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  • It embarrassing to amit but for me kind of. I was a virgin and I pacifically wanted to date a virgin man. Not all for my own sexual fantasys but because I knew they would be more understanding as they would also be in the same boat and I would know they'd not slept around with lots of girls.

    There is something I liked more about virgin guys, just because they are usually so much more sweeter and shy then other non virgin guys which is kinda cute and innocent. not saying all are but most my age just want to fuck anything and won't be polite about it so it's refreshing when you meet a man like that. I'm a very caring person too and I like them to know I here for them and won't judge them, they are completely safe with me and can relaxe. I also find the idea of it very romantic being someones first because they won't forget it.

    When me and my boyfriend lost are virginity to each other it wasn't anything special, It hurt a lot and it was over quickly but I'm so grateful it was with him and he was also a virgin. Really makes are bond so much stronger because we have a special connection now. When we first did it, it was like making a packed to each other but we trust each other and are in love.

  • Some women get turned off by it and some get turned on by it. But yeah, for a some women it's attractive and for few it's even a fetish. Just like many guys find attractive virginity in girls or some have fetish with virgin girls. Some women find alluring the idea of beign the first, teaching sex to someone or the idea of exclusivity, of beign the only one for that person too.

    • What about you? Would you help me get rid of it 😉😂?

    • @Laha_Luhem I'm sorry, I already have a partner and I'm not a cheater. However I must say I thought my boyfriend was virgin at first, because he was excessively quiet and shy. He wasn't in the end, but when I though he was, the idea didn't repel me, it even kind of attracted me.

    • I was only half serious by the way. thanks for the info tho 👍🏼

Most Helpful Guys

  • From experience, it really depends on the woman but a majority no. In fact it's usually a turn off for most women, whatever other positive qualities you may have aside.
    The few women I did know that were drawn to me for it mostly wanted to simply be first and boost their own ego.

  • Might be, but that kind of fetish is more rare among women than among men.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin

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  • God, no.

    While there’s people out there with fetishes for everything, on the whole virginity in men is something we “deal with” - not something we “desire”, apart from religious reasons.

  • They are simply a preference for some women.

  • for some maybe...

  • I want a virgin guy ! Thanks

  • There are a fetish/kink for most things. So yes there is. Is it super common? No. But there are those who find it sexually arousing, being with a guy who's a virgin.
    Think it's more common among men however

  • Nope.

  • I actually prefer inexperienced even virgin guys to experienced guys cuz they won't pressure me into sleeping with them that fast. I like to take my time and get to know the guy first before taking off my clothes for him and in my experience inexperienced guys seem to respect that more

    • yess I totally agree with this. it's so good

  • To some

  • For some, yes.
    My first girlfriend made it a big point for her to be the first woman I slept with. She saw my virginity as a plus.

  • Yes.

    • So I take it you do?

    • Yea, virgin guys are very moldable into a perfect toy.

    • Can I be there moldable toy?

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  • Not that I have seen in numbers anyway

  • They got to be a fetish because being attracted to virgins isn’t normal for us.

    • So keep that info to myself

    • A girl might like that you’re a virgin if she’s a virgin, she might feel like it’s more special that way.

    • Oh ok

  • Lol no

  • It can be a fetish yes

    • I'm a virgin by the way

    • Good for us I guess lol

  • there's a few out there.

  • Not particularly

  • No thanks

  • No because "virgin guys" don't exist. Guys aren't virgins. Only girls are virgins. Guys have no biological or physiological indicator of virginity. We just have a first time.

    • Neither do girls though lol, that is just a myth risen out of patriarchy. Virginity has a lot of different meanings in this age.

    • @hotrocks Uh... no.

    • Sure, Jan

  • Not a fetish, bit if he were a virgin, I wouldn't mind one bit! :)

  • No, it's the exact opposite, actually.

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