Are there guys out there who don't like a BJ?

I'm dating an innocent guy, who never dated or had sex with a girl. He is one year younger than me and I'm wondering if I might scare him if I go down on him... how do I know if he will want it?
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  • I think some guys might like the sensations from blowjobs but feel a bit of performance anxiety because porn always shows guys blowing massive loads after mere minutes of stimulation. I think you can know he wants it if you initiate and he's receptive.

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  • I believe many guys love a BJ. Take it one step at a time. Start touching him through his pants to see his reaction. If he doesn't object, try unzipping him and taking out his dick. If he lets you touch it, move onto licking it to see if he disapproves. If he doesn't, keep going until it's in your mouth and move onto a BJ. If you want him to cum in your mouth encourage him as he may be shy about it, especially if it's his first time. If you're into swallowing, tell him what you want to do. Communication is the key to everything in a relationship and sex is no different. If you want to get a feel for his attitudes about receiving a BJ before you try anything, consider watching porn together that features oral sex. Tell him you want to try it on him and what he says.

  • Well kind of explore with your hands to start and go with his reactions and work your way down with your hand and body language will basically tell you if he lays back he is comfortable if he does not he is not quite ready. If he is comfortable with your hand start kissing him from head and work your way down kind of explore with your face on the way down. Undo his pants and lower his underwear watch for his body reactions. Lays back he is comfortable if not he will kind of avoid it. The main thing is get to know each other and nature will take its coarse. Most males do like to be sucked like females like to be licked.

Most Helpful Girl

  • just go for it... or play it safe... when making out with him rub his cock through his pants he'll either take it out or he'll be hard as a rock so unzip him and suck it... if he says no there's a 99% chance he's gay simple as that.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I'm not a fan of them.

  • Just ask him...

  • Sit him down talk to him explain how your feeling Bet he will jump at it

  • If he is very shy, innocent, you need to make sure he is ok with it.
    I have a few suggestions.
    Hmu if you want to talk about it

  • What guy wouldn't want it?

  • Ya I don't get much out of bjs

  • I'm not a huge fan of BJs. They are nice though...

  • doubt you would scare him but to answer your initial question yes., i am a guy who does not care for blow jobs.

  • Well, you should watch some porn movies with him, while you touching him and provoking it, touching his cock and if you saw him naked, trying to compare if he's bigger than the porn actors of the movie

  • You guys have sweet relationship. Just kiss him

  • Highly unlikely, and he will probably tell you if he doesn't like it. But you could always ask too.

  • Well he will want it and enjoy it immensely.
    Just find a good point in time and tell him you wouldn't mind giving him his first blow job.
    Just take the pressure of asking off of him.

  • love them..

  • Ask if he wants it.

  • I will love to receive a bj anyday

  • I am one of them, but it's only been about 6 years since. I had a blood clot in my leg that left my tip painfully ticklish. Would run all the way down to my left foot. Strangely, when we had sex, no problem.

  • Just do it, you’ll be his first!

  • Well you could always ask is a sexy way. Like whisper to him something like I don't know I'm drawing a blank here

  • You won't scare him. He will come back for seconds :)

  • Ask him.

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