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  • Not currently - just a regular Dom. But I've been one in the past to girls who needed that, and I'm fine with it, because I understand the dynamic. With the girls I was with, at least, it wasn't really about age play, but rather about leadership, decision-making, and her feeling safe. These girls had poor father situations growing up and had "daddy issues" and were desperate for a strong man to lead them, care for them, and protect them from their own bad decisions and instincts - that's what it was really about for them.

    That's still mostly the case now, except there's no use of "daddy" - but a more straightforward leadership/protection/wisdom dynamic.

    • After reading the post, it's like you wrote exactly what I was thinking. My dad was mostly absent from life.

  • Interesting question. I supposed everything I do has a fatherly intent to it, whether I'm washing the car, watering the plants, or tying a slave's hands behind her back. But I'm not playing a role, I'm just always taking care of business.

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  • I lead. They follow. Sure I'll take their ideas and concerns into consideration. I know what I want and communicate it. That's how you grow... Literally.. a hard warm feeling.. if you don't go after what you want.. you will never experience new things/ideas. They won't either. It's the journey. Enjoy

  • Even the most feminist women want to be dominated

    • True

  • I'm Dominant if that's what you are asking, but I don't like the word daddy like I used too, it's like I grew out of that shit if that's even possible

  • I'm all for kink, bdsm and what have you. But there is one pet peeve i have in the sexual world. It suck a turn of that i can mid sex no matter how great the sex is get so turned off by it that i will stop right away. When people use the term daddy. Oh my fucking god how i hate hearing that. There are so SOOOO many other words you can use. So why daddy? Do you expect me to call you daughter? Am i supposed to pretend your my daughter? Are you turned on by your father? Why stop there, what the fuck is with all these step son, step mom shit and other semi and full on incest bullshit now days? Fuck it all to hell. Stop using the term daddy.

  • If that's what you're looking for

  • Definitely

  • I'm dominant in bed but i like to called myself master not daddy.

    • I call my boyfriend daddy and sir never master

    • I like master word more cuz i like to play bdsm and bondage. But I'm okh with sir also but daddy is not for my dictionary.

    • We also do bondage and bdsm but I still don't call him master

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  • I'm more of us sub myself but due to the high demand of doms I have adapted and find that daddy role to be kinky with its incestuous undertones.

  • Nope. Might be worth a try.

  • Sexually yes. Outside of sex I'm not a dominant type personality but I won't let no one punk me around neither..

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