Are you a pleaser or receiver in bed?

[MementoMori777]

Don't get weird, just answer the question 😂

[VIVANT]

I’m a fixer... I do not like to walk past situations where live beings suffer. I am always pulling last bugs out of water, making sure animals children elderly are not being abused, helping out people down on their luck, fix broken stuff so people can use it, trying to cheer up sad people, I go out of my way to talk to a person who is alone - even if I didn’t want to do it -just bc they are alone, I’ll pick up fallen stuff in stores do the workers don’t have to, I’ll clear degree pit if the road so people don’t get hurt, I’ll clear up misunderstandings even if it’s got nothing to do with me and they are strangers 😂 & sticking up for anyone being attacked. It’s not really pleasing bc I don’t care if they like me or if they even know I helped or if they think I’m nice— once I’m out in the world my eyes and wats are attuned to struggles and I just try to fix situations where I see suffering.

as far as pleasing and receiving, being on the end of either extreme would make me incredibly nauseous and I’d put a stop to it.

[MementoMori777]

You are quite an interesting soul Vivant 🤣

[VIVANT]

Ohhhhhhh!! Was this post about SEX? 🤦🏻‍♀️ I had no idea

[MementoMori777]

It's okay your innocence is welcomed 😂💯

[VIVANT]

Om# I can’t believe I was that dense 😂 I was overlooking the other answer and it was looking strange… 👀 .. 👀…consistently so it made me question some things and we’ll yeah I sorted it out as I was the odd ball lol

[MementoMori777]

Don't stress It, it happens, I've blurred out stuff that didn't match the question before, it's fine, I was confused through most of it cause I was trying to put it together on how it would make sense with what I asked but it's fine 😂

[VIVANT]

😂 yeah it never would’ve occurred to me bc you never mentioned the sex 🙉

[VIVANT]

My guess is the people who think they are “givers” receive a lot more than they realize in the “giving” & inversely with the “receivers” bc it all literally takes 2. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[MementoMori777]

I didn't think it was necessary to mention it, looks like the Vivant has to hear the word to know 😂 I purposely try to make my sexual questions the least noticeable as possible tho so it's good lol

[VIVANT]

Russ smart so you will not get in trouble but yeah I’m kind on the literal side of the universe 🪐

[MementoMori777]

Sure to avoid trouble, but now I know something new about you, you are a literal soul 🤣😆

[VIVANT]

Yes I would have told you directly if you’d asked 😁😌

[Yannishka]

That description. I was feeling weird like I'm going to sound so selfish, but I like receiving more. Of course I give, and I take my time but good work gets you rewarded.

[MementoMori777]

It's not as weird as you think, your man should be pleasing you anyways considering it's easier for men to orgasm than it is for women

[Billlewis]

I'm a pleaser -- and I go to ridiculous lengths to make sure that she is thoroughly satisfied and content when we're finished. I prefer an oral only arrangement, in which I'm not allowed to have any penetrative sex with her whatsoever.

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough bro

[Billlewis]

I know I've been giving you basically the same answer almost every day, so maybe I'll sit the next few out.

[MementoMori777]

Lmao

[Dargil]

Pleaser. I'm not sacrificial. I just love them having urgent orgasms.

[MementoMori777]

I respect that bro

[Hot_Mess_Express]

Very much both

[Lowiu]

Im mostly a giver

[MementoMori777]

I respect that heavy 🙂💯

[Glasses]

Yes I'm a pleasure and I hate it I feel like I'm too busy trying to impress them verses being Impressed

[MementoMori777]

That's respectable tho glasses 🙏🏽💯

[Spongebobssocks]

Non of anyone's business but my future husband🤷🏼‍♀️😂

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough lol

[Mamaliv]

I am a pleaser, the more turned on I get you, the more I am turned on.

[MementoMori777]

Seems like a highly beneficial feature indeed Liv

[LostandFound__x]

I think I’m a pleaser.

[Nikki1989]

I aim to please.

[MementoMori777]

Respect 💯💯

[exitseven]

I am both. But I like to give more than receive.

[MissBoogus]

Why can’t I be both? Lol

[MementoMori777]

You can and you most likely are but if you had to choose one, which one would it be? Lol

[cantthinksttaight]

both please

[Juxtapose]

I can't really enjoy one too much without the other.

[MementoMori777]

Fair point

[QuietRunner]

I like to make her orgasm a lot before I orgasm

[Lovergirloo7]

Pleaser

[MementoMori777]

💯💯💯

[Anonymous]

Reciever more than a pleaser

[MementoMori777]

That's Fair, men should please their woman anyways lol

[Opinion Owner]

You can please me.

[MementoMori777]

If I was your man, you best believe I wouldn't stop until I was sure I did 🤣👍

[Anonymous]

Are you talking about sex? If yes, then I would like to be both : )

[MementoMori777]

Yep, that's a good balance, so what's your main choice tho if you had to choose just one

[Opinion Owner]

Oh it's so hard to choose just one... but I guess I'll go with receiver

[MementoMori777]

Good choice smiley 😂