Are black guys really better than white guys sexually?

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This is mostly a question for girls because I assume all white guys will say no and all black guys will say yes.

I'm wondering because in porn obviously we see more and more of these coming up, white girls with black guys, I don't watch porn that much I think but they look really bigger than white guys. I know it's porn and so it's a fiction, it's designed a certain way and is not necessarly true but recently I have more friends of mine dating black guys or having sex with them and 2 close friends actually told me the other day that I had to try with one of them because it was much better and that they could arrange a meetup with a guy they knew so I can see by myself how it's like.

I've never tried myself with a black guy so I don't know, if you did please share your knowledge.

Obviously I heard about the "Once you go black you never go back" thing, which is obviously wrong hopefully but I doubt my friends would just lie to me for no reason.

bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

Has nothing to do with the dick. It has to do with social conditioning and societal mental issues.
Note everything is generalizing. Whether it applies to you or not doesn't change anything.

1. Black guys on average are rougher. They are more likely to commit crimes get in fights etc. This plays out to the typical female fantasy of a rough dominating man. Whereas the feminist movement is primarily populated with white males not black. These are men who are taught to get consent before you hold her hand and nonsense like that. So say you're a big ho and you fuck 50 white guys and 50 black guys and you like a man to just throw you on the bed and slap your ass and be aggressive. Well more black guys might do that for you leaving you with the impression black guys are better.

2. The social ills. Doing something taboo which includes this particular pairing of interracial sex is sure to piss off dad. Draw attention from people who see you together. Ofc that can be hot. I myself am white but i have a rough think biker gang appearance sometimes and i go for ultra feminine girls who are petite and look like a doll dress pink stuff like that. We draw attention. I get it. It can be exciting.

Now to address what some have said about going black will it cause problems for you dating? Yes unfortunately. Most men with options and even black men will look down on you for having sex with a black guy. here's why. Its not racism per se where oh no he had black skin ahhhh. Its that most white girls who go black are doing exactly what you're doing. Seeking out some new exciting sexual conquest or has a curiousity about black culture. Most girls who try it dont go for urkel they go for tyrone weed dealer rapper wannabe. Forget skin color now. What guy who has lots of options with women would want to get with a girl who has such low standards as a rapper wannabe weed dealer black or white? We dont like that shit. So since we can't get up in your brain or meet your exes and stuff we assume you're like most white girls who go black and you are just being a ho for tyrone as a sexual fantasy. Therefore we assume you have low standards and we lose interest in serious relationship with you. Just as if we found out you banged a toothless white meth head in an alley. No difference.

Sum it up if you been with a rough dominating white guy thats all she's really talking about OR she buys into the taboo and just knowing its "wrong"/attention causing is what makes it better for her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

From a practical standpoint, they're not bigger. From a technical standpoint, they're 0.28 inches longer on average.

Here's the link:

https://www. sexandpsychology. com/blog/2018/5/2/fact-check-are-there-really-racial-differences-in-penis-size/

And that goes for any penis size. I read this article a long time ago, and I thought the following was included in it (but it might have been in one if the several studies it references), but the average Asian penis is like less than a inch shorter than white men's. So these numbers are entirely negligible.

The reason you're seeing big dicks like that in porn is because "BBC" or "big black cock" is a recent trend in the porn industry. While this aspect of the industry has recently been accentuated in those videos, this applies to the professional side of the industry as a whole. You usually don't see professional videos of white guys with average sized penises (the amateur side of the industry is obviously different). If you go back and look at older videos of black men, whether engaging with white women or black men, you'll see the sizes of their penis is completely normal. (I can show you an example, if you want) And your friend's experiences can be explained by a number of things.

1. The placebo effect. She's constantly hearing about black men and their dick sizes so she's more likely to think it's big when she sees one.

2. Bias. She might have a thing for black men, so she favors them, so she has a confirmation bias, discarding instances that don't support her views, and solidifying instances that so.

