This is asking about relationship but is asked in sexuality so I am a bit confused. Is this about sexuality than I am his sub, if this is about relationship than we are totally neutral, equal.

i wear the shortskirts and will give a blowjob upon request i'd say i'm submissive

I'm 100% DOM I have a profile on FETLIFE and have been in the BDSM Scene for awhile. I have a few BDSM Subs right now, my main one is in Portland.

100% submissive. I tried to be dom once and it wasn’t fun for either of us.

Mostly submissive about 6 days a week then I'm in charge for the other day.

I can never understand this sub and dom stuff, even roleplay. Whenever I was forced to do it, I tried, but soon just burst out laughing and felt quite stupid. My scenes are so hot and steamy that usually there is no place for roleplay, there is little place for any non-sexual activity,,,, only serious passionate fucking. I guess the more hornier or person having the bigger orgasm or edging usually dominates, so I guess it's the bitch usually. Man, once a bitch gets light up, a man just cannot compete. It's not a fair fight. Men are reduced to a support role, it's just a no-contest. Like if a bitch had a boxing match with me.

Dominant. I think we should talk lol

I am dominant (mostly I think due to my line of work) and I have been told that I have a "dominant aura".

Are you dominant or submissive in relationships?

Anonymous

I'm 100% submissive

Dominant

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Submissive

Vote B

Neutral

Vote C

I am both sub and dom

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So far there are about the same amount of women that are submissive and men that are dominant. Is that biology?

1 mo

Most guys are more dominant than neutral and so far no girl is dominant.. and there's more girls who are submissive than neutral

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msmissydc Explorer
1 mo
This is asking about relationship but is asked in sexuality so I am a bit confused. Is this about sexuality than I am his sub, if this is about relationship than we are totally neutral, equal.
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- Asker
  1 mo
  Alright cool!
chrissykerdock Guru
1 mo
i wear the shortskirts and will give a blowjob upon request i'd say i'm submissive
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- YourExLover69
  1 mo
  Follow my profile Chrissy 😘 Want to discuss something about BJ situation with you
- insteadfew
  1 mo
  You trying to say that giving BJ is a submissive thing?

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Anonymous
1 mo
I'm 100% DOM
I have a profile on FETLIFE and have been in the BDSM Scene for awhile. I have a few BDSM Subs right now, my main one is in Portland.
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- Asker
  1 mo
  Nice! What does your relationships look like?
- Opinion Owner
  1 mo
  Send me a DM and I'll send my FETLIFE link She's on there linked to mine
- Asker
  1 mo
  Dont I need an account to see?
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- Opinion Owner
  1 mo
  Maybe I'll coerce you to get one and you can be my new subbie too >;-)~~~
- Asker
  1 mo
  New I can't.. am not having sex until marrige.. but thank you! Please explain here how it works? Do you live with some of them? Are they allowed to be with other BDSM masters? What do they get punnished for and how do they get punnished?
- Asker
  1 mo
  *no I can't
- Opinion Owner
  1 mo
  oh so you still have your V-Card huh You'll have to message me for more details, that's a lot to answer
- Asker
  1 mo
  Ok ill message you but dont tell anyone who I am please
- Opinion Owner
  1 mo
  ok but from now on you'll address me as SIR - DADDY or MASTER understood? DM saying YES DADDY I UNDERSTAND
Mickbert Xper 6
1 mo
100% submissive. I tried to be dom once and it wasn’t fun for either of us.
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- Asker
  1 mo
  Cool!

