Are guys selective who they sleep with or they sleep with just about any woman they can get?

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Or does it depend on the guy

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I can’t speak for all men , but a mass majority of us me. love sex period , it’s just how most of us were Made , Some men can fuck anything and some men can’t , Me personally can’t , for me to even consider having sex with a girl , I have to feel it means something , I have to feel chemistry and connection with her and be attracted to her for me to even consider sleeping with her. I can’t just bang a girl for the hell of it , I asked myself this question plenty of times as to why I am this way , Ii think it stems down from me being molested at a young age by an older woman , and i also have moral beliefs , I basically want a girl that wants me the same , that knows what it means to be in a relationship , that knows how to resist temptation and be loyal and faithful , the wears my shoes like she expects me to wear hers. So if I have sex with a girl my intentions is to keep having sex with that girl hoping she is in it for the long haul , it’s always a 50/50 chance because we aren’t mind readers

VikingWarLord · Accepted Answer

When you're a dude with
1. Money
2. Looks
3. Status

or a combo of all three... you can be as selective as you want and usually are that way. I know for me, I won't date a chic who is obese and if she's average she has to try harder to keep my attention because I can always snag hot chics with above average faces, big tits, nice azz, etc..

So I just straight-up tell the average chics they'd have to share me because I know I can get hotter. You'd be surprised, they STILL want me after I say that shyt upfront.

DaveJord · Answer

Really depends on the guy, but yes in general guys will lower their standards to get sex. But they will not compromise on what they see as dateable or undateable.

integrale77 · Answer

Depends on how lucky we are but some guys think any hole is a goal.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

That's a false dichotomy. It isn't absolutely one extreme or the other. Those choices exist on a scale, and each man is somewhere along that scale.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Depends on the guy, but for most guys I think it's a mix of both. For me, I'm very selective about it and need that trust first.

AviatorTom · Answer

Guys are selective but not picky... there's a difference.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Guys tend not to have enough options to be picky, so we can be a little bit selective, but a lot of us are just grateful to have someone expressing interest in us.

exitseven · Answer

I knew guys that would screw a snake if they could find somebody to hold the head. I was a little more discerning than that.

DerekC321 · Answer

It really does depend on the guy.

DummyThiccFeraligatr · Answer

The majority of men don't have the options to be selective. They'll often take what they can get or go without.

dudeinohio · Answer

Depends on the guy.

In_Trance · Answer

Depends on the guy

Charliefretz329 · Answer

The older I get, the more selective I get, only cause I want no drama.

REX_JSWL · Answer

It depends on the guy I am selective but friend of my friend is desperate and his libido is off the chart 😂

guyinterested · Answer

I can be slightly selective

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Guys will literally take any pussy that comes their way

MasterKS · Answer

I dont sleep with randoms.

Anonymous · Answer

The more self respect a man has, the more selective he will be. But I'd say most guys are desperate and have little awareness of all of the new threats such as VAIDS, antibiotic resistant STD and false allegation. I remember this guy that had a saying 'any hole is a goal' he used to say that a lot and slept with half the town. I remember his flat mate and him managed to sleep with the same girl in the space of a few nights...(they didn't realize at first).