I dated a girl who had really bad TMJ and couldn't give BJs (she couldn't eat an ice cream cone without a spoon either, etc.). It wasn't a matter of lack of desire, it was a matter of her jaw locking up. Anyway, she happily did absolutely everything else, so it was completely fine and understandable.
But I wouldn't want to be with a partner who didn't WANT to give a BJ or any other common sexual act with me, not because I *have* to have a BJ, but because I wouldn't want to be with someone who wasn't open sexually.
Wow... you poor dudes voting no? You're insane.
@KatyKaz As an aside-- that profile pic. Is that actually you? Or is it another girl? Never know with online.
Oh well yeah it's me
@KatyKaz Oh nice. Well, you're really pretty. Just saying. Have a good one out there.
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I don't enjoy blowjobs, anyway, so I'd rather she didn't give them, at all. I still want to go down on her, but I don't need her to reciprocate.
I'm not really a fan of oral sex. Maybe I've just never been with someone who was any good at it but I really just never enjoyed it all that much.
I prefer with oral sex, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker if she hated it
However, a woman who doesn't want oral for herself would be a no-go for me. Especially since my "perfect" woman would be a woman who wants nothing but oral and has no interest in anything else. So I guess you could say my vote is a bit biased.
Not a necessary, but heartly welcome.
I can take or leave blowjobs compared to other things...
I prefer giving oral.
I wouldn't like any girl that is prudish or repelled by it though.
I've never been with a woman who really enjoys giving head for its own sake. In my experience women approach it like its a duty they are doing for the guy, not bc they enjoy it themselves. I'm the sort of guy who can't enjoy what we're doing unless I know you're really into it and turned on so I've never really enjoyed blow jobs. I've learnt to enjoy giving head much more than receiving it.
Some girls can't give oral because they have a gag reflex or some other problem. So long as I get a good substitute for a blowjob that's fine.
No, I wouldn't mind not receiving oral sex. I don't expect oral sex from a girl to be with her.
It's not NECESSARY, but it is really appreciated. Also, if she is expecting to receive oral sex there needs to be reciprocation. Sex is not a one way street.
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