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Are/were you the type to feel like you needed to have sex with many people in life or would you have been fine with just one?

I really wanted to stop at just 1. Hell even just 2. But the way the first guy wronged me and the way the second wasted my time is how I knew I’d endup having sex with more than just one person. Now had it not been for those bad experiences, then i wouldve been more than happy just having a total of 1 sex partner in life. I legit refuse to go past 3 though. If things dont workout with the next sexual partner then i’m returning to my porn addiction and may actually start masturbating again 😂 #FeelFreeToList #FeelFreeToLFantasize #TheDesiiDiaries #SweatyBallsAndAll #DirtyDesii
Are/were you the type to feel like you needed to have sex with many people in life or would you have been fine with just one?
I can/could’ve easily stopped at just having sex with one person and being satisfied for life
Vote A
I will/would always fantasize about what it would be like to sex someone else if i stop/stopped at one person
Vote B
Its a must that I try sex with different people in life before settling
Vote C
I will never settle and will always enjoy having sex with someone different
Vote D
Im asexual and never want to have sex
Vote E
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+1 y
It prob sounds weird but i put a lot of value into sex and kisses. I've kissed 4 guys (3 in HS, one after) and have no intentions of surpassing 5. But is it weird that i dont see titsucking and masturbation as abig deal? I mean if things dont workout witht my third/last sex partner, then im fine with having an unlimited number of titsuckers. I just need to know their mouth is clean. Their hands to if theyr gonna finger me. And their dick too if im gonna jerk em off 🤷‍♀️
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Most Helpful Guys

  • In the past when I wasn't in a relationship I always used to have sex like crazy. I had a very high sex drive. When I was underage I see the have sex with 3 girls in my school but it wasn't enough, I wanted more I wanted to be more experienced so when I became 18 I started having sex with older girls like 10 years older than me, I used to hang out with other couples etc. Even if I had a crazy past full of sex, I can easily be fine with just one girl. I never cheated on my girlfriends and thank god my girlfriend accepted 🙏 me. That makes me cherish her more ❤️. I wanna be with her forever, I want her to be my last partner.

    • Glad it worked out for you :)

  • I was very asexual until I met my wife. Just an angry angry young man. I hated myself and hated women, hated romance, hated the world. Mostly I hated my own sexual urges, I was absolutely disgusted with myself for even wanting sex. I was also very standoffish to sex and sexuality.
    When I did have sex the first time consensually it opened a flood gate in me where I had to see if it was like that with other women if it was good. I flipped and became a huge slut I slept with lots and lots of women just to see. I'm settled down now. Rape will F you up in a very real way.

    • Howd you get into porn industry

    • I was transfered to San Francisco with my job. And I got heavily into the leather scene, I was already into kinky sex, and a few friends were doing stage shows at the local gotj bars. I was invited to join in the fun, and had a few... ehem... private engagements. Anyway that same group was approached for a few films. And I was invited along (mostly because I fit the description of a male porn actor... if you know what I mean...) Anyway I got paid crap and treated worse so after two films I backed out. Then moved back to Utah and got married the first time.

    • Well at least it worked out in the long run

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  • I would've been more than happy to have sex with only my ex for the rest of my life but oh well, things don't always work out the way you want them to.

    I don't sleep with people just like that. I'm not easy at all and very picky lol. So I suppose that I won't have many sexual partners throughout my life. Now am I sad about that? HELL NO.

    Idm having more than even 3 partners tho, as long as I end up with the right one or I'm happy with how things turn out in the end.

    • Inagree with the second paragraph lol

  • There are many older women who have 2, 3, 4 + partners who have been husbands and the husbands have all died before them. The best you can do is do what is right for you and be in monogamous relationships if that is your way of being.

    • Yea if my husband died I don't know if i’d even want to remarry or get with anyone else. I’d prob just focus on my kids

    • Yes you would for awhile but in the future that might change even if it was 10 years down the road. Humans are meant to have companions and the spouse who has gone wouldn't want the other partner to be alone and lonely. My parents made an agreement that the one left behind could move on. My mom just never had that chance.

    • I rather focus on my kids and career

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • well i would not blame yu fr staying single , i have been for 28 years but that masturbating gets old and like myself you will get bored of it and will begin to want t give it up. i know im close to that stage. you can say im just a perv with an underused sex agenda but i think its mre of just wasting time on women who only want only thing.

    dont get me wrong sex is good but i look for other things not just the physical stuff.

