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  • Nature vs Nurture argument like the chicken before the egg there is no way of knowing. You might of been born with a certain Nature, but that does not mean you can not be Nurtured out of it.

    Or you might of been born with a certain Nature but based upon your experience you have nurtured your self into a negative perceptive towards women... either way positive thinking is the best advice I can give you. If you go into potential relationships with a negative perspective then you tend to find what your looking for. So optimism is a good thing if you want to find love.

    At end of the day it does not really matter if you were born that way or just became that way over time, its all about who you want to be go forward. So you can only get to the end by trying to do an honest and objective self analyst on yourself, and see what changes you can make about yourself to become the best version of yourself possible. This will increase your chances of luck with women.

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  • Like most things, it's most likely a combination of genetics and environment. But you can learn to be more social. If you are like I was in my early 20's, you expect rejection so instead you reject others before they have a chance to reject you. Counseling could help you get over your poor self-image.

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  • Self made boys

    • i dont deserve or demand sex or love but would like to experience what everyone has yet i cannot obtain. Just not good enough for the women I've met in my 27yrs

  • mainly made

  • Start working out and focus on MONEY.

    Money is KING as a dude, there are old, bald and fat dudes who are RICH that have supermodels all over them.

  • Incels, as in people who can't get sex or incels like those that blame their lack of sex on women? Those that blame it on women are born, they are not nice people. You shouldn't act nice just to get sex, you should act nice because you are. One of the things that makes my relationship with my girlfriend so healthy is that from the start we were who we are. We loved the person we decided to date. We didn't love an act put on by that person to get a date.

  • i would believe the way they were raised by their parents does have a huge effect on that

    • Parents hardly raised me just provided and sheltered me. First entering the real world ie first job i experienced the bullying and rejection i still endure today. Being name called mocked and ignored or avoided. No 1 has ever respected cared or loved me all i experience is hatred

  • I mean if u were born in the Middle Ages u wouldn’t be an incel so made?

  • Made

  • They are made, by cesspools and echochambers of twisted ideas.

  • Born just like you

  • How come. you don't fuck a fat chick

    • Because they don’t like me either nor am I desperate for sex

  • Made.

  • How would one be born an “incel”? We have a lot of modern problems that people claim they are born with, but there are very few examples in history of them.

    • Well i was never liked since birth and am always the subject of bullying and mockery. Women have never liked me despite me being nice and helpful