Are you getting kinkier as you are getting older?

As I have gotten older I noticed that I have been getting kinkier in my sexual thoughts and actions. In other words I am willing to try things as I got older that I wouldn't have tried when I was younger such as role playing' light to heavy bondage, edging play and post orgasm play. Am I alone in this thinking or are there more older, kinky people out there?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I am with you on this. In my youth there was no way I would have allowed my woman to have sex with another guy. Now I find dong threesomes (MMF) extremely erotic. I am not gay in any way. I love watching a woman enjoying two cocks in her. Not sure why. And don't care why. It is the most erotic sex I have ever had.

  • I don't know, it could be the internet and things like that - When I was 18 I didn't even know a quarter of what was out there - Sexual adventurism was switching position during sex - Am I kinkier now than I was then, probably not as I never seem to prefer anything beyond light stuff.

    • I heard of BDSM back in the late 70's, but, it was a "back room activity" you had to join a fetish club and there seemed to be a lot of shady characters that were kind of scary to someone in their early 20's. We are into the bondage, but, not into pain & humiliation aspect.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't know, I think I've always been quite kinky. I'm not getting any LESS kinky, that's for damn sure.

    • lol ain't that the truth! lol

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  • Absolutely. I am getting kinkier as I get older.

  • Yes! Absolutely !

  • Some just lose interest and dry up but for others we want to go to more exotic things to keep the same highs we got from those first handjobs in our teens.

  • I would think I am. Although I haven't done it yet, I know I would gladly try out certain things I used to think were wrong or just too weird.

  • Not that I consider myself old lol but yeah my mindset is a lot kinkier than a couple years ago.

  • I completely agree with you. I've noticed it too

  • I know I am, I try things I would have never try when I was teen

  • Nope.