Are birthmarks a turn off?

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I have a birthmark on one of my boobs about the size of a hole punch next to my nipple and as someone who hasn’t really shown off my tits I’m afraid it’s a major turn off to guys. It makes me super insecure and I don’t know if it would repel men.

UnknownReflection · Accepted Answer

They are ultimately unique.

You should not be insecure about birthmarks. Please don't be.

Birthmarks are a natural occurrence. It's very normal and of course; very common. There is nothing wrong about them. Any mature adult would understand this factor.

So you have nothing to be ashamed of. You have nothing to be shy for. You have nothing to be insecure about. Nothing. This birthmark is part of you. Embrace it. And anyone who truly likes you; they will embrace it too.

If someone rejects you or put you down by anyway because of your birthmark. You have to know they are unworthy and they don't even worth your time leave alone having your body which is your privacy and it is a privilege for any man that you share it with. So you'd know their true shades. You would know they do not deserve you so you should be happy to kick them out of your life and never be upset about it.

Additionally; honestly; I am sure majority of men will be hypnotized by your beauty and attraction that they won't even notice your birthmark! Trust me!

Good Luck.

1hellothere1 · Accepted Answer

Ok honestly think about this in your head a very lucky man has seduced a very hot young lady (you) and you guys are about to do the deed, and you take your shirt and bra off and he sees the birthmark. You really think he is going to go like, yeah umm just because you have This right by your nipple I'm leaving. I mean if a guy did that he would be a total fucking douchebag. Number two a guy will probably put his hands on your tits the money he can I love feeling boobs. It's so great. So no it's not a major turn off and if it is like fr if it is as small as I think it is and a guy still get a grossed out by it, he has some incredibly high standards.

RedMatch · Accepted Answer

well i got one about 5c size on my chest, and my boyfriend thinks nothing of it. In fact as a kid it was joked it was my "do as your told" spot, I told him this and now some times when we are fooling around like wrestling he will poke the spot saying "do as your told and stop tickling me!!!" sometimes i do sometime i don't 😂

simplecountrygirl · Accepted Answer

Don't worry about it, I have a very similar sounding birthmark and I was nervous about what my guy would think. When he saw my bare breasts for the first time if he noticed, he didn't mention it. He still loved my boobs, and wanted to touch, kiss, and nibble on them. You shouldn't be self conscious about it!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have a birthmark in one of my butt cheeks. Every man (and woman, occasionally) who has ever seen it obsessed with it and kissed, licked, nibbled & bit it. Sometimes, I think they were in love with more than they were with me!

Your breast birthmark might be a good thing.

Kevin32v · Answer

If you really think that a birth mark on your breasts will stop me from
performing Tittilingus on you, you better think again, unless you have a gun or knife on you i'm going for it. Pun intended on the attack sketch.
You have nothing to worry about, once you tits pop out of your shirt your birthmark becomes invincible to men. And by the way, birthmarks add character to your body, positive character.

snowshy · Answer

Anyone who is majorly bothered is not worth your time. They're unique but they don't define you in any way. I have multiple and I forget they are there all of the time

JulieXO · Answer

I got one next to my nipple as well and I think it's quite cute tbh.

Shreyash108 · Answer

It's natural and nothing bad just different... Beauty is not just the superficial but also the internal one!

BlueDream · Answer

I have one on my left buttcheek, my guy loves looking at it, specially when he's hitting it from the back. Lol!

MayBlythe · Answer

I got one on the left side of my lower belly and I think its cute

Desruprot · Answer

nah its something to remember you by if that ever happens, nothing nefarious about a birthmark.

GingerGuy · Answer

You've got nothing to worry about. No need to be insecure about it. Show them off proudly! lol

Miristheiss · Answer

Most are very nice and make that person extra unique. I suppose if it were really, really large and extreme it could be a little unattractive but the vast majority are really cool.

krupak · Answer

Nothing bad about it. If someone loves you they'll see it as a good thing. Unless it's shaped like a dick.

D4NTH3M4N217 · Answer

I don't care

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

I hate mine but I was threatened with divorce if I got rid of it. :-)

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No i have one in the middle of my neck they’re unique.

hasrett · Answer

I don't think so, no. I have one about similar size lie yours right above my belly button, I've always been told that it's cute...

Canadaman99 · Answer

Some can be but some aren't. Very dependant

omgjassy · Answer

Its not

winterfox10 · Answer

I always find people's insecurities so fascinating! No man would ever care about a birthmark on your tit, in fact, many would find it kinda sexy. I know I would. I look at a woman's imperfections as very sensual reminders that she is a living, breathing, dreaming, flesh-and-blood woman.

taleswapper · Answer

Some may take some getting used to, but I find that women who are sexually available to me tend to drag my taste towards themselves. So if I'm dating a woman with, say, a wine-stain birthmark on her face, other women with them will become increasingly attractive. Same with other distinctive features.

StupidlyCleverMonkey · Answer

Well have you tried pressing it. Most buttons turn things on and off.

readywriter · Answer

Birth marks can be very sexy and yours is ata very sexy place. I bet I wold like it.

LegateLanius · Answer

I think they are unique and adds to a woman's appeal.

Flower-petal · Answer

It's totally fine hun

Kat_puppies · Answer

ii have a cream spot where my boobs are and chest

batwriter1979 · Answer

Birthmarks are marks live with them.

zac17 · Answer

It depends on the birth mark and where it is like if u got a mole on ur face then ya it's a turn off

Decentguy · Answer

if its a big size, and especially on the boobs, then yeah it is

byusuri · Answer

What you're describing sounds completely normal. I've heard of/seen some that fall into the category of turn off.

Robbyboys · Answer

They're cute

Cornchipuniverse · Answer

I bet they're pretty great looking (not trying to be creepy)

CT_CD · Answer

Ewww

jon28805 · Answer

That is not something that would bother me at all.

etienne19381 · Answer

Would need to see to judge... Add me on snap ;) etienne19381

Tjbigboy · Answer

It wouldn't bother me

azker · Answer

If a guy is turned off by a birthmark on your boob he must stupid or something. Seriously don't worry about it. And if he is. He ain't the one for you.

Anonymous · Answer

nobody's gonna hate it. we'll be excited because it makes them unique and not like the 10,000 boobs we've been fapping to online. <3

Anonymous · Answer

I have a birthmark in between my breast, on my left thigh & im sure more where the sun don't shine. I don't mind them.

Anonymous · Answer

I have a dark birthmark the size of my palm on my stomach, a third nipple, and a mole directly on one nipple. I haven't gotten any complaints so you should be okay.

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