Anyone here have an open relationship?

How does yours work? What do you consider yourself? Swinger/open/poly etc? What are some rules you all have?
Anyone here have an open relationship?
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  • No I have never been in one but I have met girls online that have traveled to meet up we had always done fantasy role plays phone sex on the phone and just by the things that I would say and do during both of these we get to go very hot there are swingers clubs in my town there are adult bookstores and she has many fantasies and I told her that I would help her with these if she ever came to meet me well it happened and it was quite fun so I guess in a way even though we are just fuck buddies on the phone and in life it is somewhat of a little bit of an open relationship did I would help her fulfill her fantasies and basically mine too

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  • When I was in one the rules we had were basically to share and never keep secrets. We were both bi. I we could kiss other people but only in the presence of our SO. We could have sex with other people but only if they were there with us or if we took pictures to show afterwards. But mostly we would just get together in threesomes or more for group fun. Sometimes she'd say something like "My friend just broke up. would you scratch her itch?"

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  • Kind of. I can do stuff with people online/phone, but it can't spill into offline. Could even technically date them if i wanted to though I'm not sure how that is supposed to work lmao

    The person I just ended things with would just mostly hang out and play games and then occasionally phone sex. I have personal rules for myself but those are the only ones I have in place with my wife.

  • I am not, but I am pretty open to it. I can have sex without feelings and if I meet a man who can the same, I see it as a good option down the line when we have a solid foundation and maybe a want to explore our individual sex life. But with big focus on sex, so could be ONS or short flings and definitely not someone who can't easily just be cut out from our lives.

    • Where you from? Like to have chat?

    • @Danish87 from Denmark actually. Why are you called Danish when you live in India?

    • Danish is combine of name and surname. And now can't change even so has to kept as it is.

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  • No, I have more self respect then that.

  • No, but I like pineapples.

  • Sorry, I respect myself and don't feel like dating a piece of shit let alone being one.

  • In theory I could be open to the idea, but in application its hard to foresee any scenario that doesn't just degenerate into one partner being cuckolded. If both partners are equally and enthusiastically on board then I guess the scales can stay balanced. But I'll bet in most cases, one partner wants to sleep around, and the other partner is afraid of breaking up, so they delude themselves to believe they have a choice in "letting" their partner sleep around.

  • I wish I could be in an open relationship... lol!

    • There are plenty of people open to that!

    • I wish I could find them! Lol!

    • They are everywhere... just have to look 👀 🤭

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  • Anyone here have an open relationship?
  • We had an arrangement at the beginning of our relationship.
    She loved to fuck and I couldn't lose her so I asked her to marry me and she could fuck as much as she wanted to get it out of her system if she'd promise to be faithful after our wedding.
    She accepted.
    Still together.

    • Are you thinking about talking to your partner about trying it?

  • Yes. And one of the beauties about being poly/open or EMN, is there not one set of rules like they're tents to be for monogamy.

    I highly recommend you visit/read the following.

    Morethantwo. com

    The Ethical Slut

    Youtu. be/N7vXX33C6Mg

    Also I'm happy to answer any questions you might have. I was monogamous until in turned 40, I've been poly for the last 8 years.

  • I am a performer/dancer in an all male review and I will get hired for private partys! Almost every party someone is trying to have sex with me or trying to do things to me. I consider it part of the job and just role with it!

  • Its something you discuss with your man and see how he feels about it. If he's into it, then you discuss boundaries.

  • Im in a friends with benefits situation.

  • Since I wanna try FMF, FFMF, FFMFF So I might be open to this idea ;)

  • Just hop. back on the cock carousel and don't worry about an "open" relationship.

  • Think quite common for people want to try it. Never done it myself but definitely open to the idea

  • I wish

  • open relationships are like friends with benefits's... for pathetic people, with no lives

  • I have an open relationship

  • Always been interested this as well. Not sure I could but still interested in how it all works non the less

  • Nope

  • I did and ended up regretting it. Not just because I started to get jealous. He ended up giving me an STD. Thank god it was curable, but that made me think twice.

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