Are we fuck buddies or not?

So I went out with a guy, and its 5/6 dates now (which he remembers when). One of the dates we actually met twice in that day. Coffee then I had to go home for a late evening work call then after my call he asked me out if I wanted supper.

We started the dates with walks, dinner, games, watching TV, basically getting to know each other. But recently we just started making out (no sex -no rush). It felt great and it’s hot so thats a massive turn on! Lol

Last night after we hung out and made out (And I went down on him), he texted me asking if I’m home and said he really enjoys my company a lot and it has nothing to do with me making him cum. While we were laying in bed just talking, I asked him if this is slowly evolving into a fuck buddy thingy and he said “it depends on what you want?”.

Not trying to jump the gun but is this turning into a fuck buddy thingy? (As our past few dates we have been naked around each other)
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  • I mean, so the girl I like a lot right, id wanna fuck her all the time. But thats not all I'm looking for from her. What I'm getting At is, yeah he likes to be sexual with you but it doesn't automatically mean he's only looking for sex. I mean y'all have hung out been places and done stuff other than sexual. It seems he does like being with you. Now the "depends what you want" is a little suspicious 🤔🧐
    That means he might be cool with being in a relationship, buuutttt if you wanted to just keep it sexual... he's cool with that too. Which makes me think a relationship isn't his main priority with you
    Maybe he could just be going with the flow, whatever happens happens type thing

    I think he'd be open to being friends with benefits type thing though, which i think is different from a fuck buddy because fuck buddy is only for sex but friends with benefits is people who are friends... who just so happen to fuck eachother. I dont know
    Just dont let it go down that path if thats what you dont want and I think you'll be fine

    My main thing I'm saying is it sounds like he likes being around you and talking to you but is definitely open to a friends with benefits, but maybe cool with a relationship

    • Thank you for sharing this! I agree, he did say he wasn’t looking to get into a relationship quickly. If it happens, it’ll happen.

    • Well there you go haha, good luck girl

    • Thanks! I didn’t reply his text last night and he texted today, asking me to reply something so he doesn’t feel bad. 🙃

Most Helpful Guy

  • Simple

    Are we fuck buddies or not?Are we fuck buddies or not?

    You are what you do.

    • So not helpful. In the future, if you want to give such comments please dont bother.

    • You want me to tell you what you are. It is something you should know as you are not a kid. If a 30 old woman cannot know at that age, what is a fuck buddy is and etc, I mean really there is a problem with the maturities of people.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Fuck buddies meet up for sex and sex only. It’s an arrangement of convenience. This guy is hanging out, going for walks, going to dinner, getting coffee... he’s into you and likes spending time together. All the signs are there he wants a relationship. The “depends on what you want” comment was him feeling you out. He’s trying to get some kind of feedback from you where this is going. I’d say the ball is in your court how far you want this to go.

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