Are you more kinky or vanilla?

[Lisia]

Vanilla sex = Sex that involves no twists or kinkiness, and no S&M. Basically plain regular sex. Typically sweet and happy and very lovey-dovey.

I'm both, depends on my mood really. I don't like anything TOO crazy tho. Hbu?

[Kaneki05]

My mind is a mess, and likes a variety of stuff a lot of it ain't... even things that can happen realistically. So it would lead into a lot of roleplay I guess.
I don't have any fetish where something needs to be present though and out of my many likes I don't expect them to be all done.
And honestly I like somethings that I doubt I would actually like but a fantasy for sure, then I have others that I kinda know why I like it but not really.

So yeah like I said, my mind is a mess and as such my sexual stuff is way worse lol.
And I am mostly sub but again my mind is well so, so I am also for sure dom granted I am for sure not confident in it.
Trying to get so.
And I go from been a masochist to sadist to somehow both at the same time. And one day I think oh I will find that hot today another day I will find something else so.

I be a enigma hard to pin down only consistent is my more leaning sub. So no wouldn't say Vanilla describes me at all, even tho I would love Vanilla too.

Handcuffing is fun but that for sure needs more roleplay, I don't see how that can be fun if that's just it... like handcuffed and over? Me confused.
Sex in Public that's hot, and daring hehe.

I am still a virgin so haven't done much. But kinkiest, is been teased and denied while she also benefits for me buying her a pack of cigs lol. Sounds dumb but it was hot. Then something a bit more extreme, drinking each others blood.
It wasn't anything drastic but certainly not what your average person does. I like the taste of blood so, and she liked well. Can't say on here without this Op getting removed.

[Lisia]

Where did the blood come from? And yeah the handcuffing had role play going on and a lot of teasing, being denied my pussy, edging, all the good stuff!

[Kaneki05]

Her, can't say much more than that here. Though also a bit from me. She was up for turning the tables. Damn... yeah that's the good stuff! For sure needed.

[Lisia]

I love making a man beg 😌

[Kaneki05]

haha don't make me picture it! So guessing your a switch too?

[Lisia]

Yep, sure am! ☺️ Love being dominant tho

[Kaneki05]

So opposite to me more leaning the Dom? Always gotta love a girl who's got that dom in her :)

[Lisia]

Yep exactly 😌 I love taking the lead

[molonski2]

@lisia Begging scenario in roleplaying is awesome

[Worst]

[Worst]

fuck lol thats over a year old

[Lisia]

Bruhhh no way I did that test once too 😭 tf is a brat tho?

[Worst]

@lisia someone who enjoys misbehaving to their dom

[Lisia]

Lol that fits u so well

[Worst]

Thanks lol

[7Phoenix7]

What's switch

[Worst]

@7phoenix7 someone who is both submissive and dominant

[Lisia]

@7Phoenix7 Someone's who's a dom and a sub. So they can alternate between the 2

[Lisia]

Someone*

[Worst]

@lisia lol you just copied my answer

[Lisia]

I explained it better than u

[Worst]

Explain deez nuts

[Lisia]

What kind of nuts?

[Worst]

Deez

[Lisia]

Which ones?

[Worst]

Deezㅤ

[7Phoenix7]

@lisia @worst ohh ok. Lisia is both, she handcuffed her boyfriend to the bed lol

[Lisia]

Don't see 'em

[Worst]

@7Phoenix7 yeah lol the police should be doing it tho @lisia check dms

[Lisia]

I'll dress up as a cop so I can handcuff him some more

[Worst]

@lisia great lol

[7Phoenix7]

Lol.

[Worst]

@7phoenix7 thanks lol

[7Phoenix7]

@worst for what lol

[Worst]

@7Phoenix7 handcuffing me to the bed lol

[7Phoenix7]

@worst you're welcome but it wasn't me it was that guy you always talk to lol

[Worst]

@7Phoenix7 yeah lol he's my boyfriend

[7Phoenix7]

@worst lol u gonna cheat on him with me?

