Are you dominant or submissive?

Are you dominant or submissive?
Are you more of the dominant or submissive type in bed?

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  • I'm really not into being dominant in any situation. I like to be in control of myself but not others, except in the bedroom, then I'm happy to let the girl do with me as she wants (up to a point). But I say I like a more balanced relationship. Basically anything but me being dom.

    • Thanks for MHO!

  • Not just in bed 😂

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  • Totally submissive.

    I tried the dominant role and I'm a big flop at it ... lol

    The submissive role comes naturally.

    I much rather like just being who I really am :)

    OK naughty girl, so you promise to do as I say next time?
    OK naughty girl, so you promise to do as I say next time?
  • I am a switch but I would say I'm submissive about 70-80% of the time.

    • A bit of the opposite to me as well. Like, I'd see myself as a cross between Switch & Dominant. Mainly 'cause if I'm always dominant, I'd eventually run out ideas to "experiment" with., and would hope that my what-if/would-be girlfriend would have an idea (or 2) of her own in mind by then.

  • Submissive

  • It depends on the other person. I have a strong personality so I end up being the more dominant one usually. But some men command respect and can put me in my place. I love to submit to men like that.

  • Why this fascination with bed when people ask these questions, yes outside of BDSM it likely is just the place people have sex, however for BDSM it’s different really.

    A Dom / Domme is Dominant as part of who they are, it’s not just a bedroom role, it’s really a lifestyle.

    This is especially true with CNC lifestyles.

  • C. Depends on the day or mood.

  • Switch but more submissive, especially with younger guys but there’s a guy who’s 2 years older he’s kind of cute I work with him, so who knows what can happen in my future lol.

  • I'm mostly dominant, but we switch around sometimes because she 'likes controlling muscly guys'

  • Virgin, but submissive for the most part.

  • A mix of both

  • More dominant, but can be slightly submissive depending on the scenario.

  • I’m definitely submissive

  • I would say that in my case, it can change between Switch & Dom.

  • Absolutely must be fully evenly mutual!

  • Dom.

  • Mostly sub but not 100%

  • I am super Submissive

  • well i am a sub n i like being told what to do

  • Dominant... and she loves it.

  • I'm a sadistic BDSM Dom
    I've bagged over 500+ biitches and some became my BDSM Subs and Slaves.
    I'm on FETLIFE
    My SN on Fetlife is : VikingMaverick

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