Are daddy kinks weird?

My friends and I were having a conversation at lunch today and the topic of daddy kinks came up. We all had different opinions. What do you think about daddy kinks?
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  • It's a power exchange, a very specific kind. It's not about pretending to be actual biological relatives, nor about the girl being an actual underage child. It is about the power differential between a daddy and a little girl.

    So... a lot of Dom/sub relationships have the Dom dictating what is happening, how it is happening, and punishing the sub. The framework of it is usually along the lines of Master/slave though, or Powerful/weak.

    The appeal to some for the DD/LG though is that the Dom has the power, but they are intensely concerned about the well-being and care of their sub. I mean, all Doms care about their subs well-being, obviously, but not in the same protective, nurturing way. A DD/LG drifts more into mentorship, emotional help, providing a safe and understanding place where a woman can let herself feel small and vulnerable in a safe environment. Because the real world is dangerous, and they can't afford to be vulnerable. The sub in these relationships have a lot of control because it is their 'acting out' that triggers the 'punishment'. They get hurt only if they misbehave. And it is in their power when they choose to misbehave.

    It is BDSM with a... softer edge? More... protective, more safe. In a way.

    Not for everyone, clearly, but it has appeal to those that like to be sub in a way that is not so intense, and not so much pain focused. It is almost more mental submission than physical submission. Less pain focused.

    Dominance and physical play with a protective, safe and nurturing vibe. Kind of gets the best of both worlds for some people.

  • Basically any kink that does not involve shit or blood that she wants to do, I am down for. Kinks and fetishes are weird, but weird doesn't automatically mean bad or shameful. What ever you do for fun and is mutually enjoyed by two mature and concenting adults should never be questioned.

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  • When I first heard about this it weirded me the fuck out. I have kids. I don't want to pretend you're one of them.

    But I know most women here who like it have told me they view it just in like 'powerful older man' way. I can understand that. Kids tend to think of all adult men as 'daddies' so I can see how that idea would be planted in your brain.

    So given that I'd be okay with it. And the whole dominant rough and demanding while still emotionally caring appeals tremendously.

  • Nah if a woman calls me daddy that would turn me off quicker than a light. I would never call a woman i was sleeping with mommy or mami or nothing like that.

  • That's like saying are mommy kinks weird
    Ofcorse it is, doing it with the one that raised you and watch you grew up into a grown up adult is infact weird.

    I'm not sure about unholy but I know it's bad.
    That's why it's better to like other people's parents rather than your own.
    And call them daddy, uncle, mother, aunty, etc . People don't have it in them to even think of such a thing...

  • It is weird...

  • I didn't think people actually played that who's your daddy crap in bed!

    I think my gf would turn around say this is not the time nor place to bring up my father :P

  • I'll try to answer your question if you explain what a daddy kink is. I really have no idea what it is

    • Daddy kink is a kink in which guys like being called daddy in bed. Not in the ssense of actually being the father but in the sense of have dominance and being in control of your partner.

  • it would maybe be a bit weird for me. is this like a sexual "daddy/daughter relationship" with spanking and shit like that?

    • There tends to be spanking with this kind of kink. But it's not a daughter/father relationship. Its a relationship between two people (non related). the male tends to be older then the female.

    • yeah I know they're not actually related but do they act like they're daughter/daddy with what they say and do. like spanking is obviously a punishment, so does he give you a lolly or something if you give him good head for example

    • No not always. It depends on what you're into, usally it's not so much that he's playing the part of 'daddy' for say, but playing the part of being in control and the role of dominance. And I don't think you get a lolly...

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  • Weird to me. Yes.. Babe.. is good instead of daddy

  • What does this mean?

    • @gray_sailor I wouldn't do this, it's very strange

    • Daddy kink is a kink in which guys like being called daddy in bed. Not in the ssense of actually being the father but in the sense of have dominance and being in control of your partner.

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  • in a word yes

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