Are most men bisexual?

[Anonymous]

Sexual orientation polls on GAG show most men saying they are straight, however most men also say they would sleep with shemales (a person with boobs and a penis) and that they prefer shemales over women.

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-health/q249977-would-you-have-sex-with-a-shemale

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/flirting/q2359756-do-you-prefer-a-shemale-or-a-woman

It is also well known that men highly prefer butts over boobs, so really the fact that the shemale body has boobs is almost irrelevant.

It's also shown through studies that men like penises:


The only things I can't make sense of is that men often talk about "the power of the pussy" or "pussy being put on a pedestal," and the fact that shemale porn is not among the top viewed porn by men:

Do you think men are bisexual, even if only by 10%? And if you do, why do you think they like penises more than pussies on an otherwise female looking body?

[roxy_362]

There is no way for anyone to answer this question with certainty. However, as a gay man, my experience with dozens of men so far indicates that the answer could be a resounding yes.

It may come shocking to those who don't know it, but there is an enormous amount of men, many of them married, who sway and sample gay sex for a short time and then return to their supposedly "straight" life.

I'm an exclusive bottom, meaning that I act passive during sex with men all the time. I can tell you that the majority of men to whom I gave a blowjob, and/or who fucked me in the ass, said they were married or had some otherwise straight relationship on the side. The very act of fucking another man's mouth or ass appears benign to many of those men, as these acts do not violate their presumption of still being "straight".

[Kitty44]

I think that people watch whatever is on the front page and the teen category is highly skewed since 19+ men can go to strip clubs or bars but a teen's only outlet can be the Internet. Porn attempts to create culture by selling extreme sex that will get you rejected if you ask for it. That helps pornographers to keep selling their product.

[Anonymous]

Shemale is a derogatory term used in pornography. They are called transgender.

[bifus]

true , but if you talk about trans woman porn most of the people who get off to it, they would probably not know you're talking about the same thing.

[Opinion Owner]

@bifus In the context of this question, the correct term would be trans or transgender.

[bifus]

I believe that's technically incorrect. Do you mean transsexual woman? It's annoying because the original questioner used the porn industry's marketing term "shemale". I've listened to Bailey Jay's podcast and heard her use the word "shemale" when referencing the porn she has done, while referring to herself and other actors as trans women, so it's difficult to understand when trans women porn actresses actually want to refer to their work as "shemale" porn vs transsexual woman porn. It's important to use positive/accurate language when talking about trans people, regardless

[Opinion Owner]

@bifus None of them want to be called shemales in general, judging by the many I know.

[Account]

HAHAHAHA!
I see what you did there!
I like your style, OP!

[MrOracle]

"most men also say they would sleep with shemales (a person with boobs and a penis) and that they prefer shemales over women."

This is completely, totally wrong. You cannot use a voluntary web forum survey and come to any remotely scientific conclusions. A statistics teacher would flunk you for even suggesting such a thing.

[Asker]

Except for the fact that it matches completely with a scientific study...

[MrOracle]

And the link to this study is?

[Asker]

... Right up top.

[MrOracle]

If you don't know what a scientific study is, then it's pointless to continue this discussion.

www.nsf.gov/.../index.jsp?id=trust

[SomeGuy37]

So you think that the video you posted is a 'Scientific Study'? No, sorry. A youtube video is NOT 'SCIENCE'!! A legitimate scientific paper, posted in Science, Nature, the American Psychological Association, or the Journal of Psychology and Cognition, are considered 'Scientific Studies' as they are reviewed, before publishing, and other researchers can confirm those results. Youtube videos can be entertaining, and maybe the predecessors to actual Scientific Works! This video is a prelude, perhaps. Also, as a woman, how can you possibly imagine, what a man might think, feel or want, whether in an encounter, or just fantasy? How, can you, as a woman, have ANY opinion on this, not having any common frame of reference to understand any given male, and his perception, attraction or arousal? In addition, Bisexuality, in males, has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH TRANSGENDER 'Shemales'!! Are you asking a REAL question, or just hating on men?

