Are you girls ok with getting tied up and being used during sex?

[Anonymous]

Are you girls ok with getting tied up and being used during sex?

[Anonymous]

Tied up? Maybe, depends on my mood. It would be pretty hot, but I wouldn't want to be completely tied up. Having my hands tied together would be enough, I don't want to feel like I'm trapped or anything. I'd like to tie my guy up too just to see how it would affect him.
But being used is not really my thing. I'd like to feel equal to whoever I'm sleeping with. Like obviously I wouldn't mind being submissive from time to time (like being tied up) but generally speaking, I'd prefer a more loving approach to sex. I don't want to feel like I'm just his toy, I want to feel as though it's more than that.

[Asker]

what do you meant by " just to see how it would affect him"?

[Opinion Owner]

Just to see if he would like it or not. Like how he'd react. I like being a tease :)

[Anonymous]

It's what I prefer, yes.
Maybe not being tied up... that's fun sometimes, but I prefer brute force, flesh on flesh, him actually holding me down rather than tying my up.

[Asker]

flesh on flesh?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, his own body, hands, arms, legs restraining me, rather than foreign objects.

[Asker]

got it. so I just guess that you have been like that before. is it? what kind of feeling it makes, I mean mentally? what's so great about it?

[Opinion Owner]

I just like the surrender of it, of knowing I belong to him, knowing he wants to use me in every way, it's strangely empowering and freeing.

[Asker]

but why there are limits then? getting tied up etc?

[Opinion Owner]

No limit, really... I just *prefer* flesh on flesh force.

[kheserthorpe]

Because being tied up suggests you're a weak loser who isn't strong enough to hold her down like a man :p

[Opinion Owner]

Well, yeah, haha! It is a turn on to see and feel his strength.

[Asker]

what I like about tying her up is, I can have my hands free to grab her tits freely, pulling her hair, slapping ass, play with pussy and all.

[musicbrain5]

Being tied up is a lot of fun and I love to tie him up too. Being used, not so much. I'm not that submissive.

[Asker]

really? first time I see a girl genuinely say that she like to tie up her man. that's my greatest fantasy

[musicbrain5]

It's hot.

[johnmsk]

I once tried with a girl. Before tying we agreed would not do anal or anything harmful to her or uneasy for her. After tying spent a lot of time admiring her body in fore play, licking n teasing all over her till she literally was pushing her hips up asking to take her any way i want. I kept on caressing her with a feather n then put vanilla ice cream on her nipples n licked it clean. Later i took her all the way, slow at first, then harder... She absolutely loved it.. said it was one of the best orgasms ever.

[GrowStrong]

well yeah its something that can spice up your love life, but it dpends on what u mean as being used just make sure you do it with somebody in a relationship and its concentual haha

[emkbot]

Well, virgin opinion, no. The thought makes me uncomfortable.

[Teray1]

Love it! my hand cuffs are purple and plush

[Asker]

you don't mind both being tied up and getting used?

[Teray1]

Its not about that. Its about trust. And giving and wanting to please and satisfy.

[Imonlyhereforabit]

Lol where did all the submissive girls go?

[DrVin0195]

Virgin here, I thought the idea of Handcuffs were kinda cool but thats about it

[knotme]

Yes, but only with a certain person I know.

[Asker]

and with that for which extent?

[knotme]

There are no limits with us. It just between us two though

[Annymous8]

I'd like that.

[Asker]

how would you feel?

[Annymous8]

That's my fantasy, so I would be loving it and turned on.

[Asker]

some girls say that it destroys girl's self dignity, so what makes you different?

[Annymous8]

If he's not calling me bitch or whore and hurting me, then there's nothing wrong with it.

[zombiebabe]

being tied up to get fucked? not my thing

[Emiliaxo]

Hmm well it depends what he wants to do to me! Getting tied up might be fun but not to a point where its torture for me! Used during sex... what exactly do you mean with that? being very submissive or?

[05Jueey]

Sometimes.

[Asker]

on what it depends?

[05Jueey]

Just if I want it that day or not

[Asker]

I see :)

[iampikachu]

Only with a person I absolutely trust.

[Asker]

tell me more, I'm not 100% clear about how the trust involved?

[iampikachu]

I would only do it with a partner in in a solid relationship.

[TheNewClassic]

Being used sounds very nice but I don't know about the tied up part...

[douride2]

Not into being tied up or used.

[Anonymous]

Not my thing.

[Anonymous]

Girls love it.. that explains the success of the super weird book "50 shades of grey"

[Asker]

not all I guess. for example some of girls answered before you :)

[Anonymous]

I haven't tried it but it seems like it's not fun. I mean, girls are treated like 'animals' instead of being 'Queen-making-love-moment'. I mean, it's like abusing the girl's dignity or herself. Btw, it's not being submissive.

[harakiri]

how is that not being submissive?

[05Jueey]

Trust me, it's being submissive. There's a wife range of ways to be submissive

[05Jueey]

wide*

[Opinion Owner]

Not at all times tho that girls are submissive. Guys just love playing to be the dominant one that's why they tied up girls. :3

[Asker]

tying up a girl to dominate is kind of shame for a guy isn't it? I mean guys have all the things to dominate her even without tying her up. I love to tie her softly though, just enough that she can't move her arms and legs