Are any lesibans having a hard time finding other lesibans?

[cth2188]

[BumbleStix]

Women make up the majority of the LGBTQ community. If we go by some of the most recent research, around 55%+ of homosexual households and marriages female. So there are more homosexual women than their male counterparts. On top of this, bisexuality is very dominantly female. Something like 60% of the entire LGBTQ community bisexual female alone. It seems to me you have met plenty of bisexual women, but have no interest in dating them?

This would make things far more difficult for you, since you are denying a very large portion of the female community. However, that is your choice! :) That is the complication number one.

Number two, I would say is how women go about dating. For example, we know that Dating Apps like Tinder are dominated by men. Something like 80%+ of all accounts on there are male, and men usually put in all the effort to pursue women. This means that women on dating apps don't usually have to put much work in outside of choosing from possible candidates. Likely this type of standard is common in lesbian interactions as well, while both women are waiting for the other to pursue.

Just like what @BobLouis said, it is like youve met plenty of lesbians, but due to women being a bit more passive in relationships, neither side likely tried to be aggressive at it. There are plenty of dating opportunities for LGBTQ women, there is no doubt about that. Just gotta start going about your practices in a more "male" centric way.

[cth2188]

I'm not interested in mingling with bisexuals who are dealing with masculine energy nor need it around me. I just want a feminine lesiban, that's it - normally when I have bisexuals come onto me there's a masculine energy bringing chaos and drama - wanting to mingle sexually.. not interested in that. Lesibans have a hard time finding a mare because we don't have normal dating apps.

[Gent207-2]

Dating apps

LGBT+ Bars, Events, Groups/Organizations (on and off social media) [by off I mean in real life]

Common Cause/Hobby (join groups or organizations around a cause or happy you are really passionate about].

Finally may be there is something in this sphere of relationships that you are missing, try self-help books related to homo/gay/lesiban relationships.

[cth2188]

Nothing is missing just harder for us lesbian

[RoseySaraah]

Sometimes really happens more now that I'm married! Like when I was lesbian... Where were all the others!

Sometimes I so miss it but owells he is worth being bi for and besides he lets me have my lesbian times!

Dumbest ones are the trolls like so obvi

[Nikki1989]

I have never had much luck finding women. I have only found 7 in my entire lifetime.

[cth2188]

Same most to all bi and can't deal with men as I'm not attracted to them sexually

[Berethor]

Because being lesiban is useless biology-wise, lesibans can't have children with each other.

[cth2188]

You do realize most lesibans already have children and were not interested in having children

[Berethor]

Women who are not interested in having children are messed up, also lack in femininity.

[cth2188]

I have my children and don't want anymore, especially right now. Inflation is to the roof, sorry.. every lesiban I've met has children. Furthermore, men don't dictate what comes out of women's bodies ijs. My journey was short-lived with men a long time ago.. I wish men the best and some women have medical condition hindering them from having children

[Berethor]

I was not talking about you, you pass the natural selection, childless women don't.

[cth2188]

Childless women probably don't want to raise children.. having a child benefits the man, not a woman... men go with their lives while women have to raise those kids solo if that man and woman part ways.. best decision was not having anymore babies for men

[cth2188]

Kids are expensive and with the price of formula and diapers who wants to have a kid now

[Berethor]

Without kids you don't have a legacy, you want to die out without having a legacy?

[cth2188]

Legacy? who wants to raise kids in these times

[Berethor]

You don't want your genes to pass on? you want it to be as if you had never lived?

[cth2188]

I have my kids and not having anymore there is 0 benefit to having kids

[Berethor]

I was talking about women who don't have any kids, they don't have legacy, it bad.

[cth2188]

There choice their wombs guess men don't make the cut for that- a lot of women don't want to be single mothers

[Berethor]

Most single moms are useless partners, otherwise why the their man left them?

[Goofy9009]

If can be more difficult on here specially (some people will probably think she isn’t telling the truth/catfishing).. the internet is crazy place

[cth2188]

Yes I'm constantly ignoring and rejecting men like crazy

[Goofy9009]

Maybe you just keep on running into straight women. , you ever consider a dating website

[cth2188]

Straight women aren't the problem it's bi women and yes same problem

[Goofy9009]

Oh ones that are more straight then bi

[cth2188]

I have men approach me despite they see I'm lesiban they get ignored

[cth2188]

I don't mess with bi women who mess with men

[cth2188]

Men don't know when to back off serious entitlement problems

[Goofy9009]

Yeah I can see that clearly , people on general regardless of gender have an entitlement problem.

[cth2188]

No men do women are more understanding- I don't need masculine energy near me

[Goofy9009]

In your situation yes men are being entitled.

[BobLouis]

Most women want a man because he starts the conversation and initiates sex. You might run into another lesbian but most women just talk and wait for the other person to do something.

So might have spoken to a few but they probably didn't know you were interested. It's going to hard but I wish you the best of luck.

[cth2188]

Not sexually interested in men

[Andres77]

Go to a lesbian bar.

[cth2188]

Men are there

[Andres77]

Welll, what is a man, really? I’m not a biologist so…🙄

[cth2188]

Am I a man? I'm just saying straight men go to lesiban bars

[Andres77]

Who knows. Because of affirmative action we now have a female Supreme Court justice that doesn’t know what a woman is. Isn’t there an app for that? Like “Beaver Finder”?

[cth2188]

You men have an entitlement problem it's simple

[cth2188]

Like with this post 📫 wanted to hear from the ladies and their experiences

[Andres77]

Well, that’s a fair response. You don’t know me well enough to realize that I’m trying to be like a platonic friend or a big brother giving you a hard time. That’s it. If you could re read everything I wrote with that in mind…it should end differently. I hope you have a wonderful day.

[Iron_Man]

I thought you were straight

[cth2188]

Nope

[Iron_Man]

Ugh…

[cth2188]

Ugh what?

[cth2188]

I have no seuxal desire to men

[Iron_Man]

All this time I thought you’re talking about you were having trouble dating other guys

[cth2188]

No I had to end a friendship with a guy of 11 years came on too strong

[Kelly6]

bisexual is more common then lesibans

im bisexual too

[peterrezeeek]

do u like sexting?

[Goofy9009]

This is true

[Luckycharms12]

Don't know

[cth2188]

Silly goose 🪿 😜 you're not a woman so how would you know lol

[Luckycharms12]

Could of being in past life never know 😂

[cth2188]

True

[Luckycharms12]

Sure like everything else Some will find it hard other's not to bad

[cth2188]

Yes I just live now

[andylakes09]

Not in my circles theyre not lol