    • I’d still get freaky. Just no sex and oral witj more than one

    • i can agree with that dont lower your standards no one is worth catching something

  • I had a number of partners when I was younger and engaged in casual sex. In the last 30 years, I have had 9 partners. Seven of them were i relationships that lasted at least 6 months (one lasted 17 years) and two of them lasted less than 6 months. My goal is to find one partner for the remainder of my life.

    • I wish you the best :)

  • I voted a, my husband is and will be the only man i ever have sex with. I am happy with my decision on that.

    • You should be :) its all i ever wanted

  • I don’t really understanding wanting sex with many people. I just want one guy to have and want me.

    • No i agree

  • It's no quantity but quality that matters. Sadly we rarely find quality first time, and if we did, we wouldn't have known as we'd have nothing to compare it against. Crazier still is to know that it's only with experiences do we know about what individually 'floats our boat', and by that point your 'ideal' seems rare. The point? Explore your body, know yourself, don't build a box that constrains you're potential to experience what life can wonderfully offer...

    • Yea I've never been into exploring. So def quality

  • I never had much of a sex drive, but as a teenager I felt pressured in front of my peers so I passed myself off as having at least a vague interest in sexual topics the way any "regular" teen guy would.
    It didn't initially bother me because I assumed that this wouldn't be a problem with women because they were always portrayed as the less sexual gender, I lived in that mindset until college where I realized that both men and women being what I perceive as hypersexual is actually the norm, not just among teenagers but adults as well, and that my particular situation may turn out to be a legitimate issue.

    And it did, seeing as many of my relationship failed due to sexual incompatibility, namely, due to my relative (total) lack of interest in physical intimacy and my growing resentment towards people's emphasis on sexuality as something I perceive as the progressive decay of romance.

    I never feel a "need" to have sex, what I feel is a want to find a person who actually shares my sexual beliefs.
    I thought I met a person like that before, but I was wrong, and I haven't really had much desire to look for another since then.

  • Just one person and hopefully that will be my life partner

    • I hope so :)

  • It’s never been a big deal to me either way but I have no interest in settling and it’s got nothing to do with sex.

  • I go back and forth. On one hand I’d be fine if I found that one cool girl and on the other hand, until she comes I want to make up for lost time and have a lot of sex. A wild phase.

    I’ve had sex with seven different women. I know I can get with more, I just have a problem with overthinking before I meet “new” women. Once I get past it I get dates pretty fast. Part of my New Years resolution is to stop getting in my own way with women.

    • Yea i think a lotta people feel like they wanna get all they can before settling

  • For me sex with strictly one person would be the normal thing for as long as we're together. And only when the relationship is serious.

    • Yes :)

  • I would've been fine with one. I only wanted to have one. I was devastated when I lost my virginity.

    • Lmao i was too 😭😭

  • When I was a teen of course I felt like I should fuck many different girls, but as I got older I started feeling like that wasn't really all that necessary for sexual enjoyment. I can do fine with just one.

    • Yayy

  • Just one

    • Goood

  • I give my love to those who deserve it

  • I have a high body count, but in all honesty, I could've just stopped at one. Body counts hold no value for me. If I had met my girlfriend first, and if she wouldn't have been a cuckquean, I would've ez pz stopped at her.

    • Thats good

  • I crave affection and intimacy not necessarily sex. I have had sex with 2 people, one of which we didn't finish.

    I would like to have had sex with someone else but now but haven't. Its lonely and depressing, not gonna lie, but im not the kind of person to have random sex with a person or hire an escort. I can wait.

    • No i agree and similar to everything u just said

  • I can easily stopped at just having sex with one person and being satisfied for life.

    • Good :)

  • I wanted to be good at what I do and wanted experience but I my first serious girlfriend taught me better than any girl I've been with is used to. I found the girl of my dreams and she is my best friend ever but I just found out she cheated on me so now I'm almost certain I will be in the field again because I don't know if I can forgive her.

    • Sorry that happened :( she doesn't deserve you

    • Thanks, no she doesn't but at the same time she is my twin flame if you know anything about that, so it complicates things. We are taking a break right now. We only have one twin flame. Just really confused because in any other relationship I would have left long before I gave her a chance to even think about cheating

  • I've had quite a few, but I'm content with my last

    • Thats good

  • When the time comes I’ll be fine with just one person

    • Thats amazing :)

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