[Asker]

Well, fine. I didn't watch the whole thing, I skipped to the male sexual attraction parts, and read a bit about the book here:

www.amazon.com/.../B004LRPJ3G

The point is, this can't all be a coincidence. The pornhub search I posted earlier may be the best evidence that men aren't bisexual, but even then:

tugbro.com/.../...-review-female-male-searches.jpg

I'n asking the question because I'm curious about it, but men can't answer this question fairly. Many assume that they're still straight even though they like shemales... If you can show me a scientific study that proves men don't experience mental/physical arousal upon seeing a female looking body with a penis, I will ignore all of these other findings. Until then...

[SomeGuy37]

Hey, just relax a little, OK!! I'm not attacking you, personally. I just disagree with what you posted, and how. Why did you post anonymous? I would be more than happy to discuss this, with YOU, not the whole world! send me a private message, and I will answer just about anything you want to ask!

[bifus]

Liking shemale porn means you're NOT gay, and straight guys can be attracted to someone with a dick. If you don't believe that, go look at porn genres on a gay porn site and compare to a straight porn site. Shemale porn will only be on the straight site, but there won't be images of shemales on the main page, just porn with cis women. Probably because a lot of straight guys think shemale porn is gay and getting hard from it would threaten their straight identity. Every time someone says shemale porn is gay they're reinforcing the beliefs that make them simultaneously aroused and repulsed when they see shemale porn.

[BellePepper]

They definitely are. Otherwise why would they obsess over women being bi all the time?

[RokFerry]

Personally i am completely alpha. but to some men: well: a hole is a hole is a hole.

[blazerock44]

i do like my dick and when i watch porn.. i do look at the dick if its big and long..

well i like the feelings and stuff i feel when a girl is looking at that long and fat thing with 2 balls under.. that moves around a lot

its just... I don't know...

[wittymilf]

I'm disappointed that guys aren't looking at bondage 😕

[imtheman0048]

I think women are way more into that then men

[bifus]

They can't access it because I'm crashing the network downloading it all.

[Cody01]

Through what fucking study states straight men like fucking penises and hairy ass. Even though these transgender women have a penis, this group of people that some men find attractive have very feminine features. If it wasn't for those features they'd just be men. Power of the pussy is different. It basically means that pussy is so good that you can get away with a lot of stuff by using it.

[Jemini_Crocket]

Despite tumblr and all the crap from nowadays, I still think that most people are straight.

[bifus]

In England, close to a majority of young millenials don't identify as straight. The number of people who identify as straight increases as you look at older and older generations. That implies that there are a ton of people who have the capacity for attraction to the same gender, but the more time someone lives in an intolerant society, the more likely they are to repress it.

today.yougov.com/.../

[ADFSDF1996]

They aren't attracted to the male characteristics, they are attracted to the female characteristics of the person. A bisexual person is attracted both men and women. So no, most men are not bisexual. In reality most men are straight.

[Asker]

The person has a penis instead of a pussy... If you're straight, you would want a person with a pussy. Why are people so idiotic...

[ADFSDF1996]

You clearly are confused, when I say female characteristics I'm taking about the facial structure and curves. Instead of berating me consider asking me what I mean first.

[Asker]

Yeah, the facial structure, the curves... and the penis (which isn't a female characteristic). How are they still straight, then?

[ADFSDF1996]

They use their imagination, they are not thinking of the person as man but as a female. Whoever said they were attracted to their penis?

[Asker]

Yeah, okay... That's the lamest thing I've ever heard. Might as well then sleep with a man and imagine he has long hair, breasts, pussy, etc. Why I am even bothering why you, I don't know.

[ADFSDF1996]

You are making no sense at all.

