Are Gay Guys just a myth?

I’m guessing there are only Straight males and Bisexual males, but not actual gay males. Is this wrong?


I have a guy friend, who I know through a mutual friend.

He acts, sounds, and dresses gay and has made jokes about how he is perceived that way by others, and their humorous reactions. His sister makes these jokes too…

He kissed a girl recently and it was openly discussed and he shared his dating struggles.

All he has is lady friends.

So this male I mentioned, only having lady friends (who by the way have all at one point caught feelings for him) is he gay?

and does a straight guy with only male friends- is he gay?

Or is it just Straight Guys and Bisexual guys?

How could a gay guy not appreciate the beauty of his female friend and it lead to something else?

Thoughts?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • There are guys who are 100% hetero and grossed out at the thought of romantic or sexual contact with a man. But they adore women.

    And there are guys who are gay as fuck. I know gay guys who are grossed out by the thought of pussy. A lot of gay guys might admire female appearance and mannerisms, though. Hell, they emulate them. That's why a lot of gay guys are effeminate.

    In between there are people who are bi. They may have different levels of preference for one gender or the other. Or they might be attracted to men and women equally. It's a spectrum. I happen to fall on the extreme hetero end. I liked girls from as early as I can remember. I was never remotely attracted sexually to guys.

  • Nope there are people out there who don't understand woman are clearly hotter than guys even if they are into guys so not all are bi.

    • Interesting 🤔

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lol, no, there's definitely gay men out there.

    Source: I have many gay friends.

    You should hang out with more LGBTQ people, and expand your experiences.

    • Interesting 🤔

  • Gay and Straight exist. Its all the other letters that are indecisive, mentally ill and made up

    • I like that. Well said 😂🙌

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  • They're quite real, but MUCH rarer than Hollywood would have you believe. And those who are purely gay, with no heterosexual feelings whatsoever, are even rarer.

  • I wonder that too sometimes. If they can have GRLfriends then they could have girlfriend too. They want the women SO BAD that they make some of the boys effeminate... and if that don't work-throw a dress on it...

    • Ikr! like gay guys can have who they like and I’m not gonna throw myself on gay men or gay friends. I’ll give them their space, but it makes me wonder too.. 💭

  • My neighbors are gay. I’m friends with them and know they have no interest in females sexually. However they do think women are attractive….. so I would not call that bi, it’s gay

  • Well clearly gay guys exist but I can't wrap my head around how a male couldn't find the female body just so damn incredible lol

    • You and me both 😂 but obviously I appreciate one more over the other 🥰. Sad thing is that girls like me love a good 🍆 and it hangs off a guys body 24/7.. he has access to that all the time 🥺 only the real nice guys share with us ladies 😍

    • It'd be very rude not to share 😁

  • Yeah, there are purely gay guys to be sure. I've had gay bosses and worked with many gay dudes over the years... you're not wrong that they can appreciate a woman's beauty, but some guys are just wired that way.

    • Interesting 🤔

    • I had an assistant manager that would go to lunch with the cashiers. Bring me back an ice cream cone, and, flirt like hell... he was actually adorable and a really good guy, but he also understood that he and I were two different kinds of creature... I'm sure

    • VERY sure

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  • Yeah I'm pretty sure you're wrong, I've talked to some gay guys that don't want anything to do with women at all. They don't get turned on by a woman whatsoever

    • Do you think they got hurt by a woman? Or violated at a young age? Or something other than this? Or no

    • I think they come out of the womb being gay,

    • Oof 😂 I wonder how a straight man could believe that though. Makes me question if you’re fully straight? Or no

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  • Gay guys exist

    • I love the bluntness 😂 also thanks for the feedback 😊🤜🤛

    • No prob 😊

  • I think not.

    • Interesting. Are you gay by the way? Or is that considered personal like weight, height, and social security cards lol if so I understand

    • @RosieMelts I'm happy but I'm not gay.

    • Interesting 🤔

  • I don’t think having all male friends or all female friends shows any indication towards sexuality

    Of course gay males exist but one thing I noticed is that gay men always still appreciate womens beauty. Women are hot, I think eve fry one of every sexuality and gender can acknowledge that haha.
    Like if you go to a gay club, you’re gonna see gay men receive lap dances from their female friends, slapping their asses and hyping them up lmao

  • Say what

  • Never thought about it that much, but I guess not

  • I am a bi-sexual girl and I have gay friends so I don’t think that it’s a myth? We are not sex buddies just friends

    • Interesting 🤔

  • The appearance related to sterotypical attributes of a gay person dosent mean he is gay.

    • Yeah I swear I wasn’t trying to stereotype him. Saw it more like Cats hiss and scratch things as kittens because those are the mannerisms/ behavior. Could be closeted for all I know or bi But you’re right. He could display all those things and truly not be gay. I can admit that

  • Sometimes I think gay guys r just sex obsessed guys and they fuck their female friends between relationships

    • We may have caught their strategy huh 🤔😂

    • Sneaky fuckers…

    • 😂🥲

  • Your friendships do not determine your sexual preferences. Also there are gay guys. They don't feel sexually attracted to girls. It isn't determined by their dress or fashion sense.

    • “Your friendships do not determine your sexual preferences.” I don’t have any evidence to refute this BUT there are exceptions where friendships have some correlation with sexual preference. Adding to it, not all the friendships, but a good percentage of them. That’s my gist of it. Also your comment as a whole can be considered true from your point but as I saw it- the nouns are switched: sexual preference determines some friendship choices, and their fashion sense is determined by their sexual preference (I. e. they prefer to wear dresses worn by sexually gendered females or they prefer to wear ties by sexually gendered males)

    • Sure, you can choose friends from those you are attracted towards, but not all people do so. None of my friends were chosen based in sexual attraction. That's not to say I'm not sexually attracted towards any of them, but we were friends without that being a factor. And fashion choices determine gender identity, but not sexual attraction. There are FTM and MTF transgenders who are sexually attracted towards their biological or neurological gender independent of their gender identity.

    • Okay so we reached an understanding. I can see that 😂 obviously due to exceptions there are in this mix the categories will just have to be straighr, gay, and bi. Interesting contribution. 👍

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  • You could be on to something there

    • Yeah interesting to hear what everyone says. I have to stick with my gut on this one and believe that BUT understand there will be some exceptions because some gay men will be woman haters from past hurts etc. like not everyone is racist and hates a whole demographic, but there are some exceptions. 🤔 I mean I respect everyone’s preference leave them be 😂 but they caught my eye 🧐

  • We all are on metro to retro sexual spectrum

  • of coarse there are gay males who wouldn't even give you a second glance!

    • @goodgirlsteven When I click on the symbol I get to your reply lol

    • But you’re a gay girl so it’s biased 😂 like it may be that way for you but guys are different even if they are gay. Girls aren’t all that sexual even if they sexually prefer other girls 🤔 So based on that, I have to wonder if guys would sexually enjoy both men and women- women for their assets and men for their I don't know relatability or energy or something. Gay girls like other girls mostly for the emotional understanding that’s about it. 80% e. q. and 20% sexual things I mean feel free to disagree tho. I won’t argue with anyone on this subject. Just seeing people’s thoughts

    • Nope! I have gay men friends who have bipassed the prettiest ladies to get to their boys. Their just not interested in pussy

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  • Gay guys definitely exist

    • Woa have you ever seen one up close? 😱 Jk 😂 I just love how weird I asked this and how just as weird people reply for it. They do exist! Lol Frfr tho Thanks for the share 😂🙏

    • Your welcome

  • not sure, possibly, I tend to think that all guys are bi, but most of them repress it.

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