Are you able to physically punish yourself?


Are you able to physically punish yourself?

In the sexual sense. If someone tells you to, because they aren't there to do it themselves.

Obviously only pertains to people into this kind of stuff.

Im fine with spanking myself, with the back of a hairbrush or my own hand, on my ass. And seeing the red marks is kind of satisfying. But the other day I was told to slap my vagina with said hairbrush and, while I obeyed, it made me nervous as fuck and I was surprised I could even go through with it.

Definitely more painful than an ass spankin'.
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  • I think for you it is more about interaction between the two partners. The trust, the obedience, the nervousness, the tension, the surprise you did it, the red marks, the reaction to the red marks. You are lucky you seem to have found someone on same wavelength as you.
    In answer to your question yes I would experiment the boundaries of this area with my partner within any relationship hoping that I am as lucky as you to find someone as likeminded.

    • Thanks for MHG

  • Your sex life is just
    https://ci.memecdn.com/678/3205678.jpg
    yes I can inflict pain on myself, but I dont get a kick out of it

    • That picture makes your opinion adorable. Yeah, I guess I'm one of those weird ones who doesn't mind pain and gets a kick out of butt stuff. 🙃

    • but stuff?
      https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BimDZJPIIAABfS6.jpg
      But seriously, whatever turns you on haha there isn't right or wrong, unless its one of those things featured in "pain olympics" where people cut their dick off and stuff. Makes me shiver.

    • OH GAWD. Poor dicks. Poooooor poor dicks 😞

Most Helpful Girls

  • Um... weird?

    This could be hot with a DEGRADING "punishment".

    E. g. when my man was out of town last month, he made me get on Skype, fuck myself with a spoon, show him how wet it was, and then lick it clean. Mmmm girl. (Also, the sides of that spoon? That shit hurt!)

    On the other hand, trying to whip my own ass just sounds like a SNL sketch.

  • I probably see no appeal to do it myself lol would really prefer if my boyfriend did that to me instead haha

    • #longdistancestruggles I think recording it or doing it on Skype makes it easier for me. I wouldn't be able to do it if I wasn't like... giving actual proof I was going through with it lol

    • Argh fuck me sideway. I REALLLYYYYY like REALLLLLLY would want my boyfriend to rip my clothes off right now -___-' arghhhhh *smashes head on wall* aha i dont know how you can do that. I wouldn't see it pleasuring me in any shape of form. but you know i want that fucking touch lol

  • Lol I could if I was demanded to but it would be awkward for me at first. You know me /.\

    • haha yep I doo, and I understand. 'cause I'm the same lol.

  • This...

    This is disturbing.

    • 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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  • That ass is too beautiful to hit. If she loved ig, I would but there are far too many other things Id love to do toman ass like that

  • No way. I look out for my vagina and in return she stays awesome for me. 😂

    • hahahaha yeah its not something I'd do solo for recreational fun -_- it hurt too much lol

  • Sure I could but I'm not going to, pain is somewhat satisfying but not when I do it to myself and not in that scenario or way besides why would I self harm myself?, also that dude is into the some odd stuff lol.

  • no, I do a good enough job mentally punishing myself as it is.

  • I wouldn't expect a woman to punish herself, I'd go punish her myself ;)

    I'm not really that into pain when it comes to sex, personally. I mean, scratching and biting is hot, maybe even some other stuff I fantasize about but don't have the balls to suggest, but hitting me with stuff? Fuck outta here with that shit. :P

  • why would he ask that! ?

    • He's into some stuff... 😅

    • And it's more a demand than an ask tbh

    • lmaoooo

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  • Sure it can be fun

  • Yeah. Granted, I can only punch in specific areas and not in others.

  • yes I can definitely do that

  • I can do it to myself, I wouldn't, but I can.

  • I honestly don't understand what you're asking. Am I able to do self harm to myself? Well yeah of course. Would I do it? Hell no.

    I have a sexual fantasy that might be just outside the ballpark of where you're at here, but it's due to trauma and I can't stand it.

    • I clearly mention things like spanking in the description so if you don't understand, that's on you.

    • No I mean of course you can physically punish yourself. Why is that a question?

    • So I think that's on you.

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  • I'd rather someone else does it. The only I could do is smack my ass with a paddle or something.

    • Yeah I'm sure once he actually does it to me / if he ever does then it won't be the same after that and I probably won't get much pleasure from doing it to myself anymore. But for now all I've got is demands to fill and my own hairbrush to aid me. 😁