I don't think this is a strange topic to discuss here.
But it really has me wondering, with all these relationship titles and issues with consent etc etc.
wouldn't it be easier to just say you just want sex?
Or is that just too upfront?
There's no wires being crossed, no decoding.
Do you think this question comes across differently depending on the gender asking?
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Are you confident enough to ask someone outright for sex?
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What Girls & Guys Said
24 65I wouldn't ask a girl for sex unless I knew she wanted it
No. I won't have sex with someone unless 1 we are together in a relationship and 2 I'm in love
Yes, I’ve done that
As men we are damned if we do and damned if we don't. So many of us have learned not to ask in any form. Which leads to what I just said above.
No, I am not. But I wish I was.
Yeah but it goes against my values so I never would
Well you just wanna go up to a random person that you think is attractive and say "let's go have sex" but if you kinda know them first name basis and your both single then maybe you could but yeah it depends on gender if a girl asked the guy might say "sure let's go" and if a guy asked a girl to he might get a drink throw in his face or slapped.
Yeah, but i don't think chicks can handle rejection
As well as men
yes! i have always don so. you don't get if you don't ask
For men, its usually best to be ambiguous to some degree. While many women do in fact want and like casual sex, the fastest way to end the interaction with many women is to make it clear thats all you want. So if nobody says anything its not misleading and also does not turn the girl off.
yup. no problems at all
Screw sex! I want a beer and a sandwich.
No I couldn't do it... I mean I couldn't even straight up PM someone saying. Do you want sex?
Once upon a time, I made this kind of question!!!
All the titles, consent issues you speak of are lack of relationship experience and self knowledge.
Don't ask, do it.
I'm not entirely sure I'm following this response correctly...
Confident or not I’m not doing that
Nope i would be nervous
A random person no way😂 possibly a friend though
Will you have sex with me?
LOL
i have before. Sometimes you are super horny and just want to fuck