Are there people who you want to marry to and who you want to have sex with is different?

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  • For me it is different, yes. But also more complex than your title so ill explain.
    The people I can enjoy sexual things with such as sexting is broader, I don't need attachment to enjoy sexual compatibility with someone I meet online for example. But simultaneously if that person happens to be incredible and I want her as my girlfriend it could lead to more and then i'd be open to actual sex and penetration.

    But if I want to marry her is more of a systemic imbalance issue, if I have to marry her to for example be able to move to her country she would be a girl i'd want to marry. But if there is no need to marriage and no benefit to marry why would I do it? I'd be signing my own rights and security away, for what reason exactly? If she's the kind of girl who wants a legal contract over my head she can threaten me with or else she doesn't won't stay in the relationship that would be an extreme red flag to me. Meanwhile if she's not that kind of girl why not just be together for the rest of our lives without the government involved?

    So I don't want to marry in most circumstances (Symbolic marriage is fine by me, I just don't want the legal system involved), but to me the girl I'd penetrate sexually is the same kind of girl I'd want to commit the rest of my life to in what functionally would be a marriage. If its just mutual masturbation I am open to more like a friend with benefits.

Most Helpful Guy

  • The people you want to marry you also want to have sex with.. they are the whole package, while if you just want to have sex with them then there is something about them that you dont like, but you can still find them physically attractive

Most Helpful Girls

  • There’s a guy that I have sex with but he’s going to marry someone else

    • Thank you for the MHO 💕💯

  • Sex is just sex. Marriage is a different story.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I would want a Bentley Silver Spur as a daily driver but try out a Lamborghini and others. Did I answer your question?

  • There are women I would just fuck and women who I would settle down with

    • @tim2nice which one am I?

    • @Jennz6 , you’re my future wife and the love of my life. When I’m officially married to you I’ll be totally devoted to you but I’ll give you my blessing to sleep with other men and women if and when you desire. That’s my promise to you and I won’t change my mind.

  • I have tasted a couple of people I had sex with but knew I would never want to marry them. I was mostly curious about them.

  • Yes but that is simply my desire for variety. I still want / desire / love my best friend n SO.

  • Only if you are broken

  • Nope there the same person

  • Yeah but just having sex isn't important to me anymore

  • Yes I have gone through that many times.

  • Marriage culture not much impress me.

  • Yes.

  • i might have sex with a lot of people but i'll only marry one of them 🤷‍♀️