Are you dominant or submissive in relationships?

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Dominant
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Neutral
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I am both sub and dom
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So far there are about the same amount of women that are submissive and men that are dominant. Is that biology?
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Most guys are more dominant than neutral and so far no girl is dominant.. and there's more girls who are submissive than neutral
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Most Helpful Girls

  • This is asking about relationship but is asked in sexuality so I am a bit confused. Is this about sexuality than I am his sub, if this is about relationship than we are totally neutral, equal.

    • Alright cool!

  • i wear the shortskirts and will give a blowjob upon request i'd say i'm submissive

    • Follow my profile Chrissy 😘 Want to discuss something about BJ situation with you

    • You trying to say that giving BJ is a submissive thing?

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm 100% DOM

    I have a profile on FETLIFE and have been in the BDSM Scene for awhile. I have a few BDSM Subs right now, my main one is in Portland.

    • Nice! What does your relationships look like?

    • Send me a DM and I'll send my FETLIFE link She's on there linked to mine

    • Dont I need an account to see?

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  • 100% submissive. I tried to be dom once and it wasn’t fun for either of us.

    • Cool!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I'm balanced.

  • Mostly submissive about 6 days a week then I'm in charge for the other day.

  • I can never understand this sub and dom stuff, even roleplay. Whenever I was forced to do it, I tried, but soon just burst out laughing and felt quite stupid. My scenes are so hot and steamy that usually there is no place for roleplay, there is little place for any non-sexual activity,,,, only serious passionate fucking. I guess the more hornier or person having the bigger orgasm or edging usually dominates, so I guess it's the bitch usually. Man, once a bitch gets light up, a man just cannot compete. It's not a fair fight. Men are reduced to a support role, it's just a no-contest. Like if a bitch had a boxing match with me.

    • Alright then. No need to be in a role, all up to you... and why bitch?

  • I can go either way.

  • Neutral.

  • Both but more of a sub

  • I am neutral.

  • Dominant. I think we should talk lol

    • Lolll😅

    • We could talk about anything tbh, GAG is so boringgg!!

    • Yeah.. what do you wanna talk about then?

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  • I am definitely both

  • I am dominant (mostly I think due to my line of work) and I have been told that I have a "dominant aura".

    • Okay what places are you dominant in and where are you more submissive

    • I am not submissive in any place. I can be reasoned with and I am not too proud to admit if I am wrong. - I am dominant in bed - I am dominant if the girl can't decide (I'll take the helm, so to say) - I am neutral in conflict situations, again I can be reasoned with Being submissive to me is to do things that you would not be willing to do otherwise - which does not happen with me. But most, if not all girls liked this, that I have been together with.

    • Alright then. Thanks for explaining

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  • In relationship I'm dominant, but in bed I'm a bit submissive.

    • How does that work? What in relationship makes you dominant and what in sex makes you submissive?

    • It works, I like to be the one to take decisions or take control of every aspect of the relationship except in sex, I like to let go and let my partner take control in that area.

    • Alright, I see glad it works! What happens if she breaks a rule?

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  • Im the dominant one but sometimes I like to be submissive to.

  • 100% dominant.

  • Sexually submissive.

  • I'm a bisexual crossdresser who has a Dominatrix, so definitely submissive.

  • Submissive. I dominate my man with my submissiveness. Men are so easy.

    • What do you mean