[Kreneman]

Hello, and how are you doing. You have a interesting hot question and to answer your question... Most men are not bisexual and they're not interesting in Shemales over females. I have been Protective officer (Were like Police Officers in a silent way) for 16 years, I have seen, worked in many places, and learn a lot of things plus I have also watched a lot of adult videos. The video that you presented (no offense) is not accurate although one thing is true like you said Shemale porn is not the top viewed or the most watched by straight men (Whichis true) and women is still number in the world for straight men that wants to have sex. Most Gay men are not interested Shemales as they rather go after curious or straight men (I have Gay friends). Transgender women pulls more straight men then Shemales but its still low percent because some men does not know (Which mean they are not gay if they thought the women that they're pentrating is a real women because the Transgender never told the man) and some men can tell. To find the real answer is to talked to a lot of mature men and mature gay men that enjoy having sex.

[Browneye57]

No. And quit watching so much porn. It's giving you weird ideas.

[ASEXY]

No, most men are straight... Most people are straight...

[Mabes3]

that question is by no means representative, and undoubtedly massive swung by the unwillingness of straight guys to even put in the effort to say no, verses those who would being readily excited to do so. it is not true at all

[Asker]

You do realize most men say they are straight on GAG polls, right? ... And GAG is a pretty small community, so they likely aren't different people. Also, I've noticed many men think they are straight despite the fact that they like shemales... because apparently they consider them women.

[Mabes3]

all I'm telling you is that the sample is both small, and not born out in the larger population. that is the kind of question I would pass over without a second thought, so I assume most guys of my ilk (straight, not attracted/actively repulsed by shemale)

[Asker]

Okay, it just doesn't seem like a simple coincidence. I mean, the site is even named Girls Ask Guys, so it shouldn't have so many people that like shemale porn if it weren't true for the general population.

[Mabes3]

it's ~160 people over 6 years. I bet dimes to dollars that is just searching/happenstance over time. those more willing to answer it would be more incentivized over time to answer than those who wouldn't be. plus, once again, 160 people is preponderously not a representative sample of a global population or even a national sample

[Mabes3]

and to note, 100% of the guys on your post are of the opposite opinion

[Asker]

The question on the second link was asked just seven hours ago, but whatever... What do you make of the scientific study?

[Synaptikal]

The real issue is that woman are forgeting what it means tobbe a woman so you have faggots dressed as girls acting feminine and cute, being a better woman than a born woman, so they conquer that stage. That's the only variable here that matters. As to males liking dicks, well if you're into cocks then you were a fag from the start and guys are just taking advantage of that.

[Asker]

That really doesn't change the fact that they're attracted to them... How do you ignore the fact that someone has a penis? You just can't.

[Synaptikal]

They dont ignore it, they embrace it thus that's why they are not straight

[Asker]

So, you're saying most men aren't straight?

[Synaptikal]

What? No, I am saying that if you like dicks then you're a fag? Just the kind that got lured into it by tricking your mind that that thing with a dick is a woman. The majority of males are not into traps, remenber that rules are not the exception.

[Asker]

Did you not see the polls and the scientific research? Most men say they would sleep with a shemale and most say they prefer them over women. At the same time, GAG polls show the significant majority of men saying they are straight, since I've noticed that many still believe they're straight even though they like shemales.

[Synaptikal]

I was talking about the census made in the west about it, GAG is not really a huge community. The male that states he would preffer a shemale is because he is gay but preffers the feminine side of a woman, I mentoned this as a variable meaning, if woman hadn't stop acting like this then chances are these closet fags wouldn't had to need to come out of the closet because their psychological needs were satisfied by a woman.

[Asker]

Yes, but in the small community of GAG, most people say that they are straight in sexual orientation polls. So, something doesn't add up... I don't think that it's because of women's changes in behavior though, whatever that means. I think it's simply because males are able to have boobs and look feminine now, whereas they weren't able to back then.

