looking to lure their next victim.

At times they will ask with their blue account, other times they use their pink account, then some days, they forget which account they have logged in with.

Often they will post a relatively straightforward question as an Anon, then use another account to ask for explicit stuff from the pinks giving opinions (some of whom will also be guys…).

[DonkeyDan]

Many of them are very weird, some people on here are very mentally challenged!

[DryGermanGuy]

Welcome to troll central. Enjoy your stay.

(That's why I suggested several times now to block Xper1 users from both the "sexuality" topic and the anonymous posting function).

[SarahP080102]

Probably due to your age

[connie9888]

Yeah you’re probably right, I guess I’m more surprised at some of the things they say and how open they are

[Dargil]

Some of the questions guys (and guys disguised as girls) ask are crude and vulgar. Many technical questions may be TMI but still seek just information.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Most aren't even questions they are just weird information with a question mark at the end

[oldguystillhasit]

Some posts are way too long by the time you read four or five paragraphs they are wanting advice far different from their headline.. I understand that most questions are from the sexually inexperienced are repeated over and over and that's OK.

[BarryLiverstone]

I agree with you

[KoolKidKv93]

Sueshe definitely does

[collie22]

agree

[oldermale]

Some are just asked for attention I think, most are sincere I think..

[OnyxianGhostsLove]

Not at all
But I do find it weird that some people report questions they are insecure about?
That is very telling.

[OddBeMe]

Yeah…but that’s why I come back to gag. I always wonder if they’re trolling or these sex stories are true.

[Zolly99999]

Some are a little " different" .. but if someone is truly curious then why not..

[Xoirwinkan]

At 13 you shouldn't be reading them.

[2021biguy]

Some people are just bored, others are just very weird people with weird minds and strange behaviors.

[bananathunder]

they can be fun. Probably posted by people that were horny at the time of writing lol

[8Bit_LYNX]

Agreed