Are small tits and small ass as attractive as big titties and big ass?

I’m half Asian so i have been petite my entire life. I’m talking like A cups, XXS sizes
i feel these days social media portrays attractive woman as thicc, curvy ones with boobs and ass. yeah I don’t exactly fit that image at all. I know everyone has different taste but if all you see everywhere is thicc woman then are smaller girls even “attractive” in the eyes of our society?
Are small tits and small ass as attractive as big titties and big ass?
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  • to me women are whole package deals.. proportions and health and state of mind are important to me.. and not in that order. a happy person gets a +10 to attractiveness. An intelligent person gets some points too.. a compassionate person also.. (how you treat others is indicative to how you will treat me once the infatuation is gone) How much you like me matters too, i dont want to be wham bammed or used anymore than you do. you don't need to pass all these assesments.. it's a whole picture type thing. someone who has become a cherished friend gets the biggest bonus of all. you get to be friends by sharing laughter smiles and time together.. that's pretty fertile ground to eventually find something better. i discovered kdrama and blackpink.. so.. i'm actually partial to Asians.. but i'm too old to be in the market. i'm a blink addicted to kdrama and running man.. and a few other variety shows. since you cannot change who you are.. you should be happy with what you got.. and anyone deserving of you would appreciate you.. accept and cherish you for who you are.. I'd rather be with a plain woman i love than a beautiful one for the wrong reasons. just be yourself.. try to be healthy.. try to be happy.. choose to be happy where u can (glass half full instead of half empty) smile cus it makes you more attractive.. do things you love to do.. sharing your time and activities with friends.. and hopefully someday love will find you. for who you are not what you look like.. (and petite women are fine :) yo8u can be a small person with a grand stature.

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  • Sis... "big ass" is not attractive. I do not know or understand where this lie came from, or how it became so fucking popular, that guys want "big" ass. ---We do NOT want big ass. We want hot, fit, tight, TONED ass. If that ass that is tight and toned also happens to be a little big, then that's great and fine, but the problem is that a lot of fat girls hear that and are like "oh I'm hot then because I'm thicccccc" or some retarded shit, and NO sis, you are NOT hot, your ass is FAT, not hot. Guys (real guys anyway, not betas or simps) DO NOT WANT BIG/FAT ASSES ON GIRLS. Bloody hell.

    If your ass is on the slimmer side, that is FINE, as long as you are toned and tight. That is a GOOD thing, not a bad thing. Now as far as tits go, yes, we generally want bigger ones to a point than smaller ones, but what guys care about first and foremost is *proportionality.* So as long as your little tits complement your overall body and frame because you are overall slim/petite, then do not worry, your tits will be perfectly fine and the overwhelming majority of guys, even athletic handsome ones, will like them perfectly fine.

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  • I think society has created beauty standards and I think everybody thinks that they have flaws in them, what they can do in order to look beautiful? Women need to accept that they are beautiful! Girl, if you have small titties, you need to accept them as they are! I have big breast and I want to reduce the size of it. So, it depends on us, it has become a hierachy as people think that those who have big titties they are beautiful, No!! We all are beautiful, just keep your body in shape, just love yourself the way you are! Practise self love!!

  • oh god... Thats literally me. I'm going to be brutally honest here. As the one in my friend group with the smallest breasts (32A), I can tell you that I've dated less than half the number of guys my larger breasted friends do (like even just one letter up). I couldn't tell you why.

    • Just saying. But i would pick you over your friends any day.

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  • I find petite women who are in good shape very attractive. If you want boobs, go buy them. You can help fill out your booty in the gym.

  • If by "attractive" you mean "attention-grabbing", then no. Your better-endowed counterparts will (other things being equal) be better at catching eyes. But if you mean "sexy", then yes (potentially). You may well end up better at holding them.

  • I'm fine with any nicely shaped boobies from 32 or even 34 A-DD. I don't like tits that are larger than that. My personal ideal would be 32C-D, but smaller boobies can be delightful.
    I'm really turned off by the giant, out of proportion asses and thunder thighs these days that people call thicc. Ideal measurements have a 1.0 hip to 0.8-.85 waist ratio. Measurements of 36",24",36" used to be considered ideal. But that can vary based on stature. You wouldn't expect a 5" and a 5'10" woman to have the same measurements. And those measurement are only general guidelines. 32",25",36" would also fall into the ideal range.