3. Anecdotal. One person's experiences are usually not an accurate representation of the world. She is a size pool of one. Typically you want a size pool of thousands if not millions. re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

lilyanony1 · Accepted Answer

I've dated white English and European, Asian and black men.

It's not really about race its about the interest and connection with the man.

Black men can be dominant and they try to be good in bed, this may be due to the hormones or higher sex drive who knows.

I've found they try to perfect their sexual skill and it can be a credit to them, I mean its nice to have a good sexual reputation.

They can often keep a good rhythm.
But in my experience I've found they'll do what's necessary only to be able to get what they want.

The white men I've dated have actually been really well endowed, but it took some guidance and patience to get them to "f*ck me" they're really gentle and affectionate lovers, they really enjoy kissing and exploring what really gets me off.
I've had the most amount of orgasms from non penetrative sex with white men than black men.
But rhythm wise it can be disappointing, I don't know if thats a loss of focus thing to stop themselves cumming, but u also found for some reason they preferred reaching and hitting my cervix more than any other race.

Asian men well, I felt they were just too shy and Conservative for me.
Effectively it didn't work out all that well. Simply because I think they were too much in their heads about how to be sexual.
I almost felt like they read what should be done and tried to reenact that, but I'm not a one trick pony or a one rule fits all kind of girl.
Sex for me is sensual and instinctual. Communication is good but I need to feel your spirit when you're in the thick of it.
Sure you may think of a position but I want you to decide whether it feels good enough, for both of us. Not just you or me.
It's a connective act, not singular.

There's someone out there for everyone.
But I do think that it's not really about race but more about the connection.

LingyRolls · Accepted Answer

It depends... But... Since I started having Sex with black men I've found that I love it. There's a lot of different things going on in the attraction to it. I've found that many black guys are extremely excited to have sex with white girls. I've also found them to be more confident and aggressive/rough in sex. Fuck harder and it's almost animalistic in a way. Which I enjoy. And I know the numbers say otherwise, but in my experience (and only mine) I've found them to have longer and thicker penis on average. All together it makes for some extremely good fucking.

However, sex is more than fucking. As good as they fuck me, my husband (white) still retains the crown in the overall category of best sex simply because he can make me feel a way that they can't because I feel love and intimacy with him. I even feel this with him when he watches me have sex with a black man. We're still connected and it's still "our" sex life.

laurieluvsit · Answer

Not always, but sometimes they are.  It depends on what you're really wanting, what fantasies you want fulfilled and what you can handle... lol

HotPinkDominatrxSlut · Answer

I'm a very beautiful very petite white girl. I'm 4'11"(151 cm) with natural pure platinum blonde hair that is longer than I am tall and the bluest brightest lightest eyes and I'm married to a very dark sexy black man that's 7'6"(230 cm) and love getting fucked in my pussy my ass my tuts and my mouth by my very dark sexy black husband and several other very dark sexy black men all are once. Black men are indeed better sexually and have much bigger dicks than white men. I love seeing how jealous black women get too when they see me with my dark sexy black husband and my black kids. Black women are so jealous of us beautiful blonde hair blue eyed white girls because we're the most beautiful and men if all races love and want us and because they're so ugly dumb smell bad and have bad hair and no man of any race loves or wants them

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

No! It’s ridiculous to assume ALL people from any race are inherently better or worse than the people from any other race, and racial stereotypes are racist even if they are POSITIVE! Also it is a myth that men of African descent have larger penises than White men.( scientific study and source is directly below) 👇🏼
https://www.drelist.com/blog/penis-size-race/?amp

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I have been with several of both and I can say, no difference. To me size doesn't matter, nearly as much as foreplay and the rest that goes along with it. It totally depends on the person, race has nothing to do with it.

One of the best guys I was ever with was a older white guy, more experience some of the worst is younger Native's, or whatever.

Don't feel you need to check people out merely cause of their race, it doesn't seem to make a difference. One of biggest guys I've ever seen was white, but like I said size doesn't matter to me.

