Are dildos technically cheating?

I see lots of guys on here with the opinion that using a dildo is cheating.

Personally i just ordered a new one and dont see them that way as it doesent belong to anyone its just for my personal pleasure and i am not in love with it.

I see the fact that you are using another sexual part to pleasure yourself but surely a fleshlight is the same thing?
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  • No it’s not cheating they are just insecure. Probably the dildo is bigger than they are.

    • what about fingering her with a vibrator between his fingers?

  • If a guy thinks he’s only a cock, then sure using a different Cock would be considered cheating. Also... if all a guy is is a cock.. he’d stand 0 chance competing against a dildo 😂☺️

  • I don't see it as cheating. No different as a dude using a fleshlight. It's only cheating when you are fucking a different man or woman outside of your exclusive relationship with your SO.

  • is my sex doll cheating?

  • Definitely not

  • I don't think so.

  • Nope its not as its simply master masterbation if used over doing it with your partner I can see why it would be a issue but thats with everything

    • I mean doing it over porn is that bad?

    • I dont feel porns a issue again its only a issue if your neglect your partner for said thing

    • Yeah i agree xx

  • No, that's ridiculous.

  • My thing is if you need to use a sex toy for you to get off on over using your partner then their is something totally off in that relationship and you are probably not with the right person , you are just settling with someone that doesn’t fulfill you , when you find someone that fulfills you you won’t need any sex toys , My tongue and my cock and hands should be all she needs

  • Sex toys aren't cheating

  • Which do you prefer for rear play?

  • I donn't think so.

  • If it’s bigger than his weener it would probably make him mad

  • I'm of the mind that if you're complaining about dildo's, you're complaining about the wrong dick.

  • Yeah, a a flashlight is the same thing.

    As far as I'm concerned it's not cheating.

    Is we are to make that argument the we moght as well say fingering yourself and just beating your meat while having a partner is cheating too.


    Imagine your partner getting mad at you because you "cheated" on them using your own hand, that would be insane.

    • fleshlight*

  • No, but if you use bigger ones than men you're sleeping with, then you're setting yourself up let down.

    It's like learning to drive in a Ferrari. Then when you pass your test, your Mom goes "here's your car" and it's the shittest thing ever. You're going from good to bad. Instead of bad to good.

  • no it is not. no dildo pr vibrator can give the same sensation and pleasure as the skin on the skin plus all the other things when in close contact.

  • Cheating requires sexually oriented interaction with a person other than your exclusive SO. A hunk of silicone doesn't count.

  • If a guy says that simply tell him so is porn or jerking off. See how quickly he changes his mind.

  • Not at all. Masturbating, even with toys, isn't cheatinh

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