Are other serious couples this sexually varied?

[Anonymous]

I don’t even know if I worded the question right lol. But basically, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months, but were best friends for about 6 months before that (with huge crushes on each other!) He is still my BEST friend, we do everything together! And I can definitely see him being my husband one day 🥹❤️

We have just recently started touching over elements of our sex life to our friend group (because they like talking about that stuff, kinda like how they do on Sex and the city haha) but so far, we have received pretty weird looks of judgement from them or questions like “what? Why would you do that?” followed up by some laughs…

NOT that I care what they think-because I really don’t, but it has made me very curious about other couples. Is it common for couples to do this kinda thing? Or are we considered ‘weird’ or very ‘out there’

Here is a list of some of the stuff we enjoy:

* Making love- intimate, sweet missionary in bed

*Having sex in scandalous places (change rooms, restaurant bathroom, a finger under the table at someone’s house, outside) etc

*Having sex with the curtains open (sometimes) cause the neighbours like a show 🤭

*Playing games with each other (for example me pretending to flirt with another guy in a bar so my boyfriend gets possessive and jealous and fucks me hard and gets rough with me in the bathroom or when we get home)

*Combining sex and food (my kink specifically)

*Period oral/bloody period sex (His kink specifically)

*Some BDSM (he is usually the Dominant one but we like to switch it up sometimes if I can outsmart him haha)

* Combining our body fluids- he loves cumming inside me then eating me out and kissing me. I like giving him a bj then kissing him too, we both like tasting each other and our own tastes haha. He also loves to spit in my mouth.

*My boyfriend is an automotive technician and once he got in big trouble from his work because he fucked me in one of the show cars he took on a test drive 😬

[petitedollbabee]

Everyone has their own kinks (unless they’re vanilla) and there’s nothing wrong with that! But when sharing these things with other people, you can expect to get strange looks. It won’t be everyone’s cup of tea.


I’ve been with my partner for a little over 2 years, and we both have our own kinks that we do in the bedroom.. though, neither of us are exhibitionists, so we don’t have sex or play outside of our house, like you and your boyfriend do. I certainly don’t share my sex life with my friends though, some things are best left private. And I know I would get strange and judgmental looks if I shared haha. I can’t comment on the kinks that you and your boyfriend enjoy, as they’re not my own kinks or my partners kinks, but enjoy whatever is good for you two! There’s nothing wrong with that. Just keep in mind that some things are better kept private, as not everyone will understand or share those interests.

[Asker]

Yeah I’m slowly learning that I definitely would prefer not sharing these things with my friends! Just because they enjoy talking about it, doesn’t mean we have to. thanks for the advice :)

[Anonymous]

Hopefully he is the right one and some stuff is wild and fun then others like flirting with others... Na not so much kinda more eventually might ruin it when jealousy enters and someone goes to well along with it!

Games ruin relationships and what if the guy fights back and hurts your boyfriend? One of my friends had her hubby killed doing that! Stabbed just once!

Bdsm is fun go wild for it!

Why not do vibrating panties all over or remote butterfly sucker 😉. My personal fav!

Please be safe doing sex in public exciting but every one else hates it especially in public areas! Kids do see and find you sometimes!

Well if you wanna couples swap we are game even just some wild sexting words!

[Asker]

Thanks for your concern :) the whole jealousy game doesn’t go too far, we break it off pretty fast anyway because we just wanna jump each others bones and it’s all consensual. The person who I would be ‘flirting’ with never learns that I’m actually in a relationship, it’s literally just a quick little conversation I have with them to grab my boyfriend’s attention. I am definitely into the vibrators and BDSM! Also the risk of being caught while being hidden in public makes it all the more exciting for us. We never actually have sex in plain sight though haha.

[Opinion Owner]

Glad you keep it safe Well we love being risky too! One time my hubby tied me up put me in the trunk and used his phone to control my vibrator and but plug... Then picked up my sister and drove her to the airport! So won't ever tell her that noise was me moaning! Loving it Ever been tied some where that you might be caught? What is your favorite bdsm toy? Mine is a few naughty things

[Asker]

Omg that’s soo hot! Especially having your sister being driven that’s crazy haha. I have had my fair share of trunk experiences too 🤭 I love when they use their phone to control the vibrations 🥵 My boyfriend is also in a band and one time I was backstage in the dressing room and when he was on stage he was making the audience scream for him, and he used the roar of the crowd to intensify my vibrations (don’t ask me how he hooked it up to my vibrator I have no idea lol) but it was SOO HOT. My favourite toy is honestly his hands lol. He wears lots of rings and when he uses his ring clad fingers to spank me or finger me I go crazy for that!

[Opinion Owner]

The rings feel different? Maybe I'll try that! Hm love spankings and that sounds so amazing your vibe to the crowd I'd be so in heaven from that! Oooo hands and fingers and tongues! Well we have done worse things but I'll tell you in pms. My name is Roseysarah shoot me a follow and I'll message you!

[Asker]

Yes definitely try with rings! And sorry your account doesn’t show up :(

[Opinion Owner]

Aww what is yours? Let me try typing it right!

[Opinion Owner]

@roseysarah

[Opinion Owner]

What is your name so I can give you a well earned follow? Ever been tied up with the vibrator set to music then left for a time not knowing when he is coming back? When he is going hard does it ever hurt? Sometimes I think my uterus or cervix gets in the way and hurts to much! Being collared and leashed is so exciting for me around the house and in the back yard! Bent over the picnic table and... Ever been caught by a neighbor?

[Opinion Owner]

You can see I liked your question? Not sure why you can't find me?

[Markm3212]

I wouldn't say you were wild or anything out of the ordinary, just kinky really.

i guess that your friends are not kinky and very vanilla with sex. where as you guys seem a little more kinky and like to have fun. you know what you like and what you want and enjoy it.

kudos to you for not worrying what your mates say and just accepting that you like it.

as for some of the things you have done, i have done similar. on holiday had sex with the wife up against the window (curtains open) in a popular sea side resort over looking the beach. BDSM, and others. all pretty normal, just more kinky than the average couple but not as hard core as some of those of Fetlife lol

[SnowedIn]

Yes other couples are that sexually varied. Not all. But many.

And good for you both for your openness and exploration.

[Anonymous]

You sound pretty wild, but most couples tend to keep their sex lives private.