Anyone in long term relationships ever miss sex with other people?

Question

Do you sometimes wish you could have sex with someone else?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My wife prefers a big dick. I have a small dick being indian and I always compensated for it with foreplay and oral to make her cum. I heard her talking one time to her friends about guys and penis sizes when one of her ex's names came up, apparently he was half man half horse and its the only part of him she missed. My wife mentioned how much she loves me and how are sex life is OK but she really misses her exs dicks who were all average sized and above. The other women were talking about their sex lives and their men's penis sizes too and sex toys. My ex confessed that she hides sex toys in the drawer of her bedside locker that she uses on herself while I'm away to give her that filled up stretched feeling her hung ex used to give her. One of these toys was a dildo moulded from her exs dong. So I decide to dig around one evening while she was at her parents in bedside locker and I find some very large sex toys hidden under some pyjamas. As well as one very large dildo that's huge nearly 3 times bigger than my penis and thick, like real thick, thicker than my wife's arm.

I was feeling a little bit down and worried that my wife wasn't enjoying our sex life. So I bought a very thick 9 inch penis sleave. So I've given her oral and lots of foreplay and she said she enjoyed it but really wasn't in the mood to orgasm and told me I should f*ck her real quick as she has stuff to do. So I told her to bend over and she reluctantly did telling me to hurry up as her show was starting. I was completing turned on by the thought of what I was about to do to her and made excuses that I was just trying to get real hard as I was putting the sleave on. Once the sleave was on I wasted no time and put just the tip of it in and she shuddered like she never had before and she knew something was different, then I put it in to just my normal length and she was moaning like never before, then backed right up onto to it taking as much as she could right up against her cervix and came. Excited she begged to be fucked hard and I did. She moaned and screamed and was wetter than I ever seen and she quickly came again this time her orgasm was so powerful that my dick was pushed out of her vagina by her squirting orgasm. She collapsed face down and quickly turned around to look at me and saw the sleave, she said for a moment she thought another guy was in room with her. She kissed me and thanked me and had me f*ck her again until orgasm then I came. We've been using the device all the time since

mrmonogamous · Accepted Answer

My wife and I have been married for 34 years and we’re together 2 1/2 years before we were married. I want to be clear: I am extremely happy with our sex life and would never want to be with another woman. Sex is the most intimate form of communication. And whether we’re having sex, making love, or fucking, it’s the two of us. That is the glue that holds a loving relationship together.

Angela_S · Accepted Answer

No, never. Sex for me is more emotional than physical, so I really need to be connected to the person for it to work. As a result, sex between me and my b/f, after 3 years of living together is great and brings us closer together. Having said that, my sex-drive is not as high as his, and even though we have great sex 4 or 5 times a week he always needs more, and I KNOW he gets turned-on by other women, and fantasises about having sex with them. They are mostly women on TV/movies etc, and sometimes I'll catch him checking-out a sexy girl we happen to see if we're out somewhere, when he thinks I can't see it. Honestly though? I have NO problem with this. He's up-front about it, he's never denied it, and I'm pretty sure he'd never actually cheat on me. I give him very regular hand-jobs when I'm not in the mood for sex, and I told him from the start that I have no problem with him openly wanking to girls on TV that turn him on. I find it kind of funny actually, particularly as he still looks really guilty and feels stupid after he cums from it, is no longer in the "zone" and I'm just shaking my head and rolling my eyes at him. We have a jokey rule in our apartment, and that is I'll only get rid of a hard-on that I've caused (and I ALWAYS will), but if it's from someone else he can sort it out himself.

Faith18letsgo · Accepted Answer

Yeah that’s totally normal, I think most people do they just think of it as a sacrifice they have to make. But the truth is it doesn’t have to be like that, you can talk to your partner and work something out where you get to have sex with other people too.

CourtneyJane2 · Answer

No. Because my boyfriend and I have an open relationship.

purpledrops · Answer

Nah. I don't want to have it with anyone else except for my boyfriend.

MrCommodore · Answer

Sometimes I'd see a really sexy girl and briefly find her hot, but it wasn't a constant or regular thing.

LazerBean · Answer

And the entire male opinion section is exactly why virgin men who think sex should be something special between a husband and a wife and should be saved for marriage are the only men worth marrying or even looking at.

Apple1996 · Answer

I've only ever been with my husband so it's hard to miss something that I've never had

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

With a baby & right after delivery of said baby, you miss sex in general.

Emilyis · Answer

NO I've only had sex with my husband and college roommate so NO, NOt really.

KaiidiraX · Answer

be single and mingle

Sixgunsound · Answer

Lots of people do, it doesn’t make it right. The questions I have for you are why would you need someone else if the person you’re with is pulling their weight and meeting your needs? Why would you stay if they weren’t?