Are the sex preliminaries THAT important?

[Anonymous]

I mean, c'mon, it takes so much time.. girls do even enjoy quickies or something?

[ccp16]

I always make sure my girls orgasms before sex one way or the other, girls just work differently they need to be warmed up to enjoy it. Sure I have had a few quickies and they have enjoyed that plenty especially in a semi public space, so it does happen but I think they were turned on from the circumstances to begin. I do think for the most part, girls are going to want the warm up though, as a nice bonus I almost never have to worry about lube because they are soaking before you even start! And simultaneous orgasm, at least close enough, is way more likely!

[ccp16]

All I can say is, be a giving lover, and girls will want way more sex with you, the stories you hear of guys who always complain their girls don't want sex, are ones that just rush straight to sex and do it all for themselves seeing as it is common for women to not cum from sex.

[Asker]

thanks bud!

[Anonymous]

Yes the preliminaries are THAT important. Girls are NOT like boys. Girls take time to warm up and to get wet. Without that time, they cannot enjoy sex and can actually get physically HURT by it. Without taking that time you are basically being a RAPIST.

[Asker]

ok then.. thanks!

[Klaatu51]

i like them because this is what turns me on most

[Anonymous]

Yeah, for sure. We need to be aroused and preliminares are the best to feel like "OMG I want to do it so bad".

[Asker]

hmm, but i guess you probably had one time that you wanted it like, immediately. right?

[Anonymous]

Spoken and asked only by a guy thinking of his own pleasure. Booooooo!

[Asker]

so.. are you replying or not?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, they are that important.