Are guys always down for morning bj’s?

I love giving bj’s to my boyfriend and have been giving my boyfriend wake up bj’s regularly since we first started dating (not that regularly but around once every fortnight) but have always been worried that one morning he might not want it. Should I start telling him the night before or a couple nights before or will this ruin the effect.
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  • There could be a few that don't? But I've never heard from any guy that doesn't like it first thing in the morning (we'll take it ANYTIME!! lol). But also, we guys are the total opposite of you girls usually. Most of you say you'd like sex in the evening or night, but us guys prefer it in the morning!! That's where "morning wood" comes from, because we always usually wake up hard!

    • I know about morning wood because guys have More testosterone in the morning and so are more horny which is actually why I started doing it in the first place. And so should I tell him beforehand or carrying on surprising him?

    • You've been doing it, and if he hasn't reacted badly to them so far, he's not going to. He probably LOVES it. But to ease your mind, just ask him directly. Say "you know when I give you surprise morning bj's, do you like that?" He'll tell you honestly. You can always follow it up with "if not, please tell me". But I doubt you've got anything to worry about.

    • And surprises are nice. I personally wouldn't care either way lol. Tell me or surprise me, as long as I'm getting one, don't care!! lol

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  • Morning BJs are awesome. I usually get morning wood and there's no better way to get rid of it. The only time I don't want it is if I really have to piss.

    • How will I know he needs to piss though? Will he just stop me and then come back? Also surely it’s hard to piss with a boner?😂 sorry so many questions.

    • He'll need to tell you. Unfortunately, morning wood goes away after a good piss. And yes, pissing with a boner is a bit tricky. Don't worry though, if you're ready to give him a BJ, he'll hurry back and get hard again in no time!

    • Okay good thank you

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  • Not to worry, he will tell you if he doesn't want them any more, but I wouldn't expect that startling revelation very soon.
    Most boys I know want them before they go to sleep and when they wake up, and often times, in-between... lol

    Are guys always down for morning bj’s?
    • Okay thanks for the advice

    • Also I know he likes it and wants it. Just don’t know wether to carry on surprising him or tell him before

    • Well, if you've been doing so without warning and he has been ok with it, I would continue that way. It doesn't sound as though it is that much of a surprise if you have been treating him to one of a boys most cherished pass times often like this already :) I would say... keep up the good work! ... lol

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  • you should ask him if he’s ok with it and ask for him to consent in advance because if you don’t it’s sexual assault because he didn’t consent

    • He likes it and is fine with it but I just don’t know wether or not to tell him I’m advance when I’m going to do it or leave it as a surprise

    • if he’s consent before and hasn’t said or shown he’s not into it then just surprise him. maybe try to switch things up

    • Okay thank you

  • I know few who dont like it at all, I think it depends. Though there are guys who love this feelings.

    • I know he likes it but I don’t know wether I should tell him a couple days or a day in advance so he knows because for now he likes the fact that I’m surprising him but I’m worried one he’s not going to be in the mood for it or something so don’t know wether or not to tell him beforehand

    • You might want to ask him if he is loving this surprise, or his opinion and then will be easy for you i believe

    • Okay thanks for the advice

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  • Morning bj 😴 that's a good way to start the day if you've got enough sleep if you haven't then you're basically drained 😵😱

    • I always make sure that he got enough rest that night so if he went out with his friends or something and come back late I obviously wouldn’t do it then. But even we’ll rested could he still not want it one morning?

    • You never know some do some don't you guys are together and should probably know him more than anyone else.. so you could ask him if he's down for it, I mean read between the lines if he's feeling it or not.

    • Okay the thing is part of me doesn’t want to have to tell him before hand as I think he likes the surprise

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  • He can still tell you to stop if he doesn’t like it that morning. Sounds like things are great as they are though.

  • Just keep doing it the way you are. And if at some point, some morning, it doesn't work out, don't let that ruin things. Keep doing it. Your boyfriend is so lucky.

  • Marry me.
    Now.

  • I figure it if he didn't like it, he would have told you by now.

  • No. I fucking hate mornings. I hate morning bjs and I actually accidentally kicked the last girl that tried that out of my bed. If he hasn't said anything yet, he must enjoy it and/or appreciate the idea. I doubt he's not going to want it though.

    • He does seem to enjoy it a lot and tells me often that he likes it and wants it but I’ve always had a worry that one day he won’t so I just don’t know wether to start telling him before hand or leave it as a surprise.

    • Leave it a surprise. If he doesn't like it, I'm sure he will tell you or push you off of him.

    • Okay

  • That's the best, I'll do anything for her after that. You're just feeling unsure about yourself. Trust me, he ain't saying no.

  • I prefer them when I get home from work.

    • Yeah I do give him normal blowjobs as well but I know waking ones are tricky to judge wether or not he wants it or is not in the mood

    • We may be distracted about work or buying gas for the car or whatever. If you live a life of leisure or are in the university, this may be good. But out here in the working world an after-work blow job with a bourbon and soda in hand is a gift from heaven.

  • It's always a nice surprise

  • I think the spontaneous nature of them would increase the anticipation.

  • I can't think of a single reason I wouldn't want a BJ.
    IF you tell him the night before, it ruins the surprise.
    Make sure to do it rarely. You need to make it a special surprise treat.

    • I do them once every 2-3 weeks is that to much?

    • I mean, I'm a virgin by choice, and I advocate for no sex before marriage at all. 2 per week is good. But keep them random.

  • Hell I love it morning blow job. Damn u turn me on. Would you suck my cock?

  • I know I would always be down one whether its every morning or every few mornings.

  • As a guy I can say for sure he's always down for a morning wake up BJs and he's really lucky to have you as his girlfriend.

    I think the time he might bother him is that if he's late for work or have some really important appointment in the morning.

    But even those can be pushed on the side because nothing beats the morning BJ.

    • I make sure he hasn’t got anything important that morning. But other then that is it possible that he might not want it for other reasons or is it just about bad being well rested and not having anything important in the morning?

    • Hmm... know if I really think about it try not do it on a daily basis so it won't become a routine and he might not feel special over time. Twice a week seems reasonable and alsi make sure he has slept at least for 7-8 hours just in case. Guys really love it when a girl give a BJ on her own and not doing it on request. Waking up like that give him a good mood and makes him feel special and superior to him fellow male friends.

    • Okay and thanks for the advice

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  • I don't really think he'll ever get tired of that...

  • Im so up for them.

  • #dreamwoman! Don't ever stop or ask. Just for it!

  • You, according to me, are a very sweet and loving girl to your boyfriend. Honestly, you are being very kind. Your guy is very lucky to have you.

  • YES OMG

    • What do you mean? Yes, should I tell him?

    • No don’t tell him just do it. I meant yes guys are always down

    • Okay

  • It'll ruin the effect lol

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