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BrookeAZ90 Yoda
1 mo
Mostly submissive about 6 days a week then I'm in charge for the other day.
1 1 0 0
Genie23 Guru
1 mo
I'm balanced.
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StormChaser838 Xper 5
1 mo
I can never understand this sub and dom stuff, even roleplay. Whenever I was forced to do it, I tried, but soon just burst out laughing and felt quite stupid. My scenes are so hot and steamy that usually there is no place for roleplay, there is little place for any non-sexual activity,,,, only serious passionate fucking. I guess the more hornier or person having the bigger orgasm or edging usually dominates, so I guess it's the bitch usually. Man, once a bitch gets light up, a man just cannot compete. It's not a fair fight. Men are reduced to a support role, it's just a no-contest. Like if a bitch had a boxing match with me.
0 0 0 0
- Asker
  30 d
  Alright then. No need to be in a role, all up to you... and why bitch?
TheSpaceGnome Guru
1 mo
Neutral.
1 0 0 0
Nikki1989 Master
1 mo
I can go either way.
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Wise4myage Master
1 mo
I am neutral.
1 0 0 0
badboy-hey Xper 5
1 mo
Dominant. I think we should talk lol
1 0 0 0
- Asker
  1 mo
  Lolll😅
- badboy-hey
  1 mo
  We could talk about anything tbh, GAG is so boringgg!!
- Asker
  1 mo
  Yeah.. what do you wanna talk about then?
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- badboy-hey
  1 mo
  Um.. We can start with how's life? lol
- Asker
  1 mo
  Ok might contact you later am going to my cousins.
- badboy-hey
  1 mo
  Sure, Have a good time! Maybe give me a follow
- Asker
  1 mo
  Thank you, you too
Amishaxx Xper 4
1 mo
Both but more of a sub
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Nightmoon83 Xper 4
1 mo
I am definitely both
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FireFox001 Xper 6
1 mo
I am dominant (mostly I think due to my line of work) and I have been told that I have a "dominant aura".
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- Asker
  1 mo
  Okay what places are you dominant in and where are you more submissive
- FireFox001
  1 mo
  I am not submissive in any place. I can be reasoned with and I am not too proud to admit if I am wrong. - I am dominant in bed - I am dominant if the girl can't decide (I'll take the helm, so to say) - I am neutral in conflict situations, again I can be reasoned with Being submissive to me is to do things that you would not be willing to do otherwise - which does not happen with me. But most, if not all girls liked this, that I have been together with.
- Asker
  1 mo
  Alright then. Thanks for explaining
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- FireFox001
  1 mo
  You are most welcome. I'm here to do that :D Feel free to ask anything else.
- Asker
  1 mo
  Okay thank you😊. Do you have rules in a relationship? And when you say you are dominant in bed does she have a say in what will happen or no?
- FireFox001
  1 mo
  Everyone should have rules in their relationship. And yes, I do. I don't control the girl's life, make no mistake, but there are a few things that should be set down at the beginning (e. g. personal space, and the fact that I hate blowjobs, etc.). Being dominant in bed means you take initiative. I'll not bore the entire audience with this, but if you want examples, send a PM. Naturally, the girl has say in what is happening, because being dominant does not equal to doing something that she would not like. But you can still take initiative, use handcuffs, etc.
- Asker
  1 mo
  Alright I understand. Thank you:)
- FireFox001
  1 mo
  You are most welcome!
nudeNhorny Guru
1 mo
In relationship I'm dominant, but in bed I'm a bit submissive.
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- Asker
  1 mo
  How does that work? What in relationship makes you dominant and what in sex makes you submissive?
- nudeNhorny
  1 mo
  It works, I like to be the one to take decisions or take control of every aspect of the relationship except in sex, I like to let go and let my partner take control in that area.
- Asker
  1 mo
  Alright, I see glad it works! What happens if she breaks a rule?
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- nudeNhorny
  1 mo
  I am not a control freak, I just like things in certain ways, so if she ever breaks a rule, we sure sit and talk, and I make it clear to her that it shouldn't be this way.
- Asker
  1 mo
  Alright cool!
alearningboy Xper 4
1 mo
Im the dominant one but sometimes I like to be submissive to.
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FOT88 Xper 1
1 mo
100% dominant.
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Anonymous
1 mo
Sexually submissive.
0 0 0 0
Anonymous
1 mo
I'm a bisexual crossdresser who has a Dominatrix, so definitely submissive.
1 0 0 0
Anonymous
1 mo
Submissive. I dominate my man with my submissiveness. Men are so easy.
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- insteadfew
  1 mo
  What do you mean