Are guys that SEEK out virgins typically pretty weird?

im a 23 year old virgin and I've been told to avoid guys who solely want virgins because the first time I have sex with them they would want to do really weird stuff with me
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  • And my personal experience it can go either way. Men in general like the idea of virgins because they want to sleep with you due to what they can get out of you. On the other hand, they may not like virgins because they feel like they can't get any kind of enjoyment out of you anyways text me. Either way both is bad. The key is having your boundary strong and your Standard Time, by setting the bar hot. You don't have sex before you're married. You don't date anybody who watches porn or masturbates. If they had dated other people, you need to find out what kind of individual they dated, and how were they like when they were dating these people. You got to befriend the person and they got to be want to get to know you as a person. Not dating random guys. But a lot of men I met seeking virgins often aren't in their right frame of mind. And this is coming from a virgin herself. So for the question are you saying, I sadly have to say yes. But that is only because it has to do with the intentions of the individual and what kind a person they are. But not every man is like that. But if they have a complete obsession with you being a virgin, that should tell you right there that's a red flag. Is one thing one and honest and respect you because of your sexual integrity and morals. It's another when they're obsessed with the idea of having one.

    • The thing is is this. If they are not virgins, that's a red flag already.

    • The term that you are looking for is called virgin Hunters.

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  • That type are usually trying to mask their own poor sex technique or lack of experience. They believe since a virgin has nothing to compare him to that she'll not realise he's crap.

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  • Typically?
    No, there’s zero evidence to suggest such a thing.


    Are there men who seek out virgins solely for nefarious, disingenuous, or dishonest reasons?
    Yeah, I’m sure there are men who fit the description.


    On the flip side, I think the majority of men who lean towards women who are virgins or haven’t been with too many partners, are indeed higher quality men, specifically relating to morals, values, loyalty, etc.


    I’m talking non-physical traits.
    I can explain why this is the case if you’d like. Again, this is from my experience/observation.

  • It seems like an obsession that would draw out the control freaks for sure. It would be a hell of a thing to base a relationship on a key attribute, virginity, to find out later everything else is f-ed up.

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  • It is weird to specifically seek out virgins. You should find someone who likes you for you. Not a virgin seeker.

  • I would imagine anyone who looks for someone specifically because they're a virgin is likely only interested in sex, anyway.

    They may, or may not, want to do really weird stuff, I couldn't say, but regardless; you should look for someone who likes you as a person, first. Your virginity, or lack thereof, really shouldn't be the primary reason for why a person is interested you.

  • Virgin girls are very hot, and usually very reserved, loyal and girly, it’s pretty normal to prefer being with a virgin especially for a guy who prefer serious relationships

  • 100%. Tbh i am the other way around would rather find a Non-virgin, but in the end that shouldn't matter. It should be just if you like the person for the person.
    Tbf if they find it hot to have sex with a virgin it's not really a bad thing. But yes typically people who do are pretty weird.

  • Depends why they are seeking them out

  • Im a virgin myself, I would rather have my first time be with a virgin too. In my opinion it would feel weird if someone has had experience before. By both not really knowing what to do and both feeling a bit nervous it could create a better bound and experience. If a person who has many years of experience would like to have sex with a virgin in specific that would increase my suspision.

  • Pretty wired alright

  • Who ever told you that is talking utter shit