Are all men secretly bi curious?

I think as humans we all get bi curious at some point. Whether the curiosity strikes as kids, or in college age, whether we actually act on it or not I think we ALL get curious about same sex sex at some point. Here's the thing, straight men will NEVER admit it! I think it sucks that a woman can experiment so easily & society won't judge her, in fact she'll be encouraged because lesbian sex is considered attractive. Guys: any of you been bi curious? Do you think straight men are more bi curious than they let on? And remember: just because you've thought about it doesn't mean you're gay! Even if you had gay sex you're not gay if you hated it! PS - I also don't buy into gay men who act to proud to admit some form of straight curiousty. I'm sure plenty of gays have been straight curious but won't admit it due to their ego.
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  • I had a couple of experiences in my teens (the most I ever did was let a guy who was openly gay give me head) and though I enjoyed it I considered myself straight. Now that I'm older I fantasize about it, I now consider myself bi, only because I know I would act on any same sex offer. However, I'm not attracted to guys really, two guys kissing is a complete turnoff for me, I'm only interested in their penis. I can't wait until I get the opportunity to suck a penis, I know I'm going to love it ;)

    • I hear you, now that you are older part. I have never had any sex with a guy but I am very curious about giving a guy a blowjob. She can"t wait until we can have that experience either. She gets very excited watching gay p*rn and pegging me,

  • I believe that everyone is

  • Yes we are

  • Can't. speak. for everyone. i like. sex and. exploring. and experimenting with with my. sexual. fantasies. iam very curious about doing. married coulpe bi

  • For guys, being bi curious or gay is primarily a physical thing, and not as much about a relationship or an emotional connection. For a chick, saying you're bisexual or curious can mean you think a woman is sexy or even kiss or hold hands with her, but for a man, there can be no connection whatsoever without sex. Attraction is a different process entirely. Sex is also more prominent among male/male partnerships. Even when there are no women, a man's sex drive remains the same.
    The guy who answered you first said its not as common as female bi curiosity, but that's incorrect. The reality is that no man or few few men would ever admit to being bi curious or having a sexual attraction to another man because of society's view on that, while it's fashionable for a women to say it. So most men who are bi curious and gay without a doubt identify as being straight and most probably will their whole lives.

  • I had one gay experience when in was in my late twenties after a divorce. He was 19 yo and was hot. His penis was beautiful. I enjoyed sucking his dick and took a ride on that 9" fat penis. enjoyed it emensely but never did it against

  • I consider myself straight with a Bi-curious desire. I love going down on my lover after I orgasm in her and she absolutely loves it. We have also always kissed after she has gone down on me. She is sooooo erotically charged when doing that to me that I want to experience it by going down on a guy.

    I just don't know how to approach a guy or find that person. We are both very interested in "living" this desire.

  • before 19, I thought men were ugly as hell. I was against against gay marriage because I thought men were too ugly to get married. How I became bi curious is a completely different story that can't relate to this question ( I was trying to turn gay). but no, most men are not bicurious.

  • Definitely not.

    I'm into girls and only girls! They turn me on big time!

    Men disgust me! I would never even consider doing anything with them! Never!

  • ill admit there's some pretty handsome looking guys and or shemales out there, but the thought of anothers mans junk getting anywhere near mine grosses me out immensely

  • No.

    It's a commonly held belief among many bisexual people, that all humans are the same way.

    It's because they can't imagine what it's like to be straight.

    It's a similar misconception to thinking being gay is a choice, because a straight person can't conceive of being gay.

  • i have always repelled girls. I'm straighter then a ruler.

  • Yes. That's why so many men are homophobic. We're afraid of our sexuality and afraid others will learne we harbor secret, taboo desires for other men.

  • See you are mistaking 2 things here. Most guys have some sort draw toward new unexperienced things, just out of curiosity. I mean, heck, that's why Sci-Fi and Fantasy were created.

    So straight guys, curious about many things, might ponder from time to time what it would be like to be gay, the same way they might ponder what it might be like to summon a dragon, turn into a wolf, or fly to mars.

    Thats different than bi-curious because its just the allure of the new and different. Not the lust for another man.

  • No. I'm sure some guys hide it, but I don't all guys are bi curious. I've heard some of my gay friends say they get a little squeamish seeing straight sex, and I know straight guys would say the same about gay sex. I'm not sure what's hard to believe about that.

  • The most bi-curious I get is wonder what it would be like to suck a guy's d***. But I would never ever act on it.

    • i tried it and I like to please a guy the way I know I like it, - the bj I ever got was from a guy, he really wanted to please me and he did LOL