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Are you big on cuddling?

Normally if someone asked if i was into it, I’d be like OF COURSE! But when i actually think about it, nah. I love making out. I love being hugged from behind. But im not crazy about actual cuddling or hugs in general. Front/side Hugs feel awkward and i’m often thinking ughh just let me go. As for cuddling… man its too hot for all that. I only want to spoon if I’m tryna tease him and make him hard or as a position if we’re having actual sex. But to just lay beside eachother and cuddle? Especially during a movie or sumn, meh. That does not comfort me. It bothers me. It annoys me. And i have to fake like i like it. Is that weird? 🤣
Are you big on cuddling?
oh and sharing a bed for more than a minute? Ahh dont even get me started. I legit did this to my snoring ex
oh and sharing a bed for more than a minute? Ahh dont even get me started. I legit did this to my snoring ex
#FeelFreeToList #Cuddles
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I don't know why y'all think i dont like physical contact. I clearly stated the things i do/dont like to do lmao. I just dont care to hug for long or cuddle much. It feels suffocating. If a guy hugs me from behind, amazing. But sidehugs are pointless and front hugs will likely put me to sleep. Cuddlin is cool after sex but during a movie or sumn, just sit next to me. I dont actually need to be spooned while im tryna swallow a nice cold coke, deepthroat some twizzlers and suck on my skittles 🤣
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Most Helpful Guys

  • What’s good? I know exactly what you mean!
    I’m not big on cuddling after the marathon. As long as I’m still in the mood to get you in the mood, then I’ll cuddle, hug you, spoon you and fiddle with you as long as their’s play action going on. After the fun, I need to “cool off” and layup in the fetal position 😂 to regain my energy and balance.
    Not cuddling afterwards does not signify any emotional detachment. So of us just need that time to recharge, gather our thoughts on what just happened, decide if it’s going to go another round or not, and “desensitize” ourselves.
    If I’m about to cuddle with you after that, then I’m flicking and rubbing nipples, rubbing and massaging thighs, kissing you on the neck, nibbling on your ear lobe while whispering in your ear and eventually flicking clit.
    If non of that is happening, then I need to be sipping water and watching TV being cooled.

    • Those damn gifs, though 😳 😂 😂 😂

    • Not the fetal position 🤣 Now thats funnier than my gifs haha. But that would be adorable to see. And yes i forgot its called marathon sex haha. Daaaamn your descriptions tho 😍 thats exactly what im thinkin

    • 😁😁😁

  • Are you big on cuddling?

    Because I 've been trained in Tantric practices, you learn 'why' you hug or cuddle for a minimum of 20 seconds.

    Your physical body radiates auric bioelectric energies from seven major 'chakras' ... humans innately subconsciously seek homeostasis and your body will attempt to align with the frequencies and polarities of those in closest proximity to reach a 'comfortable' stasis of harmonious frequencies. (Like the difference between the feeling you get when you play either harmonious or discordant keys on a piano!)

    Like a more-intense reason behind the custom of shaking dominant hands (no weapon) a non-verbal means of physically demonstrating undeniably you're NO threat.

    Ever sense an undisclosed disharmony AFTER hugging or snuggling up to someone?

    • Nah i felt suffocated lmao

Most Helpful Girls

  • I am. I wasn't used to it at first but then I befriended someone who hugs and cuddles everybody everytime she sees them so I eventually did get used to it. Put up the lord of the rings trilogy, I'm not going anywhere, cuddle for hours. In bed too, but only if it's not too warm

    • Haha

  • In general, yes. But if i need my space or we just finish fucking, get out of my room for a while

    • Lmao exactly haha. I mean i do like to cuddle after sex but outside of that, nahh. Ion wanna cuddle during movies

    • Lol post sex cuddles is gross. Sticky in a bad way lol

    • Lol i love the sweaty part cause it means we ain't stoppin. We gota keep goin to someone taps out

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  • I love to cuddle. It's my favorite at bedtime. Esp in winter.
    It helps me feel more connected to them, I fall asleep faster and dream comfortably.
    And I prefer we both be freshly showered and clean n smelling good. (some people don't have a preference, but I do!)
    After sex tho? Not directly after but maybe when we cool off and relax.
    Sometimes maybe during a movie while on the couch, but that's rare.

    • During a movie is when i really dont want it

    • Exactly. If I'm watching a movie, that's where my attention is going. Cuddling during is a distraction for me.

