Are small boobs a disappointment for men?

Let's say your girlfriend has small breasts. Would you be any disappointed? I read somewhere that EVERY man LOVES big tits on a woman and wishes her wife had bigger when she's smaller so I'm just asking because I got small breasts and I'm now considering plastic surgery.

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  • I wish there were a dating site for this. A guy who prefers it, for whatever reason, can't easily tell from profile pics. A woman can't advertise it b/c she notices the drop in responses. (Let's face it: we largely try to appeal broadly instead of to who would appreciate us, against our better judgment.) And men can't search on this criterion.

    To me, large breasts mean they get unattractive after many years, and I'm looking for the final relationship, not someone for the next two years or the next five.

    So who wants to found a dating site with me? twiggy. com? itsthelittlethings. com? Sell it to match. com in five years for millions?

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  • You shouldn't believe everything that you read.

    Most men love boobs - period. Doesn't matter if they're big, medium, or small - guys love boobs.

    A small percentage of guys ONLY like big boobs, and a small percentage ONLY like small boobs. The vast majority of guys like BOOBS.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don’t have big boobs and I can assure you that not all guys like big ones. Plenty of guys prefer smaller. I think having smaller boobs is great. No big, ugly, expensive bras, no back pain, we can just be natural and comfortable.

    personally, I would never change mine.

    • @ushagomez Keep them that way.

    • Great answer, I wish girls would listen to other girls more then guys on stuff like this.

  • They do love big boobs? News to me as someone who has them.

    No, most men prefer small boobs, big boobs are considered unattractive because of the fucking sag thanks to Earth's gravity.

    • I don't know, I'm confused now cuz almost everybody says in the comments they like small boobs.. But everywhere else I always hear how big boobs are great or better than small etc.

    • no it is not better to have bigger

    • they maybe smell bad

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  • Here's the truth: larger breasts get more attention. From men, from women, from babies; they're simply more noticeable. Even from a purely attention-focused standpoint, however, there's a difference between catching someone's eye and keeping it. AND one between catching someone's eye and being considered more attractive.

    And even from a purely attraction-focused standpoint, where there ARE men who prefer larger breasts, diminishing returns set in pretty quickly, and eventually it becomes a negative, as breast size outpaces frame size, and it starts to look unnatural, even when it isn't.

    Fundamentally, men like boobs; size is less important than most women think. And even if a guy does like them larger, it's not likely to be a major issue; we're none of us perfect, and anyone for whom it's a dealbreaker is too shallow to want to be with anyway.

  • Not if she humps like a dream. But yeah, if you are lame screw, big tits gives a guy something to grab on to and look at.

    But I would glady take a small titty woman that humps like dream over some big bitty batch.

    • You can also look at small boobs wdym.

  • I date women. I actually like petite chests, but also don’t value my partners based on their chests. And, I would hope if a guy gets to the point of “girlfriend” he’d already be aware of what he’s getting into.

  • Not at all. I actually prefer smaller boobs. Be happy with your body!

  • I prefer small boobs over fake boobs, and many men are okay with a teen-like boobs.

    Are small boobs a disappointment for men?
  • Not at all disappointing. Not all men like "emergency flotation devices". Since I enjoy a lot of active forms of entertainment, large breasts always look a bit uncomfortable to me.

    For many men (including me) breasts are not all that important as a visual feature on women. I mean they are nice and all, but not at all the most important.

  • I personally like smaller breasts, but that is just me. However, the real question is, are you disappointed when you look in the mirror? It is after all you that has to live with your body.

    If you think having larger breasts will give you more confidence and make you feel sexier then who cares what guys on here think?

    In the end it is your body, your image, and your life, just do what makes you happy!😊👌

    • I didn't really care before tbh but when I found out it's actually a problem then I started to be disappointed and sad about them.

    • If I were you I would do my research. See what other women say about it afterwards, don't take the word of the doctors who do it, they are trying to sell/promote the idea. Just make sure it is something you can live with afterwards. In addition, don't do it because you think most guys prefer larger breasts, it is a common misconception. If you have a small frame and smaller chest area it goes naturally with your body. I am sure they are more beautiful than you think.

    • I was just reading some comments on ig about a woman who posted a video that her boobs became B cups after pregnancy (my size by the way) and ALL men there were saying how must her husband be sad, disappointed and stuff like this + some even said they would DIVORCE with her. This is enough for me to get implants.

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  • Please, please, please Do Not believe everything you read, and certainly don't go mutilating your body with plastic surgery.

    • I don't know girl, I read it multiple times and now I feel kinda bad about myself.

    • Whatever it is you've read certainly would never mention EVERY MAN. Just these early responses from the guys proves my point.

  • I prefer medium-ish ones, but I wouldn't refuse to date a girl if she's got small ones.

    In a sense, it's disappointing, like that, unless anything is 100% perfect and I mean anything, like food for example, as weird as it sounds.

    • Okay but nobody's perfect so if she has small breasts would you be turned off or something? This really sucks..

    • Hardly. Anything less than perfection can be viewed as disappointing, but it doesn't matter.

  • No way. I love smaller ones. It's better to play with. I really hate fake ones. That would turn me off.

    • What is turn off about fake boobs? Isn't it great that they are at least big? I really want implants cuz I don't feel good with small.

    • It's your choice, but I don't like them. They look like 2 hard balls sticking out, so fake. I really like small ones like A or B cup is perfect. Nice handful.

  • Not at all.

  • I prefer small ones.

    A disappointment would be finding out she had tattoos or a bad past.

  • Very much not true.

  • Breast size isn't important, it is her enthusiasm in the bedroom that counts. My wife has very tiny boobs and we have been together for 42 years I still play with them when she lets me. You don't need surgery

  • women's lies. I don't know anyone who likes big tits. All my friends prefer small. and I also. And as I read here, the majority too. If men liked busty women they would reproduce with busty women and all women would be busty. But it's not like that.

    • "I don't know anyone who likes big tits. All my friends prefer small." Thank you for confirming my point all guys hate big boobs.

    • Men prefer big breasts. They always stare at them, not at the small ones. That tells you a lot. Questions like mine are usually asked by women with small breasts, so of course guys are trying to be polite and a lot of them will give "reassuring" answers, such as "I don't mind small breasts" or "if a girl has a great personality I will accept small breasts" etc. Nobody needs to reassure big breasted women that they are attractive, as they have evidence of this every day, when every guy looks at their cleavage. Most small breasted women are highly insecure about their breast size. Why would that be, if they were considered equally attractive to big breasts? The reality is that the world we live in today worships huge, overgrown breasts, too big in proportion to the rest of the body. Standard size breasts are considered small. Today a size 6 girl is expected to have size 12 breasts. You are supposed to be generally slim with the exception of two large bags of fat on your chest.

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  • Not for me, but I never had a boob fetish for whatever reason, so it never mattered to me.
    Other guys size matters.

    • Yeah and it sucks a lot.

  • My girlfriend has small breasts and I love them, wouldn’t change a thing. Many men prefer them, and ones who would be disappointed by them are not a good match for you.

    • So majority is not good for me, great...

    • I don’t think a majority of guys find small breasts to be a disappointment

    • I think its a minority who are pretty shallow that would let it affect a relationship, and these guys are not worth catering to.

  • Smaller is way better! If that's you embrace them and know that the right guy will too!

  • Small boobs are attractive and best for the girl. Don't do anything to change them.

  • No not at all. I like all sizes.

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