Are virgins losers?

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  • Echoing someone else.

    no a virgin is not a loser, however those that think it matters are.

    the only way someone knows you are a virgin is if you tell them.

    guys do lie about this to get laid, I know a few guys that have played the sympathy card lol. Chances are they use it on GaG as well lol.

    it’s purely a social construct.

    https://www.letsemjoy.com/blog/virginity-is-a-social-construct

    but no not losers.

  • There could be many reasons a person stays a virgin one of them could be religious beliefs others could be that they have higher standards concerning sex.

    • All of this happens to be exactly my case.

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  • 1000% No. People can be virgins for one or multiple reasons. Some reasons might be: waiting until their married, finding the right partner, being unsure about sex, being uncomfortable about certain aspects of sex, not being ready to have sex, etc. I'm a virgin that has my own reasons why I'm one myself. But I think it's important to be happy with your sexuality, love your body, and yourself before you find your partner.

  • Generally not but if they become bitter about it and become misogynistic/misandrist just because they can't get laid then that's a loser characteristic

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  • Some of them, by sheer statistical chance, sure. But there's something to be said for not risking STDs or unwanted pregnancies, no?

    • I guess

  • A loser is a loser & a badass is a badass.

    There are some losers who have had sex & after having sex, they're still losers. While there are some people who have never had sex but are pretty fuckin badass.

    So it depends on the person, not on whether they've had sex or not.

    • Yeah I guess that is a good way of seeing it. Good point

  • No virgins are awesome I love virgins I think they're cool their sweet the other shit together they are smart they are confident they are strong and they are badass I think they're great. They are role models to

  • Well i kind of feel like a loser, I definitely not proud of being one, just feel like I've missed out on a lot experiences most people have done.

    • But as much as I wish I had done it by now, now that I'm with a girl I like, have done some sexual stuff and I know I will lose the virginity soon I can see how it isn't that big of a deal. There are lots of virgins in their upper 20s and 30s so it's not just you. I can see why people who have lots of sex with many people say it's over rated and dosent mean much. Of course with so many people saying "sex dosent mean anything" can't help think "ok if it means nothing to you why can't we just do it real quick?" Aaaanyway I get where your coming from, I've felt the same as you, I am a older virgin after all lol, I'd recamend you just wait till it happens with a partner you really like and feel fully comfortable with, when I was trying to hook up with random bar girls I was nervous as hell but now I'm not nervous about anything, I have a girlfriend I trust completely.

  • No, but people who think it matters are.

  • No, there's more to life than sex and what are the chances of catching something as a virgin.

  • Only if they think they are losers. Ain't no shame in it.

    • Really? Because I think I am a loser. Everybody has had sex but me.

  • Having sex on itself is not an accomplishment. Anyone can pay an escort or prostitute and lose their virginity.
    So no being a virgin is not being a loser.

  • Not in the slightest.

  • nah.

  • They are people ho have not found the right person or the right situation yet.

  • Definitely not losers. Nothing to be ashamed of

  • Nope they are gem..
    They won't spread legs for dick they just wait for marriage or real love to open up.

  • If virgins are losers then I must be one but I don't believe it so no virgins are not losers.

  • In evolutionary terms yes.

  • Virgins aren't losers. We were all virgins.

  • not. they have everything ahead

  • No. That's stupid.

  • Some people might think so but I do not believe that. In my experience virgins sometimes are better at sex then the others

  • No more so than non virgins.

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