Tough question. Speaking generally here, there are exceptions to every rule.
Would most guys like to have several different sex partners over the course of a year if they weren’t committed to anyone and it was possible? I think so.
What about women? Most probably not.
Who has more opportunity to do this?
Although most guys would probably do that if they could, the reality is most can’t and that’s why they don’t.
For women, I think even a very unattractive one wouldn’t have too much trouble finding someone to have sex with her.
My final answer is probably women. Pound for pound they have far more opportunity.
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AdithyaRYoda
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I'd say it's the same. The only difference being that guys are praised for being promiscuous and girls are shamed for it.
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coachTanthony
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Well if Men are only promiscuous given their options wouldn't women be more due to the shear fact their options are plentiful?
DizzyDesii
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I won't say every man will fuck just anythting but a lot will. Women may have more options but theyre also picky about those options. The only ones probably sleeping witth a new man weekly are the ones who go out clubbing and are cheap enough to get fcked in a bathroom or alley. So many men seem happy to finally have an option that they’ll be ready to fck it even if its not their type or someone they’d take home to mama. Of course im excluding the good men who are in search of wifey and don’t just give dick to just anybody
es20490446eMaster
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No. What happens is that men are less scared about having sex, and that resulting in a failed situation afterwards.
Which doesn't automatically translate into them valuing less a committed relationship.
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NinaniaXper 7
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Women are definitely more cautious with the very real risk of getting pregnant and having to choose between medical intervention or carrying and raising a child (if they even live in a place where choice is a possibility) regardless of birth control options, cause they're the ones with the biggest physical and emotional impact, if things go wrong.
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MasterKS
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@ninania you nailed it.
suzzieQXper 5
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"Few men and women have had high numbers of sexual partners within a one year period. However, men report having had more sexual parnters than women at ranges above two partners. Approximately six times as many men (.60%) than women (.11%) report falling within 11-20 partners. Eight times as many men (.24%) than women (.03%) report having had between 21-100 partners."
How Many Sexual Partners Did Men and Women Have in 2021? (datepsychology. com)
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coachTanthony
1 y
Well I guess you are assuming women told the truth lol. Women already don't want to be slut shamed by sleeping with a man so why the hell would they admit it for some poll?
suzzieQ
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The same reason I would assume that men are telling the truth... I could just as easily say that men are lying about it too... but that would just be speculation.
coachTanthony
1 y
So why even state a poll if anyone can lie? Men's ego would more than likely bump the number up because god forbid they only had sex with 2 people. lol
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suzzieQ
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Because it was a research article that was relevant to this topic. This information is based on the recent 2021 General Social Survey data. The General Social Survey ( GSS) is a sociological survey created and regularly collected since 1972 by the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago. It is funded by the National Science Foundation. The GSS collects information and keeps a historical record of the concerns, experiences, attitudes, and practices of residents of the United States. The General Social Survey (GSS) has provided a wealth of data on contemporary American society for approximately 35 years by measuring social change and trends and constants in attitudes, behaviors and attributes of the adult population. The GSS is a regular, ongoing interview survey of U. S households conducted by the National Opinion Research Center. The mission of the GSS is to make timely, high-quality, scientifically relevant data available to social science researchers. The GSS is a personal interview survey and collects information on a wide range of demographic characteristics of respondents and their parents; behavioral items such as group membership and voting; personal psychological evaluations, including measures of happiness, misanthropy, and life satisfaction; and attitudinal questions on such public issues as abortion, crime and punishment, race relations, gender roles, and spending priorities. Since 1972 the GSS has conducted 26 in-person, cross-sectional surveys of the adult household population of the U. S. Interviews have been conducted with a total of 51,020 respondents.
coachTanthony
1 y
okay thanks for the comments.
es20490446e
1 y
There's something I don't understand there. How can a gender have more partners than the other. if the gender which they are partnering with is the other one?
suzzieQ
1 y
@es20490446e are you familiar with gay sex?
es20490446e
1 y
Do you think that difference accounts for men having more gay sex than women?
suzzieQ
1 y
@es20490446e Gay men on average have a significantly more sexual partners than women do regardless of the woman's sexual orientation. So yes I am sure that plays into those numbers.
es20490446e
1 y
So what percentage of men are we talking about?
suzzieQ
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@es20490446e You can look that up just as easily as anyone else.
