Girls, are the noises you make during sex subconscious or deliberate?

Why is it that some women really scream and others are almost silent? Would you do it if you're on your own as well when there's no one to impress?
Subconscious, I moan whenever I orgasm
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Deliberate, I moan but only when I'm with a partner
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Deliberate, I scream but only when I'm with a partner
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Deliberate, I scream even when I'm on my own
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Deliberate, I moan even when I'm on my own
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I don't moan or scream
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Subconscious, I scream whenever I orgasm
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  • Oh god if I could be quiet without having to concentrate on being quiet that would be nice. I'm super loud sometimes and I don't even mean to it's kind of embarrassing even though my boyfriend doesn't care as long as I orgasm! If someone else is in the house I have to focus really hard but I can usually stay quiet when I need to, it just takes some effort.

    • What happens when you try to stay quiet? Do you shake? Do you have to bite something or cover your mouth?

    • I usually bite my boyfriend tbh

    • Ouch.

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  • I'm a bit different. I moan subconsciously when I'm enjoying, but my orgasms are really quiet, even though they're the best part. Sometimes I fake moan when I'm coming, because I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm not enjoying it. But all other times, I'm actually moaning

    • Maybe that's because you tense up when you orgasm?

    • Possibly

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  • Subconscious I whimper/squeal

  • i moan because i know that;s what he wants to hear... me moaning and groaning that lets him know that i am enjoying. And i am but the noise just assures him that :)

  • By now, it's deliberate. I grew up in a Mormon family, so I learned how to shut up whenever I was rubbing one out.

    • You bad Mormon.

  • They're automatic. I have to try pretty hard to not be loud.

    • Why is that?

  • This is going to sound horrible but the noises I make during sex are almost always deliberate. I make them so that he gets excited and finishes quickly. The only non-deliberate sounds I make are cries of pain but he thinks those are from pleasure as well...

    • Oh dear. I hope you enjoy sex with him and you're not forcing yourself just for him

  • i've never screamed, i thought that only happened in films? lmao. i moan and gasp during and when i'm cumming but it's never deliberate, i think i subconsciously try to suppress my moans tbh

  • Moaning is obviously subconcious.. u just can't stop

    • Even if you bite something?

    • it slips out one way or the other lol

    • Maybe but still muffled noises can't be stopped ;-)

  • I am very expressive. It just happens..

    • What if you covered your mouth?

    • Well, generally I bite a pillow, but there are still sounds made, just muffled and quieter.

  • Subconscious, and I moan not only when I orgasm but whenever it feels really good (which it does all the time) during sex

    • Not to begin with though surely. Although sometimes my girlfriend starts making noises as soon as I start touching her. I don't know if she's actually enjoying it or if she's just doing it to please me.

    • I think you often can tell if someone's faking it or not. I make noises right in the start too sometimes because he's made me so turned on in the foreplay

    • she might just be good at faking it though. I'm worried she is faking it.

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