Are you comfortable with sexting people or sending nudes?

If you are comfortable with it, do they have to be close friends, people you aren't linked with, are there limits to who you are and aren't comfortable sexting with?

If you are not comfortable with sexting, what is the reason?

If you are comfortable sending nudes, are there specific people you send to or can you comfortably send them to anyone?

If you are not comfortable sending nudes, what is the reason?

Linked with my last question, I am comfortable sexting people, so long as I know them well and the age difference is not big.

I am not comfortable with sending nudes, so I have never sent a nude to anyone.
Are you comfortable with sexting people or sending nudes?
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  • Sexting yeah it kinda improves your writing and imagination lol some of the good sexters are now erotic novelists or write erotic blog or stories. so yeah sexting is all good.

    Sending a nude depends you can't just go hi here's a dick you might wanna see that so uncool and stupid yea but if the sexting was arousing enough you wanna share then you can. Also I've met a very few girls who ask for nudes they can send theirs but mostly they don't want your nudes and nudes are so outdated it's just the people around 16-25 maybe are the one's who trade nudes.

    • I completely agree, sexting really improves imagination and writing, I find that reading a description of a sext seems more of a turn on than watching porn, because it is so much more descriptive and it involves you as a person. I also agree that people who want a nude pic of a dick is a minority, guys seem to think it is a thing girls will be impressed by, but if you talk with them regularly, you will find out that they often say it is a gross thing to find in their messages and don't want to receive them. 16-25 seems about right, because that ballpark is around the area where people are developing sexual interests and after they get a little interested, they want to explore new territories, like nude sending, which can be okay if with trustworthy people, but can also be very bad if with people much older than them or people who want to blackmail them into sending more nudes, it is a risky action and you have to really trust the person to send them.

  • Haha the pic is awesome.

    I am comfortable sending nudes.

    I have to know the person somewhat. They can't be a total stranger. And I never out my face in a nude. If you just start dating I don't think it's a big deal. And on some social apps you can set the picture to disappear after a few seconds.

    • I feel like those are some good rules to follow if you decide you can send nudes, makes things safer for you :)

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  • I never did it. I guess its because I was never comfortable with it.
    Thinking about it, i guess i would only consider doing it with a close friend that I trust.
    I never liked the idea of exposing myself to the public, especially with content that can be used for blackmailing. Like even without my face in a picture, if someone finds out the name that belongs to the subject in the picture, its gonna be a nightmare... That is if the person has bad intentions. Thus my only considering sharing with a close friend I trust.
    Id probably never send a nued... Boy I swear Writing this answer is gonna be the death of me... 'tis so hard T-T xDD... Im just trying to be courageous >.> and this has always been out of my comfort zone.

    I would like to try the sexting i guess xDDDD No idea how to go about it. I dont wanna shock a friend with it, but there is a friend id like to try that with. Im gonna need practice. I haven't even eer seen examples. Is there anyone more clueless than me around here? please teach me senpai T-T xDDDD ahaha

    • I agree, there is a real fear of someone taking advantage of the things you send, it's why I never sent any pictures of myself but only ever did back and forth sexual conversation with them, because we knew each other from school and so we trust each other but also if anything happened and either did so happen to try use the content against the other, we could report them to the school and parents. I have had friends who did send nudes, but she sent them with her face cropped out and she was also emotionally confused at the time, so I would say that it was a unhealthy choice for her since she didn't really know what she wanted to do. If you want to try it then that's great, but I recommend doing it with someone you know who looks like because it helps you build a visual picture when sexting. If you try doing it with a person you don't know or never seen, it is less sexual and more uncomfortable because you don't even know what they look like, which starts making people ask for photos so they know what they look like. I don't think there is really any practice, with sexting you just, say what sexual thoughts you are having about the person you are messaging, you describe what you want to do with them and that's it. Like between one of my friends it was like.. how do I do this without getting in trouble? I wrote to her that I slowly stroked up her leg while pinning her down She replied saying she pulled off my top Later she said she wanted things more aggressive so I messaged back with more stuff, but I am not including that because I value not getting in trouble on this website :D

    • So how would you bring up the subject to a friend, if its the first time you 2 are gonna try it?

    • Hmm... Maybe start off by being flirty with each other? Just to make sure you are both comfortable with it, if it gets past that stage and they are comfy with it, then you could say something like Hey, have you ever sexted? and if they say yeah then you have a full conversation on the topic, which can eventually lead to you both trying out dong it. If they say they haven't then you could ask if they want to, this is like a way of just seeing if you are trying with the right person, you aren't being too forceful and you are just inching little questions on the topic on them to see if they are open to sexting, which if they say yes then you could ask if they would like to try with you, see how you got that slow incline in conversation through questions that were not uncomfortable but would have been if it had not been eased into.

  • I have sent and received nudes. When I have sent them I never had my face in them. I was in a long distance relationship for a while and we would sext each other. Then we started doing facetime and Skype sex and watched each get off which was way fun.

    • Sounds like a good time :)

  • no I´m not comfortable with sending nudes and I´m not asking for nudes either. I´m more turned on by imagination and by describing and telling each other what like and how we might react. I like it more when we write our own story. I don´t like getting nudes because I like to fantasize about she might look.

    • Absolutely!

  • If you want to sext me I'd be delighted my hanouts is markscamell@gmail. com haha

    • I'm good thanks, maybe you will find some people in the age range of 60 who will take you up on that offer but not me.

    • Sorry it was worth a try Sorry no rudeness intended

    • No problem dude, no feelings hurt :)

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  • llololo Taylor is an ugly bitch, I believe that's her real photo

    • :D

      Are you comfortable with sexting people or sending nudes?

    • *vomits* lmao

  • Yeah, I'd make that picture look hot!

    • You are a man of miracles then! :D

    • You can look forward to a shining future in the Diplomatic Corps!

  • sexting yea but i dont do nudes

    • Good safe move in my opinion :)

  • I don't mind

    • Just be careful who you send them to :)

  • Not anymore 😅

    • There is a time when things you like change I guess :p

    • 🙇I had enough of that. I am currently changing my lifestyle. From The Americas, to Asia, if you know what I mean✌️

  • No. That's not something I participate in.

    • Very understandable

    • Thanks

  • Only to ONE Girl, my Fiancé. Otherwise, I'd be cheating.

    • Absolutely, you are a great man and I am so happy to know that you have that mindset, she is a lucky woman to get such a loyal man :)

  • I've done it.

    • Sexting is great fun isn't it

  • Sexting is comfortable to me but without involving exchange of nudes.

  • yes I am comfortable with sending and receiving

    • I could kind of tell based on your username :D

    • believe me even the name doesn't give me enough credit

  • Not really, no. Seems pointless and silly.

    • I believe it improves imagination in the sexual thoughts and makes things more immersive since you aren't actually there but using your mind to picture it, but such a preference would change between each person, some people prefer to see the action first hand :)

  • Yeah if my face isn't in them

    • a safe way of avoiding them exposing you :)

  • I send them to my (platonic) friend for art reference sometimes

    • Ah! Multiple uses! :)

  • Yes, I'm happy, and flattered, to send nudes to any woman who would like or appreciate such.