Are you ashamed of your sexual past?

Why or why not?
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I'm ashamed to be a virgin still 😥
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Most Helpful Guys

  • honestly there were sexual experiences that i'm ashamed to talk about... there were other ones that make you feel a mix of guilty and pleasure... because yeah that was a hot night... but most of them all... honestly i'm not really ashamed to be honest... what i'm really ashamed of are the consequences of that... since that made me look ridiculous, humiliated me, made me suffer... telling that another part no man ever does (i guess), the only thing a man likes to do is to boast about his past conquests but i'm sure most of man are very ashamed when they got hurt in those sexual adventures as i did..

  • I have had about 20 partners in 43 years. When I was young, I had a few ONS but I never used anyone, never got them drunk and took them back to my place. Looking back, there are a few bangs I wish I had bypassed, but I understand why I did what I did and I am fairly confident that it would not happen at my age. Shame is not necessary if you learn the lessons that you can learn from y our mistakes. It adds nothing to making you a better person if you are already motivated to become a better person.

Most Helpful Girls

  • A bit yet.
    I lost my virginity at 15 and I did love the guy I was with at the time but I ended up not staying with him after 2 years so that sucked.
    But I was supper active with him like doing it in the closets at school, in closets at home, in beds everywhere lol.
    But now I'm with the "one" and he OBVIOUSLY would have preferred me being a virgin (society thing I dislike but whatever) and it would have been kind of cute.

  • I was a little ashamed once for sleeping too much around with different guys. But now i dont feel it.. dont feel bad for being a virgin,, for your first time do it with someone that cares for you..

  • Yes in some instances but they helped to make me who I am today; so as much as I may be ashamed and regretful, I wouldn't change anything.

  • Im ashamed to have lost it at 15. But I've been redeeming myself by not having done it for 6 years

    • That's strange

    • Strange how? I dont miss it :)

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  • No.. I stood by my values and didn't sleep around. I'm happy :)

  • I was when I was younger due to abuse but for the ones I chose no. I think a lot before I do most things

  • Not at all.

    It's my sexual résumé!

  • No, but I'm sometimes ashamed of my grammatical errors ;)

  • Never.
    It gives me a Chance for a lot of Romance and to be be able To... Compare Everyone under the Sun. xx

  • I used to be... but then got over it. I had fun and learned from experiences.

  • No, never done anything that I'm not comfortable with or that's I'd later regret tbh.

    • Being a virgin isn't something to be ashamed about.

    • It's not something to be proud of either

    • Nor is sleeping around or doing something you late regret.

  • Not even in the slightest. Even my drunken 'Why did I fuck him" moments, I still won't be ashamed of.

  • Not at all.

  • Not ashamed at all but in some cases regretful

  • Nope, I have nothing to be ashamed ofn

  • Nope. I've always been the "look before you leap" type, it's taken me far and I can honestly say I don't have many regrets in life, be sexual or none sexual. Overall pretty satisfied.

    • Non - sexual*

  • No, I'm not, I don't think I've done anything bad.

  • NO, I never am ashamed of what I do.

  • Not at all x

  • Not at all.

  • Only because my current girlfriend calls me a slut lol

  • Nope.

  • no im not. i have no sexual past yet lol

  • Eh. I regret a specific situation, but overall no i'm not ashamed of my sexual past. Just one event I'm taking to my grave with me hahaha

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