[Worst]

@7Phoenix7 yeah lol just dont tell him

[7Phoenix7]

@worst alright bet lol

[Worst]

@7Phoenix7 great lol i'll see you soon @lisia begging is prolly a top 3 turn on

[Lisia]

Yeah fr teasing and begging 😩

[Worst]

yeah lol and pissin

[Lisia]

Bruh what 💀

[Worst]

@lisia thats a lie lol pissin ain't top 3

[Lisia]

What do you even mean? Pissing in them? On them? Around them? 💀

[Worst]

@lisia not sure about in, but on, yes

[Lisia]

Lol each their own ig

[Worst]

@lisia yeah lol drinkin piss rn

[Lisia]

Must be tasty 💀

[Worst]

@lisia yeah lol i would never do that i ain't sick

[Lisia]

I mean- it's gag, I wouldn't be surprised.

[Worst]

expect the unexpected

[7Phoenix7]

@worst u never showed up I was waiting lol

[Worst]

@7Phoenix7 im almost there lol

[NamerOfStars]

A "kink" is a tight curl, like you see in certain types of worked metal. This has never really fit against vanilla, which is a plant, spice, or bean, depending on context. Insofar as vanilla is by FAR the aggrieved party (the term is almost used as an insult, which I find deeply insulting to a VERY legitimate spice and flavor), I propose we replace "kinky" with a more direct and suitable counterpart. Since we're talking about tight twists and spiciness, I propose "paprika-laced curly fries" or "paprika", for short.

On the scale of vanilla to paprika, I'd put myself at... garlic. Spicy, and in a number of ways whose width surprises people, but not really extreme. And now hungry for curly fries, but in an entirely non-metaphorical way.

[Lisia]

Vanilla is delicious

[PositiveFlight]

I’m not into crazy, violent, nasty, and unnatural stuff. I’m much more vanilla by today’s standards. I believe in romantic loving intimacy. I’m also PIV only. I feel that if I’m going to be engaged in an act with a woman that’s based on physical love that I should be loving and respectful. It’s not a porn flick to me. Its becoming one flesh with another living human being. She isn’t an object. She has the needs to be loved and cherished as a person. I treat her accordingly.

[Lisia]

That's really cute!

[PositiveFlight]

Cute in a good or cheesy way? 😂 To some on here, my views are pretty cheesy

[Lisia]

In a good way! You're more romantic, I respect that.

[PositiveFlight]

Thank you 🙏 😊

[Lisia]

You're welcome 😊

[PositiveFlight]

I just read your updates. Everything you listed there I’m totally fine doing and have done some although I love the romantic stuff most. The stuff that crosses the line for me is anything that’s painful, nasty, or degrading such as ejaculating on her face or mouth, anal, slapping, hitting, choking, calling her names such as slut, bitch, etc. A woman to me is a queen and my sweetheart and should be respected in the highest as such and feel safe, especially during sex when she is most vulnerable both emotionally and physically.

[Lisia]

Aw so cute yeah I don't like getting hurt either but pulling hair, choking and slapping done gently can be a huge turn-on.

[JackCarter]

I just love your opinions Sir ! Glad to know some sane people still exist

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think I'm kinky. I've never done anything, but I think being vanilla would get boring. Plus, I have a creative mind and love thinking about roleplays or just ideas in general.

[Still-alive]

hey as long as you're open minded to try new things its good. sexually adventurous women are hot hehe

[PBandJ_Nerd]

@Still-alive Well, I'm virgin so LOL. There'd be a lot for my future partner to explore with me at least. One positive side to look at.

[Still-alive]

ohh exploration is hot too. then when you discover what gets you off the most its pretty nice ;)

[PBandJ_Nerd]

@Still-alive Yeah. I'm not a visual person so I figured out a few things that might be helpful (and useful) many years later. But in the meantime, just think up of fun scenarios.

[molonski2]

@pbandj_nerd Please see my question on roleplaying , I really love all that kind of stuff.

[7Phoenix7]

Yea same, depends on my mood. I like both, though

[Lisia]

Best of both worlds ✨

[molonski2]

More Kinky , as it makes things far more exciting , I love Roleplaying , and love being denied , her looking in my eyes and saying " You are NOT going to fck me " , like slapping , and getting slapped really hard across my face ( like on movies ) ..

Have also actually played his fantasy out , in a rather crowded stripclub , you could have heard a pin drop , just everyone was focused , you could see the thoughts " What did he do to her " , men and women , it was planned but so real.

