Are you dominant or submissive when sexting?

I like to be sub bc I normally am in sex. Whats your preference? Do you like to be controlling and detailing what you would do, or would you rather sit back and listen to what ur partner wants to do to you?
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  • I don't sext. But if I did I would be submissive at first and then switch to dominant. (Hmm... I might actually do that in real life, too; I don't know.). The reason I would be submissive at first is because I want to make sure it's something she actually wants to do. So maybe coy would be a better word than submissive. And the other reason would be that I'm kind of a prude, I guess, so I would be very hesitant to agree to do anything. But once she finally pulls me into it then my wild side would come out and I would be very bold.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I prefer not sexting much in the first place, since it's just frustrating. I don't want to be teased about fucking a girl-- I want to fuck the girl. Sexting is basically just teasing and teasing is stupid, unless it's going to lead to sex in the immediate future.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I love sexting with family and friends and im very submissive in sexting and in real sex

    • With family and friends! Not with strangers

    • Yes strangers too lol

    • Cool... Are you free now

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  • I have been both dom and sub but most of the time I love dominating.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Dominant is who I am. Regardless of the situation, that's what I'm always going to be.

  • Tbh I'm submissive 😅

    • lol u should pm me

  • I am dominant in real. Haven't tried sexting that much. But I would like to experiment being both

  • I think I am more sharing and it ebbs and flows.

  • I like all the above I guess control it because I start out with the story line then I do into detail everything I would do. I'm an Empath and it's weird because I can feel the girl who I am doing it with through her words and if I'm doing it on the phone and I can hear everything she is doing from breathing to her wetness and moans i can make her cum faster or slower

  • Submissive in text and sex

  • I dont really sext but I'm assuming I would want to sit back and listen so I can have both hands free to handle my business

  • I dont really do Sexting tbf, but I'm always dominant during sex, however sometimes i do like to let go of the reigns and let the woman i'd be with take a little control...

  • Sub, but i am too at sex so i guess it translates

  • I am more dominate but don’t mind being submissive sometimes so either or

  • Whatever my partner wants

  • What ever my master tells me. Last night I was a table so she could rest her legs on me. Tonight hopefully I’m the vacuum.

  • Submissive.

  • Both.

  • I can be both but I'm usually more on the dominant side.

  • Dominant

  • Well I am usually be the one who gives it first

  • Im dom... and kinky

    • what kinks?

    • To be rough, humiliating etc

    • at sexting or sex?

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  • submissive

  • I don't sext, but I've been both dom and sub between different relationships. Not exactly sure which role I like most yet.

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