  • I've never understood the trend towards "thicc" women, myself. I don't find the look attractive, at all.

    I very much prefer smaller breasts and a small ass. It's much sexier.

  • No, they are more attractive.

  • I find them much more attractive! I find the gal in the photo to be very beautiful! If that is you, then you are extremely beautiful and sexy.

  • that's a person to person thing. But keep in mind guys find many things attractive. Personality, your energy, hobbies, or just how you smile.

    • We also like it when she can cook.

    • @COMMODOREII most guys do. Physical looks can me so minor if you can make up for them.

    • Yeah, and dont forget if they are good on a game or at sports too. 😗

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  • Small breasts are BEAUTIFUL!!! Her body doesn't matter as much as how we relate, and the things we share together! Why is everyone so hung up on "big tits" and "ass"?
    Maybe that focus is why more than half of marriages fail, and end in divorce, fcking up the kids!!

  • 1 the girl in the pic looks good.
    2 I'm not into the whole "dummy thick" scene it not for me
    3bigger is not always better, especially with ass, big asses lose a lot of details that I love like:
    -sexy divots where the ass ends and thighs begin, there low and to the inside of each butt check
    -the 2 dimples above the ass, lolk like there either side the spin
    -thigh gap, also heard it called a toblerone tube
    -nice perky, firm round shape

    Usually the bigger the ass gets the more these features disappear, and I'd rather have these than flat out sizs.

    As you can tell I'm an ass guy, I'm not near as picky with boobs again they can get to big to, anything bigger than a Dcup is just unnecessary. Anything more than a handful is a waist so I am very happy with slightly smaller but much perkier and firm boobs.

    Dont be hard on yourself about your butt and boobs, bigger isn't better, I'm sure you look amazing.

  • That's going to vary person to person.

    The "thicc" (hate that word especially when "thick" is not a compliment, and they've also redefined "curvy" as a PC alternative to chunky) push in advertising is basically trying to meet halfway between chunky and athletic women and appeal to as many people as possible without "shaming" fat girls.

    Personally, I am typically more attracted to women with "normal" feminine body shape and proportions the most, but would lean more towards skinnier and flatter than the other direction.

  • Yes! Some guys need boobs that jiggle and bounce when a girl walks, I actually prefer them not to on my girls. I like a girl that can go out in a summer dress without a bra, and not worry about her boobs getting all unruly! And yes, a smaller ass is attractive as well. I personally tend to like a smaller ass with a little bit of thigh gap, so when my girl is walking around naked, I can see her vagina from her front or her back. For some reason that is very sexy to me! It provides a great view whether she's coming or going! Lol
    I'm sorry to be so blunt, I guess I could have spoken a little more gently, but that's the gist of it.

  • Of course.

  • Not all guys are the same - we all have different preferences. I've dated two girls where one was pretty skinny and the other looked like the typical curvy girl, the "big titties and big ass". I found them both equally attractive.

    I've met guys who were into skinny women with small boobs and ass whereas I've met guys who were into the complete opposite. Just own your body and don't worry about it.

  • absolutely, i love the female form, no matter the size and shape it is, but for me it's the personality that defines beauty and attraction... if i met a woman who has a good personality no matter what she looked like in her eyes or anyone elses.. if we clicked she would be beautiful regardless

  • to me personally they are my ideal and im not into lots of big wobbly bits but we are all different and many guys dont like skinny girls

  • https://www.youtube.com/embed/rwWl0ZD7re0

    Depends on the girl :) Taeyeon is definitely attractive and she fits the type you've desried but there are also girls like her that are too skinny and lack curves that are not attractive to me anymore. Like for instane Blackpink is really on the edge for me they're already too far over the line tbh.

  • More attractive to me.

  • i love all size tits if they look good and are proportionate and perky with a nice areola and nipple to match. a big ass is not attractive. as long as it is not flat and has a little curve to it it's fine

  • They can be. I like smaller boobs and it's just fine for me 🤙

  • I think they can be. I just like a girl who has a 100% natural body. no matter the size or shape of her breasts or butt. so long as she is happy with how she looks in the mirror. and I enjoy her personality. I would still consider dating her long term.

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