  • It’s good for a little while until it starts to get uncomfortable. So yes, I like it, but in small doses. I also enjoy my time spent not being touched by the humans in my house. 😂

    • Yes like when its time to sleep, hop tf off me 😂

    • Yes! Especially that. I do not like to be touched while I am sleeping. Though sometimes my 5 year old does cuddle with me during the night and I make an exception for him.

    • That update tho! 😂😂😂 Thank you for the visuals DirtyDesii.

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  • I like it, but don't hog the covers.

    For those who aren't native speakers, do not cover yourself with the blanket to the point of leaving none for your partner. That's just rude... rude being unacceptable.

    • Thats why we’d have separate comforters 🤣

    • I like that.

    • I am all for separate covers too!

  • Yes. But I have no one to cuddle with. And I've never been hugged.

    • Damn u never been hugged

    • No...

  • I love cuddles ^_^ but then again i’m one of those annoying ones that needs to be at least touching you in some sort of way 😂

    • Lmao oh lord

    • mwuahaha 😈😂

  • Hell y e s especially in a lazy day nothing to do but cuddle goof around or when it's raining window open listening to sound of the rain hitting the window pane the smell of the rain fresh and cuddling with your girl wrapped in each other's arms watching tv it listening to music that's peace that's a Kodak moment that's love really miss that

    • Aww sounds beautiful

  • Absolutely. I love and crave physical contact with people as often as possible. I've got seven sisters and we all share one giant bed made of four kings pushed together. Its a fun pile of naked girl through the night lmao

    • But thats your sisters tho 💀

    • So? Everything is consensual and everyone is having fun, and its not like we are at risk of having incest babies.

    • @lilkittyamy_ your 3 kids stay in the bed with you too?

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  • I love touch I love the art of touching a touch can be very sensual very seductive. And I love it but if I was to cuddle with you from behind every part of my body is going to touch yours especially if I can hold still because I would have to slide over your body to reach for the channel changer or for the nickel I just dropped or sorry I'm just looking for something does my body starts touching your body it's on. But I agree with you it is just way too hot my body just get super warm there's no way in this world I could hold on to you without moving LOL I need the air but I can cuddle with you as long as I can move LMAO

    • Daaaamn

    • Oh no lol what. Is it a good damn or a bad damn

    • A good one

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  • I love cuddles. They smooth away the traumas of the day.

    • Ahh true

  • I don’t mind cuddling but mostly if we are going to bed

    • See thats when i dont want it. I get too hot lol

    • I’m ALWAYS cold. It’ll be 42•c outside and I’ll tell you I’m cold. So it’s a warm welcome.

  • Believe it or not, I AM a cuddle bug. Yeah yeah I know, "Check your pants, that's a Woman's thing." Personally, I love that closeness, that contact. Why would I need sex if I could achieve the same bond with my Wife?

    • Its not a womans thing lmao

    • Its a far-and-few occurrence in Guys anymore. Most will hold hands and swallow her face, but they won't wrap their arms around her and hold her.

  • Not really, I like my space 🤷‍♀️

    • Saaaame

  • I love cuddling!

    • Whys that

    • I like being held and feeling safe and close to him. It incorporates quality time and physical touch, my top two love languages!

    • Quality time is my love language but i can get rhat with him sittin across the rooom 😂

  • lmao... I know what you mean, any kind of closeness in 110F Texas has to be reconsidered, for example

    I don't mind to cuddle and snuggle... but girls also know that if I need to pick you up and get moving, I will do that... lol

    • Im fine with cuddling maybe in the winter. Maybe haha. But what do you mean pickup and get moving. Where we going 🤣

    • lmao... to the kitchen, for some snacks... that's an option

    • Haha i’d be eatin the snacks off the dude

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  • For a while, the wife likes spooning for days but i get too sweaty and just want the blanket off me so my body can breath

    • Yes i need space in the bed

  • I've only cuddled a few the last 4.5 years I've been single. I like it, yes. But.. it has to be with someone I have a emotional connection with or else it feels Awkward.

    • Yea even then its awkward for me

  • With the right person I am

  • Yeah, it's fun. A nice complement to sex.

    • Haha well okay yea haha

  • I don't know yet.. I'll have to see.. In my mind right now though.. Not really.. LOL..

  • Except if it's a gross one night stand absolutely.

    • Lmao i wouldn't be doing randoms anyways

    • Why would you be throwing your dick in a gross one night stand in the first place? 😂

    • @loves2learn millions of years of genetic programming i can't undo :(

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