Are most guys racing to the finish line during sex?

[Anonymous]

When I have sex, I don't want to orgasm. Pussy feels so good. I want to stroke inside it for as long as possible. Orgasm takes the pleasure away and ends the fun.

[DavidFox]

For me an orgasm just resets the clock. Because she’s already had a few during foreplay I will alternate speeds but usually go harder and faster. Then after we cuddle or I finger her more while waiting to get hard again

[Asker]

It feels better to me without orgasm. Feeling that need to cum but not going over. Stroking inside, I love it. I dont want to cum at all until its unbearable lol.

[DavidFox]

Lol that’s just edging. Ya that’s a part of the rotation.

[Asker]

I didn't know other people did that. I've always done it naturally. I asked the question cuz I always hear girls. complaining about guys orgasming too fast and the sex stops too early. Never been a problem for me lol. I feel bad for those guys who cum too fast. So much missed out pleasure! And for your girl too.

[DavidFox]

They complain because they didn’t orgasm and the guy did. My rule (free for you to take it) is before intercourse she cums at least once. Foreplay warms her up and after her orgasm it’s less pressure. Understand?0

[0112358]

Maybe but I doubt it. I suspect most would like to last just aren’t necessarily able to.

[Asker]

They can definitely last if they try I think lol. I can bust fast too. I just stop cuz I dont want to bust. I want to feel pussy for as long as possible. And it seems like over time, I gained greater and greater control over busting and last longer and longer before I have to stop.

[0112358]

That’s all normal. What doesn’t make sense to me is why people would rush basically. So I assume there’s a lot more “couldn’t go slow” then “intentionally made it super short so she thinks he sucks at sex”.

[Asker]

Maybe they just dont know that sex can be better for themselves as well. They think orgasm is the only good part lol. I don't know.

[KatherineJ]

No clue

[MountAverage]

Eventually, but edging is the best.

Sorry to hear you can't enjoy the ecstatic pleasure of orgasms though. You're missing out.

[Asker]

Of course I can. But I want to feel them sweet sugar walls for as long as possible before I do. Also it makes the orgasm better the longer you go.

[MountAverage]

Yes, that's what I meant by edging. But it wouldn't be nice if there wasn't a climax eventually.

[Asker]

Sure. I just wonder because I always hear stories about guys orgasming too fast. Especially from girls. And I think "damn. That poor guy, he isn't even enjoying it for more than 5 minutes." Lol. So I wonder if a lot of dudes are just robbing themselves of pleasure.

[MountAverage]

My guess is it's mostly very young guys.

[Twalli]

I like being inside her more than cumming too, but I do want to cum eventually

[fukmesidwys]

Most guys are idiots believe me I'm one of em... but no some of us make sure you get off first cuZ I'm a nice guy

[Asker]

I dont do it for her benefit. I do it for me. I want to feel that amazing pussy for as long as possible.

[Anonymous]

Seems like it.