Are you confident enough to ask someone outright for sex?

I don't think this is a strange topic to discuss here.
But it really has me wondering, with all these relationship titles and issues with consent etc etc.
wouldn't it be easier to just say you just want sex?

Or is that just too upfront?
There's no wires being crossed, no decoding.

Do you think this question comes across differently depending on the gender asking?

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  • Yes. I can be very blunt about it.

  • Iilyanonoy1 do you want to have sex with me?

    • Pahaha... Umm... Are you any good?

    • I would never try to blow my own trumpet 😁 there is only one way to know how good l am. 😘

    • Hahaha...

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  • Not to a stranger. Most women wouldn't take to kindly to that I would assume lol

  • Depending on the situation, if I'm at a bar and I've been having a few drinks, I see someone that might interest me, I might joking when you walk up and say hey you want to fuck? They're either going to laugh, be totally pissed off or say fuck yes.

    • That's very interesting... I've always wondered what people have said to each other when they find themselves in the alley or out the back of a bar...

    • I wasn't talking about in the alley or the back of the bar. I mean if she's sitting on a bar stool and she's alone, meaning I haven't seen her with a dude, a little bit of liquid courage and I would definitely say something similar to that

    • I understood what you were saying to me!

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  • Confident enough? Yes, but I still wouldn't do it because it's disrespectful.

  • How hard could it be too say, ", hey, wanna f---?"

  • Confidence had nothing to do with it. I was raised Catholic.

  • For certain people, yes. But I respect people enough to just throw that on them, so to speak

  • "I think you are stunningly beautiful and I want to show you love."

  • It's a numbers game.
    You will get turned down, but you will also be successful.
    The more you ask, the greater the chances you will score.

  • No I am not confident enough to ask outright, kind of wish I was but too shy to ever do that.

    • Oh right, second part of question. I think a guy asking a girl this comes across as creepy, not so much if she is the one asking. There is You tube video's on this, social experiments. Guys going around asking girls to have sex with him or girls asking guys and you can see the different responses and how people react.

  • I haven’t done that in years. And even back then I usually let the other person make the first move.

  • I think that would only work for a woman. If a guy did it he would be turned down for sure.

  • I think i easily can

    • @elizamichale1 me too wouldn't mind you asking me. I would fuck you in a heartbeat

    • @elizamichale1 me too defiantly

    • @WhitneyE99 adds so sweet of you darling😘😘😘

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  • That for me would be something that me and a special woman would discuss when it comes to it

  • Online on apps yes but face 2 face it might be a bit awkward depending on the situation

  • I put it on all of my dating apps. that I'm just looking for FREAKY AZZ FUN.

    You'd be surprised how many 'conservative looking' or reserved women just keel over to me and ask me to come fulfill their raunchy fantasies. Women you'd never think were that sexual let their HOOE FLAG fly when they see a guy who is very sexually open and blunt about what the fuuck he wants. Just keep your body in somewhat decent shape, be upfront and it's easy to get females to jump into bed.

  • It would be easier but its not a norm in the western world. Direct sex request can easily end friendships, even before they begin. Rejection on its own is bad enough, having the rejectors brag, gossip and bully about ot is even worse.


    Many people who just want sex end up having it by leading others on. Like guys saying on dates they want a relationship or girls allowing guys to go all the way in their body only to find out the hard way they never got in their hearts.

  • I don't think it is important.

  • I dunno, you are kind of far

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