Are large vaginas a turn off?

I've always been self conscious about my vagina. Basically its just a big pussy. A guy once called it meaty. I have big inner and outer labia.

Anyway, a guy i know somehow found out about it from an ex I think and has been making jokes about it to me which I find really hard to deal with.

Is it really that bad?
What do you think guys?
Is it really such a turn off to look like I do?
Please be honest.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • There is nothing like small or large vagina. Women usually have un-stimulated vaginal length of 2 ¾ to 3 ¼ inches , with about ¾ inch width at the back of the vagina. During the sexual excitement phase the vaginal lengths increased to 3 ¾ to 5 ¾ inches, with the width at the back of the vagina being 2 ¼ to 2 ½ inches. The vagina is like a collapsed, expandable tube lined with skin; the tissue below the skin is loose and contains large veins. Next are smaller circular muscles surrounded by stronger bands of muscle which run the length of the vagina. In addition, the lower third of the vagina is surrounded by a ring of muscles. This is covered by more connective tissue and blood vessels. Damage to these muscles, or if they become thin and weak, can allow the bladder or rectum to pouch into the vagina. This explains importance of strong vaginal muscles. The ring of muscles around the vaginal opening contract during orgasm and may contribute to the intensity of an orgasm. Tricks and techniques play an important role in sexual pleasure and feelings of tightness or looseness. Both the partner can contribute something for it.
    So what is loose is a matter of opinion based upon the input of a sexual partner, or vaginal tone. Muscle thickness decreases with age or with urinary incontinence. Exercise can improve tone of vaginal muscles. The use of vaginal cones and / or Kegel exercises to increase muscle strength - both found to improve tone and decrease urine loss and woman can voluntarily contract those muscles to make the vaginal opening tighter and tighter vaginal muscles improve sex and improved sexual satisfaction of both the partners.
    Many genital plastic surgery techniques are based upon GYN surgical procedures used for medical problems such as reconstruction after cancer treatment, gender change, repair of cystocele / rectocele, etc. Unfortunately there are no remarkable benefits for sexual pleasure.
    The problem with this is that sexual response can be very subjective. There is no easy way to measure sexual satisfaction in women.
    I personally think exercise is a better place to start than surgery. As always, if a woman has concerns about sexual function, vaginal / genital structures, etc she should bring these up to her GYN.

  • I have large labia too. Some guys don't like it, but most seem to love it. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Most Helpful Guys

  • The chances that your vagina is ugly are very small. Most are within a very normal range of variances of which none are any real turn off to men. Of course, yours may have some bizarre quality to it that we've never seen before but somehow I doubt it. Besides which, we can't see it so how could we really know?

  • It's not a turn off.

    Pussy is pussy, and in my experience, a bigger vagina = a cushy landing when I go inside. It's comfortable, and arguably allows more pleasure.

    It's really not a turn-off at all, unless you've got some thick meat curtains going on.

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  • Ignore what that idiot is saying. Its surely not a turn off

  • Nah my ex was like that and it really grew on me

  • Send me a picture of it so I can give a accurate opinion

    • Smooth.

  • Guys who make hurtful comments like that are just immature and ignorant about normal female anatomy. About half of all women have inner labia that extend out past the outer labia. That is perfectly normal and there's nothing wrong with it. If a guy can't accept what is perfectly normal anatomy of a woman then he's just very, very immature.

  • It makes no difference at all.

  • I'll take one!

  • If the girl is nice and intelligent, that's not a problem

  • it's not "bad" i just don't prefer it. it isn't a dealbreaker though.

  • Not a problem as long as it's tight

  • Nope. I specofocally like larger labias :)

    • Specifically*

  • It's all about preference. Personally I like every pussy but I prefer the ones that are small lips having said that I wouldn't turn any pussy down

  • I wouldn’t worry about it.

  • No it’s not an issue whatsoever

  • Great camel toe I bet

  • Not at all! They are fun to suck and lick during oral. They also feel good sliding along my dick during penetration!

  • no, i love it.
    i would suck and lick all over your pussy if u were my woman :)