[bifus]

Yeah, either that or your comment is hateful, ignorant, homophobic bigotry.

[lord_chilled]

I dont think that many guys like shemales. Its just a mind hack (like the professor explained) for some straight men. Most guys still dont like it.
I only know of 3 guys that like shemale porn, and out of them only one would really like to try it out. Most straight men dont like that stuff.

[Dragan]

No. I'm 100% straight. Most men also.

[OpenWine]

for a study you have to choose 100 men, of all age groups and have them all watch the same porn. count the boners and done

[ScottSummers]

nah most men are not bisexual, prolly even less than 10%

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Wow, why do you even care? Most women are bisexual according to the polls and even on gag. Hasn't society been pushing us for the complete acceptance of LGBTA and interracial relationships. Doesn't feminism support these societal constructs? I happen to like women but occasionally I see a goat or a sheep that I am attracted to. Does that mean I'm gay for goats?

[Asker]

Well, at least women admit it, whereas men are in complete denial. I care because I want to know why most men like penises over pussies... It's interesting, don't you think? I mean, why like a feminine beings, why like breasts, but then not like a pussy much? My best guess is that penises are maybe more fun to play with for men. They protrude out of the body, just like boobs do. It still doesn't make too much sense though, because pussies were made specifically for penises, and a female looking body with a penis doesn't look right cause the penis looks too manly. What does feminism have to do with this? No, being gay means being attracted to your own sex; goats are not your own sex. But, you would be a bit of a zoophile...

[SuccessfulHornDog]

ok, just a few things. The goats were all female but the some of the lambs were sheepmales I hope that your trolling because otherwise you are believing some false stuff about men, but that's your prerogative. Please message me a picture of your penis, Thank you

[Asker]

Very funny. I am not trolling, I am basing my opinion on many pieces of evidence. What do you base your opinion on? I am not a male nor a shemale, sorry.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I was just making sure that you were all female, You passed the test I base my opinion on my own observations and experiences. I dont think that many men love each others peni in a sexual way. Peni do represent power and fertility but its not the same as hey look at the penis, it sure looks yummy.

[Asker]

That is a very unreliable test... That's not good enough. Your observations and experiences can't be good sources because you don't know what people think, feel and look at behind closed doors. How do you explain 86 men willing to sleep with a shemale and more men saying they prefer shemales? In every sexual orientation question, the significant majority of men say they are straight, so where did these 86 men come from?

[SuccessfulHornDog]

One of two places. Its someone with a lot of fake accts. Think about the sheer number of votes compared to a normal poll OR men who wanted to troll/"Fuck with girls" by voting this way. My money is on the first one

[Asker]

Well, that's quite a stretch, don't you think? How can one make so many account? It would take a lot of effort due to the quantity of the male votes. Either way, this is just your assumption. If shemales were naturally born, therefore normal and common, do you think men would prefer them over females? ... I should make this a question.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I guess you don't know much about the Internet. That's what some guys do. The can easily set up 10 , 100 or 1000 fake acts. And use a bonnet to have them vote up something

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Botnet

[Asker]

You think someone would go to all that trouble, and for what, a GAG poll?

[SuccessfulHornDog]

You greatly underestimate internet nerds

[Asker]

Fine, just keep in mind that you could still be wrong.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I would be happy to do that except it has never happened before. Lets meet back here in one year and see if anything has changed from a scientific research perspective. If at that time all of the men are married to each other I will gladly admit that I was wrong 😊😊😊😊

[Asker]

It seems you lie quite often, cause I just know that's not true. Also, that won't happen because these men are obviously attracted to femininity, and as such, I never suggested such a thing. No, let's meet back when technology improves so significantly that men can very successfully turn into shemales. Too bad there likely still won't be many that do, but whatever...

[LastNightmare]

What you say babe... I can have threesome MFM but I am not particularly into COCK

[BanterBlitz]

Why are you constantly trying to make all men gay? What's in it for you?

