Are women attracted to submissive men?

I met a girl who cracked me up. Her personality was that she was submissive... said sir after everything, would question girls who wore pants cause their pussy wasn't accessible... etc..

So I thought "let me try that out on girls"... so I met a girl and started calling her maam. Etc. I told her my favorite kink was to get tied up and used as a toy.

I swear it was the most successful thing I've ever said to a woman. But I've only used it 1 time so far.

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I'm calling bs on thr girl who said no. Don't associate submissive with wimpy and feminine. Submissive means u think ure inferior. Humility
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The 1 thing I always have to overcome is proving I'm nice. Man just acting submissive from the get go is obviously the easiest way to do that. Let the beast out later
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  • Come now. We all know that to some this is a jackpot to others its a hell no. To most it is probably less desirable rather than more.

    However what you did in being upfront and respectful about what you want while also making it clear you want her? Dominate or submissive, being able to clearly and proudly communicate your desires is very attractive.

    This one youtube social experiment comes to mind where one of the attractive, but not most attractive, guys was told to just tell the girls he's there looking for a blowjob. Nothing serious. So he did. Didn't make a big deal out of it. Just kind of said it and then behaved as a normal person. He was much more successful than the more attractive guys who did things as normal. While anecdotal I figure it would yield similar results if replicated.

    • The girl was attractive to me. Latina. Big butt and unusually attractive face. So I think it will work on everyone. I'll do more testing

    • Oh I doubt it will work on everyone. But its the right mindset anyway. Just hoping you're actually a sub or it will get awkward when she breaks open the toybox later on.

    • No im not sub. Are you kidding.

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  • Masculine/dominant people are attracted to feminine/submissive people, and vice versa.

    Most men are masculine and most women are feminine, which means that most women are attracted to dominant men and most men are attracted to submissive women.

    There will always be exceptions to that rule, but the rule holds true.

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  • I don't know... I tend to go for the mean douche bag type not nice submissive guys... tho it seems kind of hot in theory lol

    • So you have low self esteem. You're the kind of girl I used to prey on

    • Interesting... luckily I only let one douche bag prey on me :)

    • Don't say that. U have kids with him and calling their father a douchebag makes them 1/2 douchebag, and 1/2 gullible slut. Don't play the blame game. U are all wonderful

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  • For sure I love submissive men since they are more go with the flow

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  • I think so. I know submissive men who get around quite a bit. I've never rlly dated women submissively tho so I couldn't say from personal xp.

  • nops not at all

  • Some are.

    • Are YOU. If u all vote ur opinion then we can get a percentage

  • Some women attracted to sub men. Still mostly women want dominated men. But I just love women who are dominating in bed.

  • I am not at all attracted to them.

  • I doubt it.

  • There are some who are, but most of us prefer more dominant men.

    • I like how u went anonymous to admit u like being dominated

    • It's not so much that I like being dominated as that I am attracted to the type of men who are confident, capable and charismatic natural leaders. That does not mean being an asshole! But yes, I do like being dominated in the bedroom.

  • No women despise submissive men.

    • I remember another poll I did where 80% of women said they like men who think they are inferior

    • So, at least if ure a guy who does things to make women like u, like Andrew Tate, then it's time to start hating ur self

    • Women say those things and even if they believe it the choices they make say different. Andrew Tate is a clever man, he puts on an act to be as contraversial as possible making clickbait YouTube content to make money and sell shitty products.

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