AsaKyoYoda
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Yeah
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TacosRAwesomeMaster
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About the same probably.
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loveslongnailsMaster
1 y
Coach, if you look at the breakdown of the voting, it's pretty funny. There's no way guys are "less promiscuous" than women! I think your first wave were the guys who either don't or can't get laid, but given a chance, they'd fuck like rabbits.
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Reddy4itXper 6
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Pfft…they like to think they are… 😂
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LiamJHaydenGuru
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Overall it seems like it should be roughly even. Simplified, ten men and ten women. If Two Chads each have sex with the ten women, and the women have sex only with the Chads, then eight dudes are left out. The Chads are by far the most promiscuous, but the women are all more promiscuous than the eight incels. The same dynamic could be applied to gay or bisexual people.
This of course does not take into account polygamists. A Chad could in theory have two or three wives who are unaware of each other. In that case, the women would not be promiscuous but Chad would be. But in a population of eight billion, not sure that would be a significant enough number to move the needle.
You always ask questions that get the grey matter working. Thanks!
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NostalgiaSenpiExplorer
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I've known plenty of women to be just as promiscuous
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PohjolanExplorer
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If by promiscuous you mean having multiple partners at the same time then statistically yes.
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coachTanthony
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No never said multiple persons at the same time but it's a good reference lol
POSSY_HUNTERXper 4
1 y
i would say so , the minority of men sleep with tons of women , while the majority of men are virgin forever and spend their whole life jerkin of to internet porn
That was the tune back in the day. Which is crazy to say since it's still in the 2000's
KrakenAttackinMaster
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Most men don't have the opportunity to be promiscuous. It's only the top 4% of men who can fuck like bandits. Women, on the other hand, can fuck whenever they want.
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coachTanthony
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Yeah tell that to all the women in the comments lol
KrakenAttackin
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@coachtanthony. The women in the comments have been run through by Chad Thundercock. I have zero sympathy for women who are addicted to fuck boys.
coachTanthony
1 y
imagine running around with your name as Chad in real life the expectations lol
KeishioXper 5
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I reckon men get caught more often since we're more likely to take a stupid risk
What Girls & Guys Said
18 39Tough question. Speaking generally here, there are exceptions to every rule.
Would most guys like to have several different sex partners over the course of a year if they weren’t committed to anyone and it was possible? I think so.
What about women? Most probably not.
Who has more opportunity to do this?
Although most guys would probably do that if they could, the reality is most can’t and that’s why they don’t.
For women, I think even a very unattractive one wouldn’t have too much trouble finding someone to have sex with her.
My final answer is probably women. Pound for pound they have far more opportunity.
I'd say it's the same. The only difference being that guys are praised for being promiscuous and girls are shamed for it.
Well if Men are only promiscuous given their options wouldn't women be more due to the shear fact their options are plentiful?
I won't say every man will fuck just anythting but a lot will. Women may have more options but theyre also picky about those options. The only ones probably sleeping witth a new man weekly are the ones who go out clubbing and are cheap enough to get fcked in a bathroom or alley. So many men seem happy to finally have an option that they’ll be ready to fck it even if its not their type or someone they’d take home to mama. Of course im excluding the good men who are in search of wifey and don’t just give dick to just anybody
No. What happens is that men are less scared about having sex, and that resulting in a failed situation afterwards.
Which doesn't automatically translate into them valuing less a committed relationship.
Women are definitely more cautious with the very real risk of getting pregnant and having to choose between medical intervention or carrying and raising a child (if they even live in a place where choice is a possibility) regardless of birth control options, cause they're the ones with the biggest physical and emotional impact, if things go wrong.
@ninania you nailed it.
"Few men and women have had high numbers of sexual partners within a one year period. However, men report having had more sexual parnters than women at ranges above two partners. Approximately six times as many men (.60%) than women (.11%) report falling within 11-20 partners. Eight times as many men (.24%) than women (.03%) report having had between 21-100 partners."