[nudeNhorny]

I can't talk for all other men, but for me I prefer women to shemales, I don't even like shemales, I prefer boobs to butts, but I do like penises, now does this make me bi? I don't know, but really I don't care, I like whatever I like, and I do think most people are bi anyway

[Sabretooth]

not unless you're attracted to the male body.

[Schumy]

I'd say I'm bi-curious

[Felix97]

i'm bisexual 😊

[Bigfatretard69]

"Most men" aren't men on GaG.

Thinking polls on a vastly small social media that nobody uses means that you're mentally impaired.

[Anonymous]

I think most men are bisexual, or at least want to try it.

[Anonymous]

"most men also say they would sleep with shemales (a person with boobs and a penis) and that they prefer shemales over women."

they say so because they give amazing blowjobs

[Anonymous]

Are you gay yourself?

What is your agenda with this poorly researched question. Who says all men like shemales?

Some men are gay, some women are gay... but many men and women are straight.

I think you've posted a flaming-type question deliberately to stir much argument.

99% of men are honest about being gay or bi-sexual, so why won't you be gracious and accept that when a GaG member says he's straight, he is telling you honestly & sincerely that he IS straight.

And by the way, do some better research of you want to be taken seriously next time.

[Asker]

What other research is there, please let me know. Last time I checked, no one has studied whether or not men are aroused by shemales, or just a penis itself without a whole body. If you know of someone who has, please link me to it.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know, you're the one making the big statements about men being aroused by she-males, I'm truly not fascinated by them. Why are you so obsessed about she-males anyway?

[Asker]

Yeah, I thought so. Just because you aren't attracted to them doesn't mean others aren't. I'm not obsessed, I just want to know why many guys like like penises more than pussies.

[Asker]

guys like penises*

[Anonymous]

Yes I prefer shemales over women , but in that case I want to be the one that penetrates and dominates , I don't want to be penetrated since im not gay.

[Asker]

You might not be gay, but you're definitely not straight.

[Opinion Owner]

I have never been attracted to males , fact

[Asker]

But, you are attracted to penises, which coincidentally are a male organ, so you're not gay, but you are bisexual.

[Opinion Owner]

at least I don't want to get penetrated.

[Anonymous]

(17 male)
I would have sex with a shemale
in fact if i moved away from my family into a different state or country, i'd date a shemale. Live with them & everything but i would not marry a shemale..
i want biological kids.
& do i prefer shemale's over women? no. .. sometimes..
do i think i'm gay or bi? No. I like the fact that its a woman.. if i was gay i wouldn't care about the breast.. the makeup.. or any of that.

But then again i'm still young so this feeling i have for them may go away as i get older.. my craving for shemales has went down a lot... its nowhere as bad as it was when i was 11 - 16

it all started when i saw that meatspin website.

[Asker]

You like the fact that this woman has a penis instead of a pussy. You're not straight, you're bisexual.

[Opinion Owner]

Idc about the penis. I could easily ask someone to use a strap on me But yes I won't lie I have always craved penis. But it doesn't make me gay

[Asker]

I didn't say it makes you gay, I said it makes you bisexual. So delusional...

[Opinion Owner]

I never said you said it made me gay I just stating that I'm not gay. That is delusional.

[Anonymous]

fuck shemales (transgenders) i only fuck real women or gtfo

[Anonymous]

my dad is straight, and so am i. my grandpa and the rest of my family is straight. there's only one gay person in my whole family. it's a girl, she's GAY

[Asker]

As if men would say that they're attracted to female looking people with penises... Many, in fact, consider themselves straight, since they consider them women.

[Opinion Owner]

im not attracted to trans

[Asker]

Well, I didn't say all men are bisexual.

[Opinion Owner]

you asked if most were. im telling you, they're not

[Asker]

Do you have any proof besides your word? ... I at least have some things to account for my claim.

[Opinion Owner]

yes, i do