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  • I think it's more that most men are desperate to find a woman that's not judgmental. One that doesn't assume that most men are desperate for sex, and then compare him to, based on past her encounters, the pigs she's found, when trying to find a man to relate with.

    We're NOT all desperate for sex and frankly, that's a pretty shallow, bitter assessment. It's a bias brought on by your past experiences, and it's probably why you're asking this question.

    I/We can't help who you encounter, but like every prejudicial assumption, you paint men with the same broad, hairless brush.

    Saying all of that, thank the internet. It makes good people look bad, and bad people look better. Nothing like a place to hide and be anonymous to perpetrate raunchy sex proposals and the sending of dick pix, to ruin a perfectly woman and change her outlook. All they succeed in accomplishing is to create yet another member of camp bitch, and persuade them to assume the rest of male society has to be like these degenerates.

    I say, as long as these types keep running off women who make broad based assumptions, the better of the decent guys will be. Who needs that?

    People love labels and some should have ones that say, "I assume you're desperate for sex", so you can save those of us that don't fit that mold, the trouble of trying to contact you. Pigs should have a label, saying, "I'm a pig and want nothing more from you than sex."

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  • I´d say to be fair a majority is speaking of the younger generation (under 30). Many of us have their knowledge of women from porn, they are masturbating on a daily basis and every time they open tinder and similar they see guys in bikinis and get horny again.
    A minority of us isn´t because they grew differently without screens or their father having sexual magazines. They´ve grown up with girls from a young age and have their knowledge about women from their own experience.
    So I´d say not most but many guys are constantly thinking about sex and it could be a majority of us already but it´s gonna be the majority in the future for sure.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Most are. Even the ones that get a lot of sex will be tempted by a new pussy. The good ones who are in relationships won’t give into temptation though.

  • certainly not most. however, there are a lot of guys like that. sometimes it is nice and funny, but there are also those who are too aggressive

    • Can u pm me. Gotta quick question

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  • The way you ask the question, I would say "No."

    Not desperate. However, I think most men have a strong sexual drive/urge and desire for sex. Is that desperation? Not for me, and not for most the men I know well enough to have had conversations about it.

    Of course, there's plenty of men (and women) who are not as sexual or don't have a strong sex drive, for whatever reason. A lot of people are also unhealthy, they don't have basic needs met, so sex is going to take a back seat since they don't even have basic things like their weight under control, or drinking, or other addictions.

    A healthy, physically and mentally fit man, for the majority, is going to desire sex. Procreation is most sexually reproducing organisms' main drive. Humans are a sexually reproducing species.

  • Only desperate guys with no skills with women. If you know how to treat a women then there is need to be desperate because there is always someone else out there waiting for you to find her.

  • I don’t think most are desperate, they want or would like it.

    i think the desperate side of things starts getting close to the dangerous side of things.

    where aggression, manipulation, coercion, force, violence become part of that desperate.

  • Depends, modern dating certainly leaves a large portion of men without partners who desire one, and sex would be a component of the relationships those men seek, although I would say it's not the sex itself that most are desperate for. (although biologically, it is a need almost all are hardwired for along with eating)

    Meanwhile there are those making out great in modern dating who can find a new partner easier than booking a taxi, which can lead to envy and jealousy from those left behind which can then express itself in less than healthy ways.

  • Sure. :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AllMenArePerverts

  • It’s the testosterone lol.

  • Well most men get ignored so yeah.

  • Hard to say if it's most men, certain age groups maybe, and many of the ones not getting it I guess. But what amount of men fall into those categories and how many of them are desperate for sex is anyone's guess.
    I mean if you went by what you see on here you'd probably assume yes, but I think the reality is that no most men are not desperate for sex, although the current younger generation seem to be struggling with it more.

  • Depends on the guy. The ones who are successful with women or know good ways to channel sexual energy via goals or work or even through a quick masturbation session can at least do that without begging women or using manipulation and violence.

    Guys tend to want sex, but they have outlets they should and can use to make it less of an issue. For the most part if men are in a relationship with a woman or have options, they aren't desperate. They may want it, but it isn't the main goal at the end of the day.

  • I don't think they are desperate for it, I think we want it more than most women. Women wants to connection with the guy. Guys just want to orgasm

  • No. I’m not. I’m also not most men but I’m one of many. So if I’m not desperate for it, I can’t be the only one out there

  • I don't think so.

  • No but our DNA makes us strongly predisposed to it.

  • Nope

  • There is a difference between desire and desperation. Almost all men want sex, only some are desperate.

  • Yes, Thoreau wrote that "All men lead lives of quiet desperation."

  • I would say so.

  • Affection in general, really. But sex too, yes.

  • i don't think so. but most men wouldn't say no, if given the option.

  • Nope. My libido is virtually nonexistant.

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