Just love it..

[Leowolf13]

I thought I would be the vanilla guy but I’ve found myself pushing the boundary (in a good way) as far as daring to do something in an inappropriate place. Basically, I have tried to have public sex or foreplay where there are people very close by

[kitsachie]

I'm demisexual I suppose. It takes me loving someone for me to want to have sex with them, so as a result I have a pretty low body count I'm proud of.

Regardless, I'm extremely kinky, I've made everyone I've been with orgasm and I love trying new things/exposing the people I'm with to some of my more fun kinks.

My dream partner is someone who's into all the same fun stuff I am because I don't like making someone do something wild if they're not into it, but sex isn't a huge deal breaker to me in a relationship.

[mandyfire98]

I don't do bdsm or anything but I'd say I'm kinky. I like rough sex a bit and dirty talk always. I also enjoy group sex.

[patrick994]

Honestly I am much more kinky, just vanilla sex bores me after a while.

[NathanDavis]

never plain, that's for sure...

I do have a few moods, and gears, and paces though... also, very important what she is into and then, what we might explore or get intrigued further along...

[Paul_in_Indy]

I’m vanilla. …but that doesn’t always mean lovey-dovey. Vanilla sex can get hard and fast and hungry. Trust me…

[Lyndsielee666]

Shesh

[swettannie]

nice result, kina have the same

[DevikaButts95]

Well given that I spent today getting my feet kissed by a boy along with a few of my gal pals followed by sitting on my girlfriends' faces for nearly 6 hours now, I'm gunna say I'm pretty kinky. Lmao.

[BlondeGoneWild]

Very kinky

[colaman94]

Vanilla boring me 👌🏻👍😋😁👀🥤🥤🤤

[colaman94]

@Lisia Deep down, do you just prefer, or women you've known or know of in university, prefer just.. vanilla? I know how I like my milkshakes for years now, genuinely: I buy vanilla shakes 🥤👀😋

[colaman94]

Burger King like 👑 delicious 😋

[Lisia]

Burger king oreo shake

[colaman94]

I'll raise you a plain medium vanilla shake. Plain is boring bliss, plain jane's 😊👀😛🥤🥤👌🏻😛😋

[colaman94]

(I'd rather just buy a packet of Oreo's, if I wanted Oreo's). Lol. 😏 No shake required. Lol 😆🤣

[Lisia]

I don't like basic vanilla above other stuff tbh. But my boyfriend is the same

[colaman94]

Your boyfriend is vanilla as vanilla, you mean?

[colaman94]

Ever a source of tension or thinking he's a good match relationship wise? I just like to be nosey 👃🏻

[Lisia]

He's vanilla but open and he likes anal so 💀

[colaman94]

You mean he likes receiving anal? I'm pretty sure in the past you've declared you'd never receive anal and right on lady. I for one don't want stool leakage or worse lol 😂 neither giving neither receiving anal. Uh uh 🧐🤔

[colaman94]

Do you like burger king much? 😁😅 Or any fast food chain

[Lisia]

I love burger king but also other fast food places lol! And no I received 2 times but hated it

[colaman94]

Oh okay 👍🏻👌🏻 well have a good day

[colaman94]

Sent you a DM 🥳

[colaman94]

@Lisia fair enough, no need to worry about the message, I've moved on topics, none of my business merrily 😌😃

[Bricealan]

I wanted to tie her to the bed - spreadeagled, blindfold her and put earmuffs on her. Naked of course. Then parade the neighborhood through the bedroom, while we bang.

What? Too kinky? I thought it was kinda vanilla?

[Simslover92]

Mostly vanilla though we have blindfolded each other. I want to be more kinky in the bedroom though.

[JohnK123]

Ooo like what

[lilBigPotato]

I see myself more in the kinky side. Nothing crazy but just vanilla gets boring over time. Having some variety is nice

[Lisia]

Yeah exactly

[DarkWinterNights]

Vanilla. The kink stuff tends to lead to weirder and weirder stuff. I dated a girl that wanted me to choke her until she passed out. I declined because it made me uncomfortable, she got upset, I couldn’t get it up after that and we broke up a couple days later lol.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Mostly vanilla.