I had a phase where somehow I thought, if I did it with guys of different nationalities it was like travelling the world, and in the end culture and concern for me matter more than skin color. Some black guys were just thrust and go as fast as they can and then be done, some of the worst but that can happen from anyone.

Tdieseler · Answer

Omg, i can't believe you used porn as a reference. when photographers are looking for face shots, they look for the prettiest faces, and when they are looking for crotch shots... what do you think they will look for?

Yes, on average, black guys are bigger than other races but trust me... its not a general thing. that being said, that says nothing about their sexual prowess, growing up I've heard tale of men with "anacondas" who couldn't use it, and people with "pencil" dicks who made em quake. its not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean, and some people dont know how to ride the ocean... that is not limited to race. Period.

doe9de · Answer

I'm no girl but definitely not. No race is better or worse at anything. I understand this question probably wasn't intentionally racist sounding but it is. Everyone is different with different skill levels.

katiesmuff · Answer

It has nothing to do with the color of your skin when it comes to being good in the bedroom.

Honest-Matt · Answer

I've seen black guys f#$k it doesn't matter who you are, you can be shitty at sex.

weysally · Answer

I don't know personally, but I think its only the contrast between their skin colour that does it, I have seen a little porn and if you see a white guy with a black girl his thing looks bigger

Berethor · Answer

Not according to Okcupid.

CarolineW · Answer

No difference. I guess black guys like to think they have bigger dicks and are better at sex, but I've had several of both black and white guys and it's not the case.

Xiu92 · Answer

I'm seeing some crazy comments in this post lol. Black guys are more likely to commit crime, they're rougher, they're only good for one night stands. What kind of foolishness is this 😂

I've never seen so much prejudice and pre conceptive bias remarks on here. Talking about black guys as "them" like an object and the "other".

This post was meant to be talking about sex with a black guy right and people are going off skew.

I've had so many people say to me I want to have sex with an Asian woman to see what its like. LOL seriously tbh it offends me and it means that you're not interested in me or my culture but to just to have sex with me! This is the exact same concept by sexualising a race.

I think in porn you mentioned that you know its factual. I think you've got your answer there tbh.

HighValue · Answer

The saying is actually, "Once you go Black, you can't go back." It is because many White and Hispanic people will never accept a woman once she has been with a Black person, even if it was only a kiss.

by the way, most Olympic weight lifter champions have been White guys and most MMA fighting champions and top ranked fighters have been White guys as well? Use statistics not liberal propaganda lies.
Look up Olympic records, look up UFC, MMA, Bellator MMA, etc. you will see that is is mostly White men that are the best for strength and fighting. Dishonest liberals constantly try to spread lies because they know most White men dislike them due to their bad morals so they constantly try to say negative and objectively false things about White men.

AvaOneLasTime · Answer

So I just googled and found this research, and can find many other if you wish

The difference between white and black men penile lenght is so insignificant.
If you are really preferring black men, over half a centimeter, that would be like a guy dumping you for other girl, who has the breast size next yours.

caitlin36DD · Answer

Not always, but usually yes.

Blackcupcake · Answer

skin color… doesn’t make a difference in such things.

now let’s say that a specific black dude happens to have a bigger cock than a specific white dude. but the black dude has no stamina and doesn’t know what the fuck he is doing, while the white dude has lots of stamina and knows how to pleasure YOUR body and understand it…
who in your opinion would be better in THIS SPECIFIC case? the white dude, right?

but it could be the other way around as well. or just very different from PERSON to PERSON, NOT from skin color to skin color…

Phoenix98 · Answer

It’s a mental thing mostly. It’s also a kink. anyone who thinks that your skin colour automatically makes you better or worse at something is ether a racist or an idiot.

Koneko911 · Answer

Maybe the black men they were with were just better at sex. That happens sometimes. I've only been with someone black so I don't know. I just know how he is. And this black dick stereotype is wrong by the way. The average for white and black men is basically the same

Andres77 · Answer

Have you ever heard of any man that makes her pleasure a priority.

EliaMG87 · Answer

No difference

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