How Many Sexual Partners Did Men and Women Have in 2021? (datepsychology. com)
Well I guess you are assuming women told the truth lol. Women already don't want to be slut shamed by sleeping with a man so why the hell would they admit it for some poll?
The same reason I would assume that men are telling the truth... I could just as easily say that men are lying about it too... but that would just be speculation.
So why even state a poll if anyone can lie? Men's ego would more than likely bump the number up because god forbid they only had sex with 2 people. lol
Because it was a research article that was relevant to this topic. This information is based on the recent 2021 General Social Survey data. The General Social Survey ( GSS) is a sociological survey created and regularly collected since 1972 by the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago. It is funded by the National Science Foundation. The GSS collects information and keeps a historical record of the concerns, experiences, attitudes, and practices of residents of the United States. The General Social Survey (GSS) has provided a wealth of data on contemporary American society for approximately 35 years by measuring social change and trends and constants in attitudes, behaviors and attributes of the adult population. The GSS is a regular, ongoing interview survey of U. S households conducted by the National Opinion Research Center. The mission of the GSS is to make timely, high-quality, scientifically relevant data available to social science researchers. The GSS is a personal interview survey and collects information on a wide range of demographic characteristics of respondents and their parents; behavioral items such as group membership and voting; personal psychological evaluations, including measures of happiness, misanthropy, and life satisfaction; and attitudinal questions on such public issues as abortion, crime and punishment, race relations, gender roles, and spending priorities. Since 1972 the GSS has conducted 26 in-person, cross-sectional surveys of the adult household population of the U. S. Interviews have been conducted with a total of 51,020 respondents.
okay thanks for the comments.
There's something I don't understand there. How can a gender have more partners than the other. if the gender which they are partnering with is the other one?
@es20490446e are you familiar with gay sex?
Do you think that difference accounts for men having more gay sex than women?
@es20490446e Gay men on average have a significantly more sexual partners than women do regardless of the woman's sexual orientation. So yes I am sure that plays into those numbers.
So what percentage of men are we talking about?
@es20490446e You can look that up just as easily as anyone else.
Yeah
About the same probably.
Coach, if you look at the breakdown of the voting, it's pretty funny. There's no way guys are "less promiscuous" than women! I think your first wave were the guys who either don't or can't get laid, but given a chance, they'd fuck like rabbits.
Pfft…they like to think they are… 😂
Overall it seems like it should be roughly even. Simplified, ten men and ten women. If Two Chads each have sex with the ten women, and the women have sex only with the Chads, then eight dudes are left out. The Chads are by far the most promiscuous, but the women are all more promiscuous than the eight incels. The same dynamic could be applied to gay or bisexual people.
This of course does not take into account polygamists. A Chad could in theory have two or three wives who are unaware of each other. In that case, the women would not be promiscuous but Chad would be. But in a population of eight billion, not sure that would be a significant enough number to move the needle.
You always ask questions that get the grey matter working. Thanks!
I've known plenty of women to be just as promiscuous
If by promiscuous you mean having multiple partners at the same time then statistically yes.
No never said multiple persons at the same time but it's a good reference lol
i would say so , the minority of men sleep with tons of women , while the majority of men are virgin forever and spend their whole life jerkin of to internet porn
https://www.youtube.com/embed/JDu6aS-cWDII think men can be if given the chance, but not likely as often as women could, but if you’re asking which sex has had more, it might be men
Why of course.
How would that work, mathematically?
If a man can be then he will be. Most can't be though so I think women win this one.
this?
That was the tune back in the day. Which is crazy to say since it's still in the 2000's
Most men don't have the opportunity to be promiscuous. It's only the top 4% of men who can fuck like bandits. Women, on the other hand, can fuck whenever they want.
Yeah tell that to all the women in the comments lol
@coachtanthony. The women in the comments have been run through by Chad Thundercock. I have zero sympathy for women who are addicted to fuck boys.
imagine running around with your name as Chad in real life the expectations lol
I reckon men get caught more often since we